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Tapes?

Do you have "private" videotapes?

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Redguard said:
Well, hurry it up! My birthday is in 2 weeks and the wife is still waiting on my wish list.






joking

Your b-day is 1 day after mine! I knew there was something cool about you....but could never figure it out. ;)





No you aren't!
 
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So.......watching yourself on film is ok because.....it's yourself? Or is it because the couple on the screen are married? I mean, where is the line? When does it become "not ok"? Only when it is people who aren't Christian?

I mean - porn is porn - right? Or is there porn that is OK - and porn that is not?
 
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GutterRat said:
So.......watching yourself on film is ok because.....it's yourself? Or is it because the couple on the screen are married? I mean, where is the line? When does it become "not ok"? Only when it is people who aren't Christian?

I mean - porn is porn - right? Or is there porn that is OK - and porn that is not?
Heaven's no! I'm speaking PURELY of watching you and your spouse. NO OTHER PEOPLE!

I thought that was a given.
 
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GutterRat said:
So.......watching yourself on film is ok because.....it's yourself? Or is it because the couple on the screen are married? I mean, where is the line? When does it become "not ok"? Only when it is people who aren't Christian?

I mean - porn is porn - right? Or is there porn that is OK - and porn that is not?

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Redguard said:
Heaven's no! I'm speaking PURELY of watching you and your spouse. NO OTHER PEOPLE!

I thought that was a given.

I understand what you are sayin' Red. I'm just askin'. Where is the line? How is it that if you watch a porn flick - it's nasty - bad - degrading to couples. but if the tape has YOU on it...it's not?
 
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Oblivious said:
I would say a married couple watching a sex tape of themselves is no more pornographic than a married couple having sex is fornication or adultery. (hopefully that made sense. :scratch: )

To sum it up - NO.

I understood you. :)

We don't have any vidos. Knowing my luck they'd end up all over the internet or something equally horrible.

My husband does have a snap of me although it's not that X rated, he took a close up shot of my bum in jeans. :blush:
 
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GutterRat said:
I understand what you are sayin' Red. I'm just askin'. Where is the line? How is it that if you watch a porn flick - it's nasty - bad - degrading to couples. but if the tape has YOU on it...it's not?
Okay, I'll respond. But by responding, I don't want to convince anyone that I'm promoting or advocating the idea of making "tapes".

I think that there's a big difference between watching your and your spouse on a tape that you and your spouse both AGREED on making.... versus watching something that was produced by an industry that abuses the humanity of people.
 
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Redguard said:
Okay, I'll respond. But by responding, I don't want to convince anyone that I'm promoting or advocating the idea of making "tapes".

I think that there's a big difference between watching your and your spouse on a tape that you and your spouse both AGREED on making.... versus watching something that was produced by an industry that abuses the humanity of people.

Even tho, many probably consider me to be ubber conservative w/ issues such as this.....I don't see a problem w/ couples taping themselves.What is done in the marriage bed is between that couple as long as it doesn't involve other ppl. Some of you are all for sex toys, but have a prob w/ a husband and wife taping themselves:scratch:

Maybe they like watching themselves on tape, maybe they are the kind of couple that watches their wedding video once a month. Now if the couple finds themselves tempted to buy circulated porn, they may need to back off and assess if their watching themselves is leading to other things. When you watch a porn, you know it's wrong. You know you are watching two strangers (most likely) fornicating. You are unaware of what they will do next. When it's you, you can say, ooh ooh watch, you're about to put your hand here..ooh ooh you're about to put your foot here. Either you will be embarassed by it, immediately turn it off, or you will be turned on by it...and um...re-create the scene. You aren't lusting after another woman or another man, so how is it a sin?
 
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