ive been going out with this christian girl for about 2 months now....shes the coolest person she loves god and shes on the worship team at church...thats what made me attracted to her in the first place....was her love for jesus....and then a friend of mine was telling me about 2 or 3 weeks ago that she used to talk behind peoples backs and just go off on how bad they are if they dont live up to her expectations....but then my friend(ill use the name sarah) said that that was in her(my girlfriends) past and that she doesnt think she does that anymore...then today the same friends(sarah) sister was in the park and walked by my girlfriend and one of her friends(ill use the name rachel) and overheard them talking the most meanest things you could about sarah....at first they didnt know who the other girl(my girlfriend) was....and just thought it mightbe another one of her friends or something....but i asked my girlfriend if she was hanging out with rachel today at the park and she said she was....i got kinda sad once i found out that it really was her....because i dont really know what to think....because i never thought that she could be the kind of person to do that kind of things....
my question is how do i bring up that subject with her without hurting her feelings....or making it seem like i was getting in on her business....because i like this girl alot and i dont really want to lose this relationship....i just want to know if she was the one talking **** about sarah or if it was rachel doing all the talking....because im not sure i can go out with someone that is a hypocrite in what they do....say they dont do stuff anymore....but then turn around and do the thing they say they dont do anymore...if this is confusing ill explain it clearer if you want....i just kinda need some advice..
my question is how do i bring up that subject with her without hurting her feelings....or making it seem like i was getting in on her business....because i like this girl alot and i dont really want to lose this relationship....i just want to know if she was the one talking **** about sarah or if it was rachel doing all the talking....because im not sure i can go out with someone that is a hypocrite in what they do....say they dont do stuff anymore....but then turn around and do the thing they say they dont do anymore...if this is confusing ill explain it clearer if you want....i just kinda need some advice..