I need some advice. Here is the situation.
I was introduced to a girl who I was told has expressed verbal interest in me. From what I understand she is a christian. She get me a copy of her schedule, delivered to me thorugh a mutual aquaintence. I have not met this girl yet, but she has seen me before and apparently knows a little bit about me. So I go up to her work when I think she is not going to be busy, but the place was packed, so I ask when I can come back. So I come back later that night and this is the first time I have ever seen this girl. She is shorter than me, which 99% of people are, and she seems happy to meet me and she gives me her phone number.
I tell her I will call her and I go home. It is about 945pm, so I decide to wait to call her until the next day. I call her at 11am, 230pm, and 830pm. She does not pick up the phone so I leave a message with the first and last call. I just tell her to call me back if she wants to get some lunch and talk.
Later that night I meet up with the girl who introduced me to this "blind date" and she tells me that this girl is getting set up with one of her other friends that she has known for some time.
I have no problem with this. Its cool to change your mind, but here is my delima. Do I have to tell this girl that I am cool with this. We only met for a couple minutes, but do I need to leave the door open? Should I tell her that my offer for lunch still stands if it does not work out? I know it sounds desperate, but we never got a chance to even sit down and talk about the basics.
Should I leave an opportunity open to get to know this girl if things go sour with this other date or just leave it be? And if I should leave it be should I inform her that there are nor hard feelings, since she is this other girls manager?
I was introduced to a girl who I was told has expressed verbal interest in me. From what I understand she is a christian. She get me a copy of her schedule, delivered to me thorugh a mutual aquaintence. I have not met this girl yet, but she has seen me before and apparently knows a little bit about me. So I go up to her work when I think she is not going to be busy, but the place was packed, so I ask when I can come back. So I come back later that night and this is the first time I have ever seen this girl. She is shorter than me, which 99% of people are, and she seems happy to meet me and she gives me her phone number.
I tell her I will call her and I go home. It is about 945pm, so I decide to wait to call her until the next day. I call her at 11am, 230pm, and 830pm. She does not pick up the phone so I leave a message with the first and last call. I just tell her to call me back if she wants to get some lunch and talk.
Later that night I meet up with the girl who introduced me to this "blind date" and she tells me that this girl is getting set up with one of her other friends that she has known for some time.
I have no problem with this. Its cool to change your mind, but here is my delima. Do I have to tell this girl that I am cool with this. We only met for a couple minutes, but do I need to leave the door open? Should I tell her that my offer for lunch still stands if it does not work out? I know it sounds desperate, but we never got a chance to even sit down and talk about the basics.
Should I leave an opportunity open to get to know this girl if things go sour with this other date or just leave it be? And if I should leave it be should I inform her that there are nor hard feelings, since she is this other girls manager?
