I'm sorry but Mary was just an ordinary faithfilled woman who desired to please God. There's a lot of people like that.
Consider that very little is said about Mary in the Gospels, and once she is mentioned in the acts of the Church--she was praying -with the men Jesus hand picked to carry his life to the world.
When Mary is mentioned, this is what i noted;
she doesnt understand what her son of promise was doing staying behind without telling them.They had to travel a day, before they realised he had stayed behind.
I'm a father, and if my son did something as arrogant as that, i would have said what Mary said---"why do you treat us this way".
But in this case Jesus is Correct.
"Didn't you know I had to be in my Fathers house?
Make no mistake, but it sounds as if Jesus is telling Mary that she is being a little ignorant about it....
I note Joseph's faith of Marrying Mary, thanks to the same Angel, and then keeping her a virgin till she gave birth to Jesus. I believe this is still a world record for a newlywed couple to abstain.
But the text very strongly implies that they did have normal relations with each other after this.
LUKE 8
19 And His mother and brothers came to Him, and they were unable to get to Him because of the crowd.
20 And it was reported to Him, "Your mother and Your brothers are standing outside, wishing to see You."
21 But He answered and said to them, "My mother and My brothers are these who hear the word of God and do it."
I thought this a little rude, But Mary would have agreed--she had been doing this, thats why God found favour with her, but the point is that he puts all the faithful in the same class.
I dont believe God was fully present in Marys womb.
Jesus had the Spirit descend on him much later in life.
34 Mary said to the angel, "How can this be, since I am[24]
[Lit know no man ] a virgin?"
35 The angel answered and said to her, "The Holy Spirit will come
upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you;
and for that reason the holy Child shall be called the Son of God.
Whatever is born of flesh is flesh.
jn 3
6 "That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit
It wasnt until the Father spoke and the Spirit descended like a dove on him was Jesus able to enter into his ministry and fulfill the promise given to Mary by Gabriel
"Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife; for the Child who has been conceived in her is of the Holy Spirit.
21 "She will bear a Son; and you shall call His name Jesus, for He will save His people from their sins."