Congrats! I can’t wait to hear about your first ride. Welcome to the club!
Thanks! I just hope the bike is comfortable! If not will be returned! I go to the shop to collect so will try it out there and then!
Is it a weekly event? Will you be gone all day?
Just for that day - but not really wanting to go at all.
I’ve got skills Mr. D! ~lol
Yes yes you do - shout out to you!
I like your enthusiasm. But allowing your desire to build has a positive side. You learn to control it and not be ruled by it.
Oh I see.
of course it is! I pick the best
hahaha (I get what you meant
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There’s an innocence present that should continue.
It is cute in that sense!
You’ve hunted in the past.
Yeah in all the wrong places it would appear(!)
But that approach isn’t suitable in this case. At least not right now.
Course cos God is at the heart of this unlike the past where that was just erughhhhhhh
There’s a purity in your interactions you should sustain while you’re getting yourself on track.
Yeah just another church member - in faith - with her - just passing each other by! Yeah it all keeps me on the straight and narrow.
When a man is critiquing a woman from head to toe he has other intentions.
NO NO NO! Let me make it clear! I have never had LUSTFUL ideas about her! I genuinely have RESPECT for her! The type to want something Godly with her ya know!!! Genuine respect! Especially seeing her mother - ya know? Makes it more 'real' if that makes sense?!?!
I permitted someone to do the same and we were never BFF’s! ~laughs
BEST FRIENDS FOREVER
aaaahhhh gotta laugh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Your mind is in one place where she’s concerned.
True she doesn't see the past issues she just sees a person from church (who is mighty handsome and great!!!!!)
But likewise what I see of her I dunno what she is going through that i might not know about that is why when people meet people you dunno WHO THEY ARE - till you engage with them - won't know about them right away - wait 5 months later - then you see the Real McCoy!!! lol
But another thing I forgot to say
SHE MIGHT HAVE SOMEBODY BUT THAT PERSON JUST DOESN'T GO TO CHURCH LOL (that would suck!)
he only thing increased contact will do is heighten your desire for her.
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I thought the same. Then the suits came out followed by fitted shirts and other items that accented his form. Now I’m crossing myself like a Catholic. Because the feminine part of me was responding to his masculinity.
Explain further Miss Bella! You mean the man you cared for? I dress casual at church times smart/casual! It is nature for you to respond in a certain way to a man - nature!
Some men emit a protective aura. I feel safe with them. I can curl up in their lap and rest and feel at peace because he’s carrying the load. And he allows me to be a woman. That’s bliss.
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Pleasing him is my forte. I was made for that.
Bet it is! lol
LOL i fort it sounded good LOL
You’re already in deep. She’s occupying your thoughts and you haven’t spoken.
Exactly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You’re already imagining things.
That's crushes for ya!
And what I’m saying ever so gently is to look in the mirror and see the hook slipping in.
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She consumes too much space to relate in the way you’re assuming without immense self-control. You want her. Everything you say relates to that truth. It can only be one way because that’s the lone one you see.
But Miss Bella I am sure in your younger days you really liked somebody but you could still talk to them normally an casually and they never would know you really cared for them? :O
You don’t relate to her privately in your thoughts as a sister in Christ. Your ideas about the two of you thus far are relational not brotherly.
Yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ahhhhh I can't be bothered to type lol yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i think i am more than capable to just talk to her as a good believing friend. I know I seem SPRUNG and STRUNG but really I could.
You are deceiving yourself if you believe you can flip a switch and morph into someone else. This isn’t friendship. It isn’t platonic. It’s carnal.
I think all things are carnal to an extent =O hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
You’re checking out her teeth! You’ve already crossed the line.
well I am soooooooooooo sorry that I happen to notice somebody's dental features
here were no physical or sexual relations between he and I. But to say we weren’t intimate is false. I’ve never been closer to another man in my life.
You were intimate mentally - I think however THAT SEXUAL LINE CROSSED - very different mannnnnnnnnnn cos you like you think to the close discussions ya had - when you been there sexually you think of that and when it just GOES you think WHAT WAS THAT FOR THEN? Doesn't seem special anymore - something u can never get back. But that was then!
You’ll need to decide how you’ll broach your desires. But call them what they are.
They are Holy <3
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Ok ok ok sssssshhhhhhhhhh look they are - they are how every other loving marriage starts! One was interested and the other was so so till they knew! An then they talk - and go out on little cool outdoor adventures - then a COOKING SESSION TOGETHER (somebody's Little Lady told me that super cool right?) and just talk - and talk - pray together! - talk about future - talk about how you'd cook for a baby =] lol i know seems like I am trolling at this last section here I am really not lol i am just covering bases - cos like i said the answers i get to some questions would make me think again if she is even worth it! 3 COURSE MEAL vs HAPPY MEAL!!!