Dear Curious Atheist. You asked " How can we love God ?" with all our hearts, souls, and minds? By following His Commandment: " love your neighbour as yourself." There are many kind people, who love and care for others, but what is the difference? To love and care for our fellow-beings is very good, and God will know and approve. and we all know that those kind people are well-liked and well-thought about. The difference is: they are already getting their thanks and appreciation, while still living on Earth. To love others, as we love ourselves, and doing it for the love of God, not wanting anything, neither praise or money, is doing it freely and selflessly. " Not letting our right hand know, what our left hand is doing" God knows our hearts, and God knows our sincere efforts, and God will bless us. I say this with love, Curious Atheist. Greetings from Emmy, sister in Christ.