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That's a black swan fallacy, to say nothing of shifting the goalposts, because I never said the Bible was positive on homosexuality and thus asking me to find examples of same sex couplings is silly (even if one can bring up David and Jonathan I believe), I'm saying they didn't have the concept that we'd call homosexuality anymore than they had a concept of sexual orientation, regarding the whole process as rooted in behavior, not the will

If you acknowledge reproduction is not required, there isn't anything stopping gay people from fulfilling marriage's more basic ideals of fidelity and family in general (bringing families together)

Marriage back then was horribly misogynist, women were basically just meant to continue the lineage, they were regarded so little, that the idea of marrying a widow was seen as being compassionate because they couldn't support themselves (I think Esther has a story in that vein, I read it in the manga adaptation where I'm still barely to David last I took time to read it).

No one's saying homosexuality is a norm or default, it's a normative variation in the same way that being bisexual or the like is still fitting into healthy human sexual behavior, it's not in the vein of anything damaging like rape or sexual molestation and such, which doesn't respect human autonomy

Actually, I'm pretty sure the evidence is against you on the idea of us being hard wired to be heterosexual, it's just the more common variation, which is like saying we're hard wired to be right handed and those left handed people are choosing to use their left hand

Not sure you can claim with authority anymore than me that homosexuality wasn't common in some respect back then, they just didn't call it that. Again, sex was regarded based on behavior, not on will

As if Christianity's position on homosexuality is nearly so uniform and monolithic, it's not like you or any Christian gets to tell someone dogmatically how they must behave as a Christian unless you can actually back it up. And then you just get into a tennis match of interpretation bouncing, it gets nowhere

Attractions are not lifestyles, or you might as well call an enjoyment of music a lifestyle. The word is not reductive to single traits, it's something that permeates various aspects of one's life and being gay or straight or otherwise is only affecting particular areas notably

To be polite but frank, I think your description of me committing a 'black swan fallacy' and moving goalposts is actually exactly what you're doing right now.

I also never claimed that you were definitively portrayed bible on being positive on homosexuality. I simply detected an insinuation and decided to prod at it a bit with a half-hearted question. I say half-hearted because I already know the answer to my question anyways lol.

Why don't we just de-complicate the whole thing, shall we? Homosexuality is not a normative variation. In fact, we can't even prove it's genetic. At best, it is an adopted behavior-based probably more on psychology than anything else, maybe coupled with hormones and brain patterns. But that's as far as it goes. In any case, your point on 'it's not as damaging as rape or sexual molestation' is hard to hold up as well, from a 'natural' or evolutionary standpoint. If you think about it, considering how many people use the animal kingdom(saying homosexuality in animals is common, so therefore it's OK for us)as an example to call it 'harmless'(which, I don't see how it's exactly harmless naturally speaking since it would prevent procreation and passing on your genetics...which is kind of the whole point of living, from a purely scientific standpoint)think about this; sexual molestation and rape is actually very common in the animal kingdom. Have you ever seen an otter raping a baby seal before killing it? It's not pretty. Or perhaps a lion murdering a cub that came from a rival?

I'm obviously not trying to place homosexuals on the same level as murderers and rapists, but I'm making the point that your view on the matter is based on morals; and unless you get your word from God, there is no universal standard of morals. We would've only developed morals as a species in order to become more social and boost our chances of surviving in numbers; just another tactic used by nature. With that being said, one could also argue that ANY means of ensuring survival and the best genes passed on would be, by nature's standards, the best choice.

Also, homosexuality has likely been around since humans have been. Just because it wasn't called the same thing, doesn't mean it was different back then. Homosexuality, is wanting to have sex with the same gender. That's literally it.

There are times when being dogmatic is appropriate. Being homosexual is not spiritually beneficial for a Christian, as it goes against the basic principles of marriage. I also did not say procreation was ABSOLUTELY necessary, but it is a very important factor in marriage as a whole.

