Hello,
I've been going to a church for more then 10 years. At first the pastors treated me well. At some time, they asked me to help in the church and I helped.
But at some time the pastors began not to ask me for help, but to give me commands, saying that in the bible it is written that I must obbey the pastors. Those commands were to do some common work in the church. I felt not like going to a church, but like going to a workplace that I don't like.
Some of the new people that started coming to the church thought I'm some kind of laborer there and treated me very badly, trying to give me commands too.
I talked with the pastor and he said I'm not obliged to obbey him, but if I was a true christian I would feel obliged to help in the church. I think he abuses my good nature and my readiness to help people in need when I can.
In my opinion the pastors are trying to ride my back, treating me like their slave.
I feel guilt when I don't obbey the pastor, because in the bible it is written to obbey him.
How do you think, must a christian always obbey the pastor, no matter what? Or the obedience must be done with knowledge, not litterally doing anything he commands me to do?
I've been going to a church for more then 10 years. At first the pastors treated me well. At some time, they asked me to help in the church and I helped.
But at some time the pastors began not to ask me for help, but to give me commands, saying that in the bible it is written that I must obbey the pastors. Those commands were to do some common work in the church. I felt not like going to a church, but like going to a workplace that I don't like.
Some of the new people that started coming to the church thought I'm some kind of laborer there and treated me very badly, trying to give me commands too.
I talked with the pastor and he said I'm not obliged to obbey him, but if I was a true christian I would feel obliged to help in the church. I think he abuses my good nature and my readiness to help people in need when I can.
In my opinion the pastors are trying to ride my back, treating me like their slave.
I feel guilt when I don't obbey the pastor, because in the bible it is written to obbey him.
How do you think, must a christian always obbey the pastor, no matter what? Or the obedience must be done with knowledge, not litterally doing anything he commands me to do?