I agree. The reference was just a starting point. It wouldn't be effective to dump an entire dissertation on you in the first post. So, the verses I quote you are indicators of my conclusion. I can always provide more if you so desire, but I thought you wanted to avoid such endless discussions.
Well, the bible is a terrific book of theology, but in regards to accuracy from a historical standpoint, even conservative scholars and historians will admit there are issues, some more than others. If one wants to, they can derive all sorts of different meanings by isolating different verses and this happens to be a common method practiced by some christians.
It troubles me you would even mention this. I have noted before that I disagree with your position, yet you have not once given anything to support what you say. You just continue to make general, unsupported statements, and then imply I'm cherry-picking. I don't see much value to the conversation if claims are not given some support, so I plan to keep doing that. To that end, you must realize I don't think these are just my own ideas. If I thought that, I would endeavor to find the proper answer. As such, I said what I did about judgement because God wants all to be saved (1 Tim 2:4) and strives for just that (Matt 18:12-14).
I don't know, maybe I am missing something, but I feel I have given reasons why I don't buy the christian story and can not reconcile the God of the bible with reality. It is simple, it doesn't have to be complex. The bible describes an all loving God, who cares for all his creation and in fact is all powerful, all knowing and has a plan for everyone. Then you have reality; Jesus who is required to be accepted as the savior to be a christian and to be granted eternal life and avoid eternal torment, according to the christian dogma. If this is all true, the God described in the bible, would not put one person on earth in a disadvantage to get to know Jesus and his story, because he cares for all his creation. Why did God wait 100,000 years of suffering of man before he sent Jesus? Why do so many young children die a horrible death every year and the parents prayers go unanswered? Why would God give christians the leg up on getting into heaven, when he cares about all his creation and has a plan for everyone? Was his plan to send people to hell? I could go on forever, but ti isn't necessary. The christian story can not be reconciled with reality to me and I can't be any clearer than that.
The goalposts are shifting. You were referring to people whom you think have not heard the Gospel. That is different than talking about non-believers. So, as I've explained, I think I'm being consistent with the Bible. If you think differently, you'll need to support your case.
Wouldn't a person who lives a terrific life and belongs to a different religion and prays to a different God be a non-believer in christianity? Anybody who isn't christian (most of the world) is a non-believer when it comes to christianity. And today, most of the world who isn't christian, has the means to be exposed to the Jesus story and christianity, but they reject it anyway and christianity is dwindling in size in most countries.
You seem to be presenting a very narrow version of "exposure to Jesus". I think you're leaving out what was said about Thomas, the example of Paul, and a myriad of other things. The OT has its examples as well, Melchizedek being one.
That doesn't come close to reconciling the problems I pointed out.
I think the parental analogy for God works quite well. For a child the parent (or care-giver) is the most powerful person in their world. For some time they define what can and can't be done. It's unfortunate you don't understand how I'm trying to use that analogy, because it answers the first question.
I didn't have some pre-expectation of "Dad" that needed to be filled. I wasn't looking for "Dad", so there was no need to identify him as such when he showed up. Rather, the person with whom I had the relationship came to define what "Dad" means to me. Likewise, I didn't try to define God and then hope the spiritual relationship I have would fit the bill. Rather, the relationship I have defined for me what a god is.
This forum is a poor format for explaining those experiences. We've already covered that. But, as an attempt, we can begin by discussing Word & Sacrament as those terms are used within the confessional Lutheran church.
If you don't want to answer the questions I asked about your experiences that is fine, I have no problem with that.
Honestly, for a long time it didn't "give me pause". But not for the reasons most people suspect. Not because I insisted I was right about creation. Rather because views of creation do not determine whether someone has a relationship with God. I have met a few people who really know how to push my buttons on this topic, but I have never once doubted the sincerity of their faith in Christ. So, when we get to heaven, Jesus himself can explain to them why they were wrong

. IOW, it's not them I'm worried about. It's those for whom the issue of creation becomes a stumbling block.
With respect to the science of it all, where most think I am wrong is in my philosophy. On the one hand are those who say my philosophy leads me to ignore the facts. On the other hand are those who say my philosophy causes me to set an impossible standard. So, there are at least two different directions this conversation could go, if not more. Regardless it's probably going to turn into a lengthy discussion on the nature of science.
To answer your question, I do spend considerable time on this because it's a hobby of mine. So, it's not like it bothers me, but I do think about it a lot. We're asking the same question: How can 2 people look at the same thing and draw different conclusions? It's just that our answers are very different. That's why I suggested the paper by Wilkins. If you read academic papers, I think that one would be worth your time.
Just throwing out an answer to your question seems like a hip shot, because I don't think you know where I'm coming from. But, in short, I don't think the type of evidence biologists use is sufficient to meet the higher claims of evolution. It's going to take a long time to unpack that statement, so put on your seatbelt.