Singles Bar

[liesje]

My teacher said thats a given so it shouldnt be on the list LOL

kkthxbai

That's true, but it's amazing how many Christians don't consider it necessary...

 

[Kitty.]

Yeah I'll probably be single forever.
I'm pretty sure that the hot guy has a girlfriend. Why in the world would he flirt with me when he has a girlfriend?

 

[Stjernkvist]

Yeah I'll probably be single forever.
I'm pretty sure that the hot guy has a girlfriend. Why in the world would he flirt with me when he has a girlfriend?

15 and thinks that you gonna be single for ever?

God have one for you to you don't need to find your guy at that age

 

[liesje]

15 and thinks that you gonna be single for ever?

God have one for you to you don't need to find your guy at that age

I agree

 

[Unfit'for'swine]

Yeah I'll probably be single forever.(

I doubt that, seriously, come to holland, there are more boys than girls here, so you could pretty much pick a guy out xD

 

[DMMullinax]

Yeah I'll probably be single forever.
I'm pretty sure that the hot guy has a girlfriend. Why in the world would he flirt with me when he has a girlfriend?

As many have said, this is definitely not something you should be worrying about, whatsoever. You're 15, please please please enjoy the time you have now being single. Enjoy friends and bask in the Lord. I know it's hard seeing friends (and what seems like everyone else) dating around you, but you're in a fantastic position right now. You'll be growing while most are hanging on to eroding fantasies of a what a relationship is. You cannot know spousal love at this age, and in my opinion it's folly to pursue it while still in High School. So hang on and enjoy life. Give it some years and then start searching; you'll know what you're truly looking for in a guy, and you'll know to never settle for less than you deserve.

 

[Kitty.]

15 and thinks that you gonna be single for ever?

God have one for you to you don't need to find your guy at that age

Well, I've had a lot of bad luck. Guys seem to like leading me on. It's upsetting.
Thanks

I doubt that, seriously, come to holland, there are more boys than girls here, so you could pretty much pick a guy out xD

Lol I would come to Holland if I could get a plane ticket. Most of the guys where I live are really not very nice. Finding a nice, respectable, Christian guy where I live is so difficult. It would be nice for a change of scenery.

As many have said, this is definitely not something you should be worrying about, whatsoever. You're 15, please please please enjoy the time you have now being single. Enjoy friends and bask in the Lord. I know it's hard seeing friends (and what seems like everyone else) dating around you, but you're in a fantastic position right now. You'll be growing while most are hanging on to eroding fantasies of a what a relationship is. You cannot know spousal love at this age, and in my opinion it's folly to pursue it while still in High School. So hang on and enjoy life. Give it some years and then start searching; you'll know what you're truly looking for in a guy, and you'll know to never settle for less than you deserve.

Thanks for the encouragement.

 

[Stjernkvist]

Well, i'm starting to getting interest for a girl in church, we talk allot on msn and texting each other too.
I wouldn't say that i like her that way, but she is a nice girl we are thinking of going to the same bible school too after high school

 

[liesje]

Hey Kitty,

At risk of sounding like an old lady, please, please don't waste your teenage years looking for a guy. (It is a waste - trust me...I've been through it) There are so many things you can do while you are still single that you can't do if you're with someone. Spend your teenage years growing in the knowledge and grace of Christ. He is sufficient for you, even when you feel like you need a guy to fulfil you. Lay everything at the feet of Jesus and let him be your all in all. You will find that you have a much better time if you do that, and just work on friendships rather than looking for a guy and needing one to fulfill you. You're not of the age yet where a relationship could go anywhere super serious, so just enjoy these years with your friends, and use them to their full potential, because you'll never have them back again. I wish I could.

 

[Kitty.]

Well, i'm starting to getting interest for a girl in church, we talk allot on msn and texting each other too.
I wouldn't say that i like her that way, but she is a nice girl we are thinking of going to the same bible school too after high school

That's great. I will pray that things go well for you.

Hey Kitty,

At risk of sounding like an old lady, please, please don't waste your teenage years looking for a guy. (It is a waste - trust me...I've been through it) There are so many things you can do while you are still single that you can't do if you're with someone. Spend your teenage years growing in the knowledge and grace of Christ. He is sufficient for you, even when you feel like you need a guy to fulfil you. Lay everything at the feet of Jesus and let him be your all in all. You will find that you have a much better time if you do that, and just work on friendships rather than looking for a guy and needing one to fulfill you. You're not of the age yet where a relationship could go anywhere super serious, so just enjoy these years with your friends, and use them to their full potential, because you'll never have them back again. I wish I could.

Lol you don't sound like an old lady.
It's not really particularly fun being single for a long time. And I mean, I can't really help it when I have a crush on a guy.
I understand what you are saying though. Thanks.

 

[liesje]

Lol you don't sound like an old lady.
It's not really particularly fun being single for a long time. And I mean, I can't really help it when I have a crush on a guy.
I understand what you are saying though. Thanks.

If it's not fun being single then something is wrong. When you're 15 you should just be able to have fun with friends. I do understand crushes though...had them the whole way through high school! They don't last, so don't act on them yet.

 

[Kitty.]

If it's not fun being single then something is wrong. When you're 15 you should just be able to have fun with friends. I do understand crushes though...had them the whole way through high school! They don't last, so don't act on them yet.

I guess what I am really most upset about is that he flirted with me a whole lot and then suddenly got a girlfriend. That really hurt me. I'm not a relationship-crazy person. I am very picky about guys and rarely go for one. I guess I was just dumb in thinking I could actually get that guy that I really like and still like.

 

[liesje]

I get it now. That was kinda mean! Maybe he didn't realise what he was doing? I've never liked someone who's liked me back...

 

[Kitty.]

I get it now. That was kinda mean! Maybe he didn't realise what he was doing? I've never liked someone who's liked me back...

Yeah it basically crushed me big time.
I don't know. He can't be dumb. He knew I liked him and he liked me and then he just goes and gets a girlfriend?

I almost would have rather him not liked me back, rather than leading me on and then crushing me.

 

[liesje]

Boys are silly. That sucks.

 

[Stjernkvist]

That's great. I will pray that things go well for you.

ty, ty, we seem to have allot in common
Let's see what God have done in a few years.

Boys are silly. That sucks.

Not all boys are silly,

 

[liesje]

Not all boys are silly,

They are when it comes to girls. Then again, girls are silly when it comes to boys.

We're all silly.

Some are just sillier.

 

[Stjernkvist]

They are when it comes to girls. Then again, girls are silly when it comes to boys.

We're all silly.

Some are just sillier.

We're all not silly, sills are silly (sill is herring on swedish, makes no sens iknow but i think it's funny :] )

 

[liesje]

We're all not silly, sills are silly (sill is herring on swedish, makes no sens iknow but i think it's funny :] )

Ok....I'll admit that made me smile

 

[Stjernkvist]

Ok....I'll admit that made me smile

HAHAH ty ty ty!!! <3
you are like the first one, all my friends goes like "what is he doing?"