What are your thoughts on staying a night alone (sleeping in different rooms) at a fiance's home? Assume the fiance lives 50-55 miles away and family is out of town making it very quiet there.
I think it does matter how the family feels. Plus it gives some sense of accountability. We are to avoid "all appearances of evil". If you're up-front about it, that appearance goes away. If someone has a problem, then the hotel is a good idea.It's fine.
Honestly, I wouldn't even bother with how the family feels... If they can't trust you and your fiancé to behave then that's on them and frankly it's disrespectful of them to think so poorly of you and him.
It's fine.
Honestly, I wouldn't even bother with how the family feels... If they can't trust you and your fiancé to behave then that's on them and frankly it's disrespectful of them to think so poorly of you and him.
I think it does matter how the family feels. Plus it gives some sense of accountability. We are to avoid "all appearances of evil". If you're up-front about it, that appearance goes away. If someone has a problem, then the hotel is a good idea.
Daughter[COLOR="DarkSlateBlue" said:of Ararat;66796773]What are your thoughts on staying a night alone (sleeping [/COLOR]in different rooms) at a fiance's home? Assume the fiance lives 50-55 miles away and family is out of town making it very quiet there.
Sorry, I just have a really hard time with biblical quotes cited without context.... please don't take offense, as I do not intend offense....
1 Thess. 5:22 is the verse that people cite as reason to avoid even looking like you could potentially be hiding something or you could potentially be doing something sinful (by the perceptions of others no matter what the facts are)... but it doesn't actually say that in context.
If you compare multiple versions, only the KJV and the Young's Literal Translation say, "abstain from all appearance of evil." The majority of translations say, "reject/abstain from every form/kind of evil." Since I have taken studies in biblical languages, I also looked up the Greek word translated as either appearance or form and it can be correctly translated as outward appearance but more in the sense that we recognize something by its form or appearance, not that there is a perception of wrong-doing when there really isn't wrong-doing happening.
Also the context of the passage says nothing about male/female relationships or a couple's relationship with their community. It's talking about prophecies and spiritual gifts of the Holy Spirit.
verses 19-22, "Do not quench the Spirit. Do not treat prophecies with contempt but test them all; hold on to what is good, reject every kind of evil."
We as Christians have the right and freedoms through Christ to make choices that are becoming to him not us. We are to be examples not stumbling blocks to others. This is why it is very difficult to be a Christian, we cannot make decisions on our strength but his. He leads and guides us through the spirit and his word.