Singles Bar

[Bauman1535]

Well folks, I need some prayer help tonight and tomorrow. I told this girl how I felt about her, and was completely honest (and sent about ten 160 word text messages in the process), and she asked why I liked her so much, which I also explained. She responded that she needed a little bit of time to process things, and that she would text me tomorrow. Better than getting a straight no, right?

 

[Stjernkvist]

I'd be fine with the younger girl. She's mature for her age, and I'm good with getting adults to like me (i.e. her parents). I mean, obviously nothing sexual will happen at all since we're both believers, but it's always better to have the parents liking you.

For the drink - do you have lemon lime Gatorade mixed with Red Bull? It's quite a delicious combination...

Well, when i'm looking for a girl, i'm more looking for their parents. how are they? do they like me? are they nice? Do they accept me?

Well on time i had i girl in my mah gangsta days but she forced me to be nice. Well her mother hated me really, like when i knocked the door and she yelled, "you have a visitor" she answered "who" mother replies "your ugly boyfriend"

Later on i broke-up because of her mother.

 

[DMMullinax]

Well folks, I need some prayer help tonight and tomorrow. I told this girl how I felt about her, and was completely honest (and sent about ten 160 word text messages in the process), and she asked why I liked her so much, which I also explained. She responded that she needed a little bit of time to process things, and that she would text me tomorrow. Better than getting a straight no, right?

Haha, yeah, it's absolutely better than getting a straight 'no'. That's a lot for her to take in, so it's completely normal that she asked for a bit of time to process it all.

I'd say you're in a good position though. You said you were honest about everything, and even if she did turn you down atleast you have the relief of getting all of that out. You win to some extent either way- in my opinion. You can only go so long holding feelings like that in before they start to consume you. I'd say you did things right. So just hope and pray for the best!

 

[Unfit'for'swine]

Why do people date, it is so painful?

Surely once is enough to prove that it is a bad idea? =D

 

[Stjernkvist]

Why do people date, it is so painful?

Surely once is enough to prove that it is a bad idea? =D

Kind of true but i haven't been dating for over 6month now xD

since i find no girl that i might be together with atleast for a few year or even get married

 

[Kitty.]

Recently single because God led me to break up with the last guy I was with. It wasn't benefiting my relationship with God.

Hopefully going to get in a relationship with the guy I like soon

 

[Dionysiou]

been a while since i was with someone, havent found any great girls yet, all too easy, although i know i dont look in the right places.

 

[Kixa]

Recently single because God led me to break up with the last guy I was with. It wasn't benefiting my relationship with God.

Hopefully going to get in a relationship with the guy I like soon

Aw, what's he like?

 

[HarborOrange]

been a while since i was with someone, havent found any great girls yet, all too easy, although i know i dont look in the right places.

Same here. The last girl I dated, ended up being addicted to pot and she had lost her virginity... So, she wasn't the best girl out there for me.

It's hard to find a decent girl these days, it seems.

 

[Kitty.]

Aw, what's he like?

Amazing He lives right down the street from me. He's gone a lot though.

He looks kinda like Channing Tatum

 

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[Rhayven]

Finding the right girl is like that apple at the very top. Everybody wants to be that apple because every girl wants a guy to work to get her. But some apples fall and rot and it's a sad thing but a lot of guys fall for the ones that fall and rot because it's so easy to get and they never try to go after the one at the top. Anyways, i know yall arnt those rotten apples (maybe some of yall hahah) just kidding. Anyways what i've learned so far is that... were still young. Live life, we still got tons of time.

 

[Stjernkvist]

Well, i don't look for the perfect one, i just look for the one i think i can spend the rest with my life with and can have children with.

 

[liesje]

Hmm haven't ventured into this thread for ages!

Interesting analogy Rhayven....I've never thought about it like that, but it's kinda true.

 

[Dionysiou]

finding the right girl or guy, i wouldn't hold my breathe. Just have fun and try to listen to God, eventually you should get somewhere.

 

[Unfit'for'swine]

Well, i don't look for the perfect one, i just look for the one i think i can spend the rest with my life with and can have children with.

dito, I'm just looking for a pretty girl with a nice personality =)

 

[Rhayven]

It's not about perfect because no one is perfect. If someone was perfect once they date you they become un-perfect so we are all in the same boat. But What i'm sayin is if there is a girl worth while. Don't settle for second best. You guys all deserve the best, so hold out for her. I've read some of y'alls posts and you guys seem pretty nice so.... yeah keep your chins up high and don't settle for second or third best. love y'all

kkthxbai

 

[liesje]

And make sure she loves God first...

 

[Rhayven]

My teacher said thats a given so it shouldnt be on the list LOL

kkthxbai

 

[Stjernkvist]

well, someday we'll all meet someone to spend the rest of our life with