I'm saying that mistreating others is not just at their expense, but at one's own as well.
Jeremy wants to know who you are that he should adopt your view of what mistreatment is?
Jeremy knows that you are a by-product of socio-biological evolutionary processes just like he is. He asks, why should your view be seen as worthy of adopting as opposed to his own if his own suits his self-interests just the way he wants it to?
He wants to know, very seriously.....are you God?
Because it is in his best interests.
Jeremy is astonished that you would presume to tell him what is in his own best interest!!!!!:o
He likens you to the hell-fire and brimstone preacher who commands all the wicked to repent and believe because it is in their best interest!!!!!
There is a natural human good that is preferable to the alternatives precisely because he is a human being.
Why should I adopt your view of what "is a natural human good"?
I don't assume anything. I regard the human good as real and beyond mere agreement or opinion. If he doesn't understand what that good is, then he lacks skill at living a human life. It's his loss.
My my my!
Why should I regard what you regard? Who are you to say that someone lacks skill at living a human life?
Are you God? Did you make humans? Did you instruct them in the way they should live?
Are you not an evolved primate, like I?
Then, sadly, he will act in ways that are self-destructive and he won't be doing what he is ethically obligated to do.
No, he will be doing the self-serving, egotistical, thing to do because he can and can get away with it and because no one else can legitimately pass judgment on him and because HE has determined that it is IN HIS best interest to do what he wants to do.
Mark telling Jeremy that his actions are self-destructive is like Jeremy telling Mark that his actions are self-destructive.
Weird huh?
I don't know what you mean by "pure self-interest". Perhaps you mean to ask me what if he intends to steal other people's iPads anyway? Then he will reap the consequences, both external and internal.
Indeed. He will have the free iPad with all of your personal information on it which he can sell on the black market or use for whatever purpose he sees fit. The internal consequence is the wonderful feeling of having once again used the system and used another homo sapien for his advantage.
We can't live on pure desire or instinct.
You can't. Jeremy can. He has been for over 60 years and is able to run 3 miles a day, do 200 pushups and can talk philosophy all day long with no sign of slowing down. His conscience is clear, and he has prepared a nice little nest egg and has money in the bank.
We, as human beings, need to understand the world in conceptual terms and to reason from our understanding in order to produce both material and psychological values and thereby find well-being as human beings. That's part of what makes us the species that we are. There is no substitute for this.
Jeremy agrees. There is no substitute for well being. All is well with him and his and he has attained this well being by lying, cheating, stealing and defrauding whenever he is sure he can get away with it.
Then he will be missing out on a longer, and probably better, life.
You cannot project onto Jeremy, your views and goals and aspirations. He has his own goals.
Yes, he is obligated, because it actually is in his best interests to do so.
Actually it is in Jeremy's best interest to ignore your efforts of converting him.
I don't care what his definition of success is.
With a sentence you have stated Jeremy's whole attitude towards your attempts at convincing him to adopt your views.