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Light-hearted question on ethics, or etiquette, whichever this is.
If you're telling a story to someone who has already heard you tell it, which of these responses would you prefer? Which would you think is rude?
1.) Interrupting you to say you've told it already.
2.) Letting you tell the entire story, but then showing no reaction at all when you get to the punch line/climax.
Me, I'd rather be tactfully interrupted at the beginning than to get all the way through the story and get no reaction when I'm done. No laugh, no smile, no nod, no "That's the stupidest story I've ever heard in my life," not even crickets. Just stone-faced silence.
"Did you get it?"
"Yeah, you've told me that before."
"Well, why didn't you stop me?"
"I thought it would be rude to interrupt."
I suppose such tactics as beating you to the punch line or starting to recite the story along with you would definitely be rude.
Your preference?
Corollary question: Whether or not you've heard the story before, is it rude, in itself, not to react?
If you're telling a story to someone who has already heard you tell it, which of these responses would you prefer? Which would you think is rude?
1.) Interrupting you to say you've told it already.
2.) Letting you tell the entire story, but then showing no reaction at all when you get to the punch line/climax.
Me, I'd rather be tactfully interrupted at the beginning than to get all the way through the story and get no reaction when I'm done. No laugh, no smile, no nod, no "That's the stupidest story I've ever heard in my life," not even crickets. Just stone-faced silence.
"Did you get it?"
"Yeah, you've told me that before."
"Well, why didn't you stop me?"
"I thought it would be rude to interrupt."
I suppose such tactics as beating you to the punch line or starting to recite the story along with you would definitely be rude.
Your preference?
Corollary question: Whether or not you've heard the story before, is it rude, in itself, not to react?