I am a 21 year old man who was raised in the Church of God. My girlfriend was raised in the Methodist church. We have been in a great relationship for a little over two years and plan to spend the rest of our lives together. I plan to marry her and eventually raise a family. Recently, I’ve gained a very strong interest in the Catholic faith. I’ve spent hours studying the faith and have decided that I want to take the next steps. This has been very strong on my heart and I’ve expressed this to both her and my family. This was a big shock to everyone being that they are all Protestant. Regardless of this, they continue to support me. However, my girlfriend has a few issues with this decision.
We recently had a discussion around the topic of me converting and what that would bring. She knows very little about the Catholic Church but has outright stated that she is comfortable in her church and has no plans of converting. I never implied that she must convert nor commanded her. She has issues regarding certain beliefs in the faith. Regardless of this, she told me that I am a free person and can make my own choices. She does have an issue with the raising of children in that she wants them to be able to make their own choices and does not want me to influence them. She began to get angry with me when I stated that I would love my future children and her to go to mass with me. She stated that she would only take them once and would let them make the decision if they ever wanted to go back. This upset me very much because of this newfound love for the church. I’m unsure of what to do. I’m in need of advice for how to balance my love for the Catholic Church and my relationship.
We recently had a discussion around the topic of me converting and what that would bring. She knows very little about the Catholic Church but has outright stated that she is comfortable in her church and has no plans of converting. I never implied that she must convert nor commanded her. She has issues regarding certain beliefs in the faith. Regardless of this, she told me that I am a free person and can make my own choices. She does have an issue with the raising of children in that she wants them to be able to make their own choices and does not want me to influence them. She began to get angry with me when I stated that I would love my future children and her to go to mass with me. She stated that she would only take them once and would let them make the decision if they ever wanted to go back. This upset me very much because of this newfound love for the church. I’m unsure of what to do. I’m in need of advice for how to balance my love for the Catholic Church and my relationship.