Dear Mad Repper,
How you have known Heather for 2 years in an online forum as opposed to her own fiancee who has spent every day talking with her and being with her, is rather laughable. It's really easy to portray oneself online in a favorable light. Please remember that Heather is no more a victim than I.
I do regret posting the specifics that I did; I have since edited the post to remove that information. What I do not regret is defending myself or keeping Photini honest viz-a-viz our relationship and the propriety of airing personal affairs online.
She has done it more than once (3 times now) since we've had relationship problems. I have never had to deal with this issue before in my life. Maybe you could also remind Heather not to repeatedly bring our privaate affairs into a public forum? Are you ashamed of her as well?
Now, I don't expect any sympathy from any of you, or understanding of my perspective. I fully understand that your loyalties lie with the one with whom you have been chatting online lo these many years. I don't blame you.
Heather is a wonderful girl with many great qualities, and I will miss her terrribly. But, I will not allow my name to be sullied publically. If this is unChristian or unOrthodox of me, then I will discover that soon enough with my spiritual father.
As for those who are praying for me, I very much appreciate it. I can use all the prayer I can get.
Michael