I'm also not really going to address the whole 'misogynist' view of marriage back then since that'd turn into a whole other historical debate and honestly morality has nothing to do with it. After all--if we'd done it God's way from the get-go, women wouldn't have been treated that way to begin with. That there is man's error.

At least the bible doesn't permit a man to beat his wife with a stick if she refuses to obey like in the Quran :1
 
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Probably.

Arrogance and the 'true believer' mentality is a plague in the community. I don't blame Atheists and others outside of our Faith for laughing at us and not taking us seriously--sometimes it feels like we fight more amongst ourselves than anyone else. Modern-day evangelists aren't doing a very good job at representing our Lord. Pander to the ultra-conservative Calvinist traditionalists, or pander to the nonreligious & the liberal 'woke' Christians. It's always one extreme or the other...always missing the bigger picture. :p
I see that as one of the major problems with Christianity. A basic problem of all religions, but especially Christianity.

Instead of focusing on what is good, it focuses on what is bad. And that is a problem for a religion whose basic message is called the "good news".
 
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If your culture and religion is set against it, they wouldn't advertise it, would they?

But the question is: so what? Is it really an important topic?
Yes, there's a general societal regard for "offspring". It's a cultural and societal thing, especially in times when human power was the most important resource.

But that has changed. Society has changed. Homosexuality will never be "the norm", and no one is trying to make it so. The often cited "homosexual agenda" is very simple: "Just let us live like anyone else."

It's like left-handedness, or red hair. Both traits once had a very negative connotation. In the case of left-handedness, it was tried to "change" these people... get them on the "right" path. As we know now: it didn't work... and it is unneccessary. It's just not a topic.

And it is the same with homosexuality. The only reason it is made into such a big fight is that one side - the religious fundamentalist one - is actively making it into one. If they didn't, it wouldn't matter. Gays and homosexual couples would just be humans a little different from the "norm". Like redheads and left-handers.

It is, like I said, as with circumcision and eating taboos and tattooes and all that other stuff. They don't really matter.

The greatest commandment is said to be: "Love God and love your neighbor." You can derive a lot from that.
Lying can hurt other people. It is not "loving your neighbor". Stealing or killing hurts other people. It is not "loving your neighbor".
But being gay? Having a homosexual relationship? It doesn't hurt anyone. It is human.

I'll let you read over my reply to the other guy so I don't have to retype it. Though for the record, I never said being gay would send anyone to hell. No sin on it's own, necessarily, will send anyone to hell.

And uh, you're also forgetting that the other 'taboos' were already chucked once the NT came into play. Unless, of course, you think we should be following the 600+ laws in the OT, which Jesus came to fulfill since...they weren't actually helping anyone.

If you wanna be a gay Christian, be a gay Christian. If you wanna be Christian and have sex outside of marriage, go ahead. Just don't expect anyone to tell you it isn't a sin, and be willing to gamble with fate on the outcome post-death.
 
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Another important note; I honestly really don't care what the secular folk do. If anyone wants to be gay, go for it. My problem is that they come into a religion they know full-well does not support that particular topic, and then throws a fit when they're forced to either change their behavior(I say behavior because I already am aware you can't just turn off an attraction) or distance themselves from the social aspect of the religion.
 
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I'll let you read over my reply to the other guy so I don't have to retype it. Though for the record, I never said being gay would send anyone to hell. No sin on it's own, necessarily, will send anyone to hell.
Ah, so you are one of those worldly ecomenucal lukewarm Christians!
Sorry, just kidding. ;)

And uh, you're also forgetting that the other 'taboos' were already chucked once the NT came into play. Unless, of course, you think we should be following the 600+ laws in the OT, which Jesus came to fulfill since...they weren't actually helping anyone.
I am not "forgetting" that at all. It's even kind of my point. Things change. All the time... 2000 years ago just as much as today.
These "taboos"... take circumcision for example. It wasn't meant to "help" anyone. And still it was a fundamental part of what it meant to be a real Jew, one of "God's Chosen People". It was important.
Did you ever read that cute little story when God assaulted and tried to kill Moses? It was about circumcision.

