The Mad Repper said:
I don't think less of you for your failings. You are human, and a child of God. Why should I think poorly of you? You know my failings and where I have sinned greviously and you still are my friend. So why should I treat you any differently?
Dear Michael,
Your very emotional championing of Photini is so admirable, especially since you paid her all sorts of public comments on her beauty without acknowledging her and my committed relationship. That is what those so-called nasty letters are all about to which you refer from last fall.
As I recall, I asked you privately and as a gentleman, to please refrain from such compliments to my girlfriend as a single man, for this, to me, showed disresepct to our relationship. You immediately blew up at me, got personal and reported me to the mods. I PM'd you again, clarifying my words, and asking "as gentlemen, and man-to-man" if you would reply to me cordially. You never did.
Based on your behavior towards me over the months, including now, I see that you are not a gentleman in your dealings with many others, as is also evidenced by your online behavior with another CF lady where the relationship fell apart. But, you don't wish to rehash that in this forum, now do you?
As for Photini, I have already expressed my regret online for posting specifics about her. While I was trying to get her to stop posting our affairs publically, I fell into the same thing, and I was ungentlemanly for it. I have also apologized to her for it.
My dear Photini, you did not have to share all those things online about yourself. I fear that I caused you to do that by my ill-considered post yesterday. I'm sure that your friends (and I included) love you just the same.
And, Michael, remember that you can bluff and report me, and all that; I will not get personal with you; and I will not back down in the face of your misguided verbal behavior.
I have asked you more than once now to engage me, as a man, in a private context - surely preferable to this public one - about these matters.
Let's see what you're made of, Michael.
Michael Coleman
Knoxville, TN
P.S. - The primary reason why I have not been posting here on Taverna lo these many months is that this is Photini's area, her set of long-time friends. I didn't want to get in the middle of that as I wanted her to have the freedom to chat without feeling I was *in the midst* of everything (despite her requests for me to join in). My only wish now is that our relationship would have stayed private. That, alas, did not happen. C'est la vie.