You don't find it the least bit disturbing, or in any way unjust, that God would torture people for all eternity with the equivalent of a enormous blowtorch?
No, not at all. Do you think God is just or don't you? Do you think that Scripture's depiction of those who disobey God's commands as children of Satan is correct or incorrect?
This is the type of question I have been asked by nonbelievers, and it made me stop and seriously consider hell in that sense for the first time. People, REAL PEOPLE, perhaps someone that you know and love... screaming and burning and begging for mercy and burning and cooking and and screaming in untold agony... forever, without end... while God keeps the flames burning. Is this God's justice?
Whether I know them or love them or not is irrelevant. What is relevant is whether or not they're as evil as Scripture indicates that they are. The usual antitheistic tactic is to try to make out the people who go to hell as just so innocent, nice, kind, and so on. That's not even remotely what Scripture has to say about human beings who disobey God's commands. So there is a massive downplay here of what the Bible has to say about human beings in passages I could quote all day long.
Yet this concept of hell is a stumbling block to thinking people coming to believe in Jesus
The doctrine of eternal torment in hell is inseparable from Christ. What is indeed a stumblingblock is telling them that there is no such thing as eternal torment in hell.
I think this literal interpretation of hell is misrepresenting the heart of God,
The God revealed in the Bible would not be a God who is in any way just by the standards of natural man. Take, for example, the command to burn harlots (the daughters of priests) alive in Leviticus 21:9. Or take God's burning Nadab/Abihu, the two sons of Aaron (and #3/4 ranking in Israel respectively) alive in Leviticus 10. These things are foreign to natural man; the God revealed in Scripture is something completely, totally, and utterly alien to human nature.
I think Jesus intended his descriptions of hell to be understood metaphorically.
Well, even supposing that he did, he certainly made no mistake about the awfulness of hell, because he warned that it would be better for you to enter into life halt or maimed or blind than to go to hell. So that's a pretty awful fate right there:
"43 If your hand causes you to stumble, cut it off;
it is better for you to enter life crippled, than, having your two hands, to go into [
ac]hell, into the unquenchable fire, 44 [[
ad]where their worm does not die, and the fire is not quenched.] 45 If your foot causes you to stumble, cut it off;
it is better for you to enter life lame, than, having your two feet, to be cast into [
ae]hell, 46 [[
af]where their worm does not die, and the fire is not quenched.] 47
If your eye causes you to stumble, throw it out; it is better for you to enter the kingdom of God with one eye, than, having two eyes, to be cast into [
ag]hell, 48 where their worm does not die, and the fire is not quenched." Mk. 9:43-48 (NASB)
I can't speak for anyone else, but I had never really allowed myself to meditate on what the unsaved will actually experience in the literal form of hell.
I have, on many occasions. As a matter of fact, I think of hell frequently. I also wonder if you have properly considered what Scripture has to say about those who disobey the commands of God...?
Preachers and teachers rarely ever teach on hell,
You are correct. Christianity is a shadow of its former self.
and when they do they do not tend to stress the actual fires of hell,
You are correct that they do not stress the "torment" (torture) aspect very much any longer. They have redefined it to be eternal "separation" from God, and are very careful about the words that they choose.
but of the justice of God punishing sin, which I agree is a good and just thing. Yet when I took the time to really think, to really meditate upon what a literal understanding of the lake of fire meant...
But is sin the real reason they go to hell? That may be a rather diluted understanding of the doctrine. Again, I suggest you do some more research on what the Bible has to say about human nature, i.e., human beings in a state of nature outside of obedience to God's commands. "Sin" nowadays has become a rather diluted word, like eating chocolate when you're supposed to be on a diet or something like that.
I agree, I am just not convinced that a literal burning lake of fire cooking people while immortal fireproof worms eat at their bodies in dense darkness is supposed to be the understanding we gain after prayerful thoughtful study.
I see. Is this because Scripture denies such things or because you think that the "nature of God" simply will not allow for that understanding?
I did not intend to convey the idea that fire is never used in it's literal sense in Scripture, and I will reword my OP in order to correct that misunderstanding. Fire is used metaphorically in Scripture, though. 1Cor 3:11-15 and Heb 12:29 come to mind after a quick search of the NT. Both of those also happen to be in relation to judgment.
I am not sure at all that those passages are to be taken metaphorically, particularly Hebrews 12:29. 1 Cor. 3:11-15 also seems to be a reference to God's Spirit. No, I would disagree with this interpretation.
Grave worms, in the connotation of death (as opposed to the worm that produces scarlet), eat the flesh of the dead body, aiding in the process of decomposition and corruption. I don't think my understanding is a stretch. Can we at least agree that Jesus was not trying to speak of literal immortal fire proof worms in His references to hell?
That is one understanding of the passage, certainly. So if Christ is saying that "their worm dieth not" then that means that their body would remain alive forever...wouldn't it...since if their body decomposed then the worms would die. The reference seems to be to an everlasting state of consciousness.
I don't think any of those references contradicts my understanding.
Why not? The references clearly describe eternal torment in hell. "Tormented day and night forever and ever" is metaphorical for what exactly?