But then it changed. By convenience... or, some might say, by organizatorial necessity. You might be able to tell the Jews that their messiah really had come... but to sell this to the world "oh, and by the way, in order to be saved you have to cut off part of your genitals"... that was a lot more difficult. So it was dropped. Quietly. And it became a non-issue. For most.

Because it is fundamentally unimportant.

If you wanna be a gay Christian, be a gay Christian. If you wanna be Christian and have sex outside of marriage, go ahead. Just don't expect anyone to tell you it isn't a sin, and be willing to gamble with fate on the outcome post-death.
You take that gamble all the time. Worship on sunday instead of saturday? Eat bacon? Be circumcised? Trinity or not? Yadda yadda yadda.

So I don't mind being told it is a "sin". For an unbeliever, the concept of "sin" is irrelevant. For a believer, they might consider different things "sin" and others not.

But if that turns into real world harm... then it gets hard to ignore it.

I am old enough to remember the times in my country when left-handedness was considered "wrong"... and it could result in real world consequences. Children suffering from the attempts to "correct" them.
Today? We give them a left-handed pen and they do as well as "the norm". Because it is a frigging non-issue... or at least should be.

"Sin" is just what humans thinks their respective deities do not like... and most often it turns out to be something that the respective human does not like.

As I said: focus on the good. Love your neighbor. Be excellent to each other and party on, dudes!
 
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Ah, so you are one of those worldly ecomenucal lukewarm Christians!
Sorry, just kidding. ;)


I am not "forgetting" that at all. It's even kind of my point. Things change. All the time... 2000 years ago just as much as today.
These "taboos"... take circumcision for example. It wasn't meant to "help" anyone. And still it was a fundamental part of what it meant to be a real Jew, one of "God's Chosen People". It was important.
Did you ever read that cute little story when God assaulted and tried to kill Moses? It was about circumcision.

But then it changed. By convenience... or, some might say, by organizatorial necessity. You might be able to tell the Jews that their messiah really had come... but to sell this to the world "oh, and by the way, in order to be saved you have to cut off part of your genitals"... that was a lot more difficult. So it was dropped. Quietly. And it became a non-issue. For most.

Because it is fundamentally unimportant.


You take that gamble all the time. Worship on sunday instead of saturday? Eat bacon? Be circumcised? Trinity or not? Yadda yadda yadda.

So I don't mind being told it is a "sin". For an unbeliever, the concept of "sin" is irrelevant. For a believer, they might consider different things "sin" and others not.

But if that turns into real world harm... then it gets hard to ignore it.

I am old enough to remember the times in my country when left-handedness was considered "wrong"... and it could result in real world consequences. Children suffering from the attempts to "correct" them.
Today? We give them a left-handed pen and they do as well as "the norm". Because it is a frigging non-issue... or at least should be.

"Sin" is just what humans thinks their respective deities do not like... and most often it turns out to be something that the respective human does not like.

As I said: focus on the good. Love your neighbor. Be excellent to each other and party on, dudes!

If you read into it, Jews may have been God's 'chosen people', but they certainly must've ticked Him off constantly with the dumb things they did. And either way, the 'circumcision' thing was part of the OT law--pretty much God's whole book about disciplining people and then getting rid of their laws once they started going overboard yet again.

Like I said, I really don't care if someone is gay or not. All I care about is that if they're a Christian--they need to be willing to respect that the most likely case is that being gay is not kosher. So instead of forcing everyone to change what scripture says about it, they either need to rethink whether or not they're taking Christianity as seriously as they should be, or at the least make their own denomination. I mean really, we have different denominations for reasons just like this. You don't see Baptists trying to invade the Lutheran's space and make it more 'baptist', or the Catholics moving in on the Anglicans to make it more 'Catholics'.

