andiesmama
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Redguard said:Question:
If a married couple is watching a tape of themselves (performing), is that considered pornographic?
I vote no.
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Redguard said:Question:
If a married couple is watching a tape of themselves (performing), is that considered pornographic?
Redguard said:Well, hurry it up! My birthday is in 2 weeks and the wife is still waiting on my wish list.
joking
Heaven's no! I'm speaking PURELY of watching you and your spouse. NO OTHER PEOPLE!GutterRat said:So.......watching yourself on film is ok because.....it's yourself? Or is it because the couple on the screen are married? I mean, where is the line? When does it become "not ok"? Only when it is people who aren't Christian?
I mean - porn is porn - right? Or is there porn that is OK - and porn that is not?
GutterRat said:So.......watching yourself on film is ok because.....it's yourself? Or is it because the couple on the screen are married? I mean, where is the line? When does it become "not ok"? Only when it is people who aren't Christian?
I mean - porn is porn - right? Or is there porn that is OK - and porn that is not?
Redguard said:Heaven's no! I'm speaking PURELY of watching you and your spouse. NO OTHER PEOPLE!
I thought that was a given.
Oblivious said:I would say a married couple watching a sex tape of themselves is no more pornographic than a married couple having sex is fornication or adultery. (hopefully that made sense.)
To sum it up - NO.
Okay, I'll respond. But by responding, I don't want to convince anyone that I'm promoting or advocating the idea of making "tapes".GutterRat said:I understand what you are sayin' Red. I'm just askin'. Where is the line? How is it that if you watch a porn flick - it's nasty - bad - degrading to couples. but if the tape has YOU on it...it's not?
Redguard said:Okay, I'll respond. But by responding, I don't want to convince anyone that I'm promoting or advocating the idea of making "tapes".
I think that there's a big difference between watching your and your spouse on a tape that you and your spouse both AGREED on making.... versus watching something that was produced by an industry that abuses the humanity of people.

Redguard said:I hope I'm not the only one who is severely LOL-ing at this.![]()
Good post, by the way.
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