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MERCY@GRACE said:
Yeah - I'm a prude!
I don't see anything wrong with it. Just trying to stir things up.
Actually, the wifey and I did make one - watched it - then cut it up - poured gas on it - and started a fire.
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andiesmama said:Hubby is interested in that idea, but we've not done it.....yet!
We haven't tried it yet either.
Maybe someday!
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Oblivious said:For all who think watching it is wrong (if anyone thinks such), then how is watching a porn tape of your spouse and yourself any different than watching the actual "act" when you're getting it on? I know I watch from time to time. :o
The visual component of sex is very important for many people. We do need to be at ease with our bodies and our sexual enjoyment of them.
Many couples will try different positions that allow for more 'observation' - the woman astride the guy is an obvious one.
A video only records what you are experiencing together anyway. if that enhances your sexual relationship and marriage, no big deal. Has no one had sex in front of a mirror?
I don't think describing a visual record as a porn tape is helpful. There is a world of difference between a married couple enjoying their sex lives and people being filmed having sex.
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Oh I missed all the fun. No tapes for me, I'm too paranoid about them being on the internet. Hmmm. Of course, I am still young so who knows. I am just glad none of my *past* has pictures or tapes of me..... my paranoia has served me well so far (he pressured me on numerous occasions and I said no!)
(he pressured me on numerous occasions and I said no!)
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No tapes. He's suggested it a few times, but hasn't sold me on the idea yet. I have no desire to see myself in that....rats... I was gonna say position, but that's gonna get twisted...
We do, however, have a few pictures that will hopefully never get out...
We do, however, have a few pictures that will hopefully never get out...
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I wonder what I would do if my wife wanted to make a tape... I probably would if it was her idea, but I don't think that I would ever ask for it. I guess I don't see a good reason to want to do it unless it was to please her.
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LOL, no we have not. Truly, I think watching us from a third party view (the thrid party being the camera, of course) would be something that would only embarrass me. I mean, hey, if you've got the moves and the skillz, go for it, lol. I'm just not at all coordinated enough to star in my own private porn...I mean, don't those girls go to a special school or something to learn those kinds of tricks?
Mark did use to think it was quite funny to sneak in and snap pics of me as I was getting out of the shower. Only one of those has survived and all the important parts are covered by towel, so it's all good.
Mark did use to think it was quite funny to sneak in and snap pics of me as I was getting out of the shower. Only one of those has survived and all the important parts are covered by towel, so it's all good.
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