And anyways, the other stuff--namely the 'left handed being wrong'--thing is not relevant here. Being homosexual means going against the principle of marriage, one of the most invaluable core concepts of Christianity, and outright teachings against it. People certainly do make a fuss over nothing(I should know, being a science-believing Christian who enjoys fantasy and dnd)but homosexuality is not a 'nothing'.

Although, I will say I think a lot of Christians are overstepping boundaries harassing nonbelievers. If God gave them the choice to obey or live out their lives as they wish, so should we. I think a separation of church and state is needed, tbh.

Bottom line tho; Christianity is not a pin you wear to show off beliefs. You either put your all into it and be willing to give things up that you don't want to, or you don't involve yourself at all. We believe the Bible is truth, after all...and if someone has a problem with it, we don't just change what it says to accommodate them. (as has happened in the past)
 
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To be polite but frank, I think your description of me committing a 'black swan fallacy' and moving goalposts is actually exactly what you're doing right now.

I also never claimed that you were definitively portrayed bible on being positive on homosexuality. I simply detected an insinuation and decided to prod at it a bit with a half-hearted question. I say half-hearted because I already know the answer to my question anyways lol.


Why don't we just de-complicate the whole thing, shall we? Homosexuality is not a normative variation. In fact, we can't even prove it's genetic. At best, it is an adopted behavior-based probably more on psychology than anything else, maybe coupled with hormones and brain patterns. But that's as far as it goes. In any case, your point on 'it's not as damaging as rape or sexual molestation' is hard to hold up as well, from a 'natural' or evolutionary standpoint. If you think about it, considering how many people use the animal kingdom(saying homosexuality in animals is common, so therefore it's OK for us)as an example to call it 'harmless'(which, I don't see how it's exactly harmless naturally speaking since it would prevent procreation and passing on your genetics...which is kind of the whole point of living, from a purely scientific standpoint)think about this; sexual molestation and rape is actually very common in the animal kingdom. Have you ever seen an otter raping a baby seal before killing it? It's not pretty. Or perhaps a lion murdering a cub that came from a rival?

I'm obviously not trying to place homosexuals on the same level as murderers and rapists, but I'm making the point that your view on the matter is based on morals; and unless you get your word from God, there is no universal standard of morals. We would've only developed morals as a species in order to become more social and boost our chances of surviving in numbers; just another tactic used by nature. With that being said, one could also argue that ANY means of ensuring survival and the best genes passed on would be, by nature's standards, the best choice.

Also, homosexuality has likely been around since humans have been. Just because it wasn't called the same thing, doesn't mean it was different back then. Homosexuality, is wanting to have sex with the same gender. That's literally it.

There are times when being dogmatic is appropriate. Being homosexual is not spiritually beneficial for a Christian, as it goes against the basic principles of marriage. I also did not say procreation was ABSOLUTELY necessary, but it is a very important factor in marriage as a whole.

I'm also not really going to address the whole 'misogynist' view of marriage back then since that'd turn into a whole other historical debate and honestly morality has nothing to do with it. After all--if we'd done it God's way from the get-go, women wouldn't have been treated that way to begin with. That there is man's error.

At least the bible doesn't permit a man to beat his wife with a stick if she refuses to obey like in the Quran :1

If you're going to speak in a way that can reasonably be interpreted as such, maybe reconsider the argument once over?

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Arguably it IS a normative variation in that it fits the basic requirements we'd have for sexuality of two people consensually engaging in sex that isn't harmful societally or in terms of human dignity. You have little to no basis to say it's purely environmental and certainly not in the sense of people having to be abused sexually for it to come about. Genetic is more complicated that just the genes themselves having those properties, epigenetics shows that they can be changed by the environment rather than a psychological factor being the reason for the disposition

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You do know there aren't that many homosexuals right? It's not damaging if it's a normal variation that's a minority in the population, but I get the feeling you don't even understand evolution entirely.

