- Apr 30, 2013
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Pastor gave a sermon today on the Prodigal Son, but he really focused on the younger prodigal son, and not the elder brother (and sadly, our lectionary reading abridged this passage), and I wanted him to see how it could be heard as a tool of oppression, and not just comfort. Sometimes this is used as a story to communicate "Humility for thee, but not for me", or what I like to call, "repentance inappropriate content".
I had trouble explaining myself but we eventually did reach a common vocabulary. He said that sometimes, people can feel they are earning their repentance, by feeling pride in feeling guilty. And that's exactly what I was trying to communicate to him, that it's not good enough to merely feel guilty when you get called out or catch yourself doing something bad, you also have to realize you have hurt another person. People should care about justice and compassion- pious guilt is not a substitute for those things, even if packaged in a sermon about a beloved parable.
So, I think I am making progress with my pastor. I am trying to help him see that messages that he thinks are comforting are not necessarily, because some of us have actually been oppressed by messages telling us to just be more humble or more repentant.
And I realized, when you take it in the wider perspective, the story of the Prodigal Son is really good news indeed, because it means there is forgiveness for both the Prodigal and the Older Brother, without neglecting the real pain that Older Brothers of the world cause through their shaming, persecution, and stigmatization. But it has to be preached with sensitivity to the historic role that Christianity has had in oppressing minorities and the poor.
It was really tough to talk to Pastor about this but I felt I had to. I think I have to decompress a bit because I'm not used to having to talk to authority figures like that, everything I experienced in Orthodoxy worked against it.
What really triggered this conversation was Jane the Bane linking a video on Youtube, Counterpoint, which was about how political/cultural conservatives like Jordan Peterson are using religious symbolism to promote self help as an alternative to addressing social justice. It got me thinking about how people can hear religious messages as tools of oppression, and I don't think that's right, so I wanted to try to make a difference and try to get my pastor to see concretely how these messages can be damaging.
I had trouble explaining myself but we eventually did reach a common vocabulary. He said that sometimes, people can feel they are earning their repentance, by feeling pride in feeling guilty. And that's exactly what I was trying to communicate to him, that it's not good enough to merely feel guilty when you get called out or catch yourself doing something bad, you also have to realize you have hurt another person. People should care about justice and compassion- pious guilt is not a substitute for those things, even if packaged in a sermon about a beloved parable.
So, I think I am making progress with my pastor. I am trying to help him see that messages that he thinks are comforting are not necessarily, because some of us have actually been oppressed by messages telling us to just be more humble or more repentant.
And I realized, when you take it in the wider perspective, the story of the Prodigal Son is really good news indeed, because it means there is forgiveness for both the Prodigal and the Older Brother, without neglecting the real pain that Older Brothers of the world cause through their shaming, persecution, and stigmatization. But it has to be preached with sensitivity to the historic role that Christianity has had in oppressing minorities and the poor.
It was really tough to talk to Pastor about this but I felt I had to. I think I have to decompress a bit because I'm not used to having to talk to authority figures like that, everything I experienced in Orthodoxy worked against it.
What really triggered this conversation was Jane the Bane linking a video on Youtube, Counterpoint, which was about how political/cultural conservatives like Jordan Peterson are using religious symbolism to promote self help as an alternative to addressing social justice. It got me thinking about how people can hear religious messages as tools of oppression, and I don't think that's right, so I wanted to try to make a difference and try to get my pastor to see concretely how these messages can be damaging.
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