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No one is committing an appeal to nature fallacy, they're turning the claims of those who claim homosexuality is unnatural on its head in a reductio ad absurdum: by their logic, rape is moral because it would be natural, but so would homosexuality. The problem is with that fallacy being used to justify the normalcy of homosexuality, not pointing out evidence that it isn't a strictly human behavior

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A universal standard of morality doesn't have to be absolute and unflinching, it has to acknowledge that not all contexts dictate the same application of moral principles, otherwise you're literally applying morality as legalism instead of considering that the situation matters far more than one tries to ignore. Morality no more needs the supernatural than it needs dogma in any form, it needs skepticism and applying the principles with consideration to consequences (physical, emotional, etc) as well as the virtues we consider based on their benefits in motivating behavior

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No, you're strawmanning evolution as committing an appeal to nature fallacy by saying evolutionary theory has anything to do with morality: it doesn't, btw, it's descriptive, not prescriptive, because evolution doesn't happen the way you seem to think it does

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Pretty sure homosexuality varied in frequency of monogamy and such, the idea of such committed relationships was sadly a general minority in many cultures, but the minority position in terms of demographics no more indicates untruth than the majority does the contrary


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Except Christianity itself doesn't dictate everyone must get married, if you're taking Paul as remotely authoritative, since he says that you can be devoted without being married. Also, pretty sure you have little basis to suggest all married Christians must have kids, but you've quite possibly not said that. Your opinion based on interpretation of the bible doesn't mean it is necessarily true or will be acknowledged as having a solid basis

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No, pretty sure God's way is also misogynist, considering he didn't make Eve from dirt, he made her from Adam's rib, which suggests a woman is lesser than a man at least metaphorically, but even God seems to dictate a woman being submissive in terms of post-fall commands to Adam and Eve. If all you have is some pie-in-the-sky equality in heaven, that's wishful thinking that's not realized until the end of days anyway, so it's basically pointless to the present discussion unless you can demonstrate that God wants women and men to be equal and not have a patriarchal favoritist attitude to men

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Sorru, you don't get to pull a tu quoque and dismiss Islam because of its own context that probably isn't regarded positively by modern Muslims, the culture they existed in was as harsh as the OT practically, yet you cry that we should consider the context and how God permits bad things because of some plan. I sense cognitive dissonance a bit here. I'm not supporting Islam, even in the reasonable sense it can be said to exist, but if all you have is "Well, these people are bad too," then you've failed to see how little that matters to the truth and merit of YOUR book's claims, because it could be that both of you are wrong

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The Abrahamic religions have no issue with slavery, particularly the OT in terms of such things and even if God was against it, it seems particularly a failing to not supposedly enforce some notions in the Decaloque that owning a person was morally wrong
 
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If you read into it, Jews may have been God's 'chosen people', but they certainly must've ticked Him off constantly with the dumb things they did. And either way, the 'circumcision' thing was part of the OT law--pretty much God's whole book about disciplining people and then getting rid of their laws once they started going overboard yet again.

Like I said, I really don't care if someone is gay or not. All I care about is that if they're a Christian--they need to be willing to respect that the most likely case is that being gay is not kosher. So instead of forcing everyone to change what scripture says about it, they either need to rethink whether or not they're taking Christianity as seriously as they should be, or at the least make their own denomination. I mean really, we have different denominations for reasons just like this. You don't see Baptists trying to invade the Lutheran's space and make it more 'baptist', or the Catholics moving in on the Anglicans to make it more 'Catholics'.

And anyways, the other stuff--namely the 'left handed being wrong'--thing is not relevant here. Being homosexual means going against the principle of marriage, one of the most invaluable core concepts of Christianity, and outright teachings against it. People certainly do make a fuss over nothing(I should know, being a science-believing Christian who enjoys fantasy and dnd)but homosexuality is not a 'nothing'.

Although, I will say I think a lot of Christians are overstepping boundaries harassing nonbelievers. If God gave them the choice to obey or live out their lives as they wish, so should we. I think a separation of church and state is needed, tbh.

Bottom line tho; Christianity is not a pin you wear to show off beliefs. You either put your all into it and be willing to give things up that you don't want to, or you don't involve yourself at all. We believe the Bible is truth, after all...and if someone has a problem with it, we don't just change what it says to accommodate them. (as has happened in the past)
Where in the Bible does it make it even remotely required that marriage be about procreation and such? At best it's encouraging heteronormative ideas about a woman and man "fitting" together, but that's a childish view of marriage as an institution for encouraging fidelity rather than fixating on superficial ideas of complementarianist nonsense
 
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Another important note; I honestly really don't care what the secular folk do. If anyone wants to be gay, go for it. My problem is that they come into a religion they know full-well does not support that particular topic, and then throws a fit when they're forced to either change their behavior(I say behavior because I already am aware you can't just turn off an attraction) or distance themselves from the social aspect of the religion.
Except religions are demonstrably subjective in interpretations in the first place, it's not like any religion is universally against anything, practically speaking, as long as you can spin it through interpretation, same as you do for justifying prophecy or other nonsense.
 
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If you're going to speak in a way that can reasonably be interpreted as such, maybe reconsider the argument once over?

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Arguably it IS a normative variation in that it fits the basic requirements we'd have for sexuality of two people consensually engaging in sex that isn't harmful societally or in terms of human dignity. You have little to no basis to say it's purely environmental and certainly not in the sense of people having to be abused sexually for it to come about. Genetic is more complicated that just the genes themselves having those properties, epigenetics shows that they can be changed by the environment rather than a psychological factor being the reason for the disposition

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You do know there aren't that many homosexuals right? It's not damaging if it's a normal variation that's a minority in the population, but I get the feeling you don't even understand evolution entirely.

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No one is committing an appeal to nature fallacy, they're turning the claims of those who claim homosexuality is unnatural on its head in a reductio ad absurdum: by their logic, rape is moral because it would be natural, but so would homosexuality. The problem is with that fallacy being used to justify the normalcy of homosexuality, not pointing out evidence that it isn't a strictly human behavior

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A universal standard of morality doesn't have to be absolute and unflinching, it has to acknowledge that not all contexts dictate the same application of moral principles, otherwise you're literally applying morality as legalism instead of considering that the situation matters far more than one tries to ignore. Morality no more needs the supernatural than it needs dogma in any form, it needs skepticism and applying the principles with consideration to consequences (physical, emotional, etc) as well as the virtues we consider based on their benefits in motivating behavior

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No, you're strawmanning evolution as committing an appeal to nature fallacy by saying evolutionary theory has anything to do with morality: it doesn't, btw, it's descriptive, not prescriptive, because evolution doesn't happen the way you seem to think it does

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Pretty sure homosexuality varied in frequency of monogamy and such, the idea of such committed relationships was sadly a general minority in many cultures, but the minority position in terms of demographics no more indicates untruth than the majority does the contrary


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Except Christianity itself doesn't dictate everyone must get married, if you're taking Paul as remotely authoritative, since he says that you can be devoted without being married. Also, pretty sure you have little basis to suggest all married Christians must have kids, but you've quite possibly not said that. Your opinion based on interpretation of the bible doesn't mean it is necessarily true or will be acknowledged as having a solid basis

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No, pretty sure God's way is also misogynist, considering he didn't make Eve from dirt, he made her from Adam's rib, which suggests a woman is lesser than a man at least metaphorically, but even God seems to dictate a woman being submissive in terms of post-fall commands to Adam and Eve. If all you have is some pie-in-the-sky equality in heaven, that's wishful thinking that's not realized until the end of days anyway, so it's basically pointless to the present discussion unless you can demonstrate that God wants women and men to be equal and not have a patriarchal favoritist attitude to men

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Sorru, you don't get to pull a tu quoque and dismiss Islam because of its own context that probably isn't regarded positively by modern Muslims, the culture they existed in was as harsh as the OT practically, yet you cry that we should consider the context and how God permits bad things because of some plan. I sense cognitive dissonance a bit here. I'm not supporting Islam, even in the reasonable sense it can be said to exist, but if all you have is "Well, these people are bad too," then you've failed to see how little that matters to the truth and merit of YOUR book's claims, because it could be that both of you are wrong

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The Abrahamic religions have no issue with slavery, particularly the OT in terms of such things and even if God was against it, it seems particularly a failing to not supposedly enforce some notions in the Decaloque that owning a person was morally wrong


I don't think I can do much more explaining here. You say I don't know how evolution works, but I'm simply describing the bare-basics of what I learned about it from those who know about it extensively. If that's not how or why morals evolved, I'd like another explanation. The only other one I could think of would be due to religion, but then the question is why we as a species would need such a thing in order to thrive?

You're putting the cart before the horse here. Where do virtues come from, if not religion or for some sort of survival instinct? What is their place in nature, and why do we have it? You assert that morality is descriptive and not prescriptive, but that would imply that morality already existed. If not from God or evolution, then where from? You can't evaluate the morality of a situation when you can't even pinpoint what said morality stems from.

I also quite literally said I don't think every couple needs to have kids, but that the concept was still, nevertheless, a big deal and something to consider at least.

That last remark on muslims was not meant to be taken seriously, either. I just put it out there to prove a point that in Christian debates, people often cite the old practices of the OT as a fair comparison to current Christian conduct(as if they're responsible for it), but when it comes to Muslims and other religions, it's written off as 'a thing of the past that is not supported'. Perhaps I wasn't making my sarcasm obvious, so my bad.


At any rate, I think I'll segway out of this argument. I don't think we're going to get anywhere, as the 'goalpost' as you put it, keeps getting moved every response.
 
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Except religions are demonstrably subjective in interpretations in the first place, it's not like any religion is universally against anything, practically speaking, as long as you can spin it through interpretation, same as you do for justifying prophecy or other nonsense.

You can argue about whether or not it's practical to believe it is or isn't alright to go outside based on the position of the stars and how it affects your cosmic luck, but a red pen is still a red pen no matter how many times you call it blue. You don't even have to call it a red pen; it's obvious.

...and if we're really going to use the 'your interpretation could be wrong', we may as well stop arguing here because that means neither of us will ever be 'right'.
 
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You can argue about whether or not it's practical to believe it is or isn't alright to go outside based on the position of the stars and how it affects your cosmic luck, but a red pen is still a red pen no matter how many times you call it blue. You don't even have to call it a red pen; it's obvious.

...and if we're really going to use the 'your interpretation could be wrong', we may as well stop arguing here because that means neither of us will ever be 'right'.

Don't think people are going to debate the color of a pen, because that's basic scientific fact of light frequency vibration and the spectrum. I think we'd both agree the idea of astrology being unfounded, but the thing is where you find Xianity compelling in the supernatural claims it makes, but not astrology or thousands of other similarly superstitious ideas

My "interpretation" isn't based on affirming tradition and antiquated notions of sexual morality as right because of seeming fear of the imagined consequences that are, arguably, more firmly in the straight camp than anything LGBTQ related can be blamed for. And I don't affirm it in the sense of having faith, I can present argumentation for my position rooted in reasonable observations and facts from various sources that aren't reliant on special revelation
 
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If you read into it, Jews may have been God's 'chosen people', but they certainly must've ticked Him off constantly with the dumb things they did. And either way, the 'circumcision' thing was part of the OT law--pretty much God's whole book about disciplining people and then getting rid of their laws once they started going overboard yet again.
Hey, don't ask this atheist about his interpretation of the Jews relationship with their deity! I just will disagree with you, you will disagree with the Jews and the Jews will disagree with me. ;)

Like I said, I really don't care if someone is gay or not. All I care about is that if they're a Christian--they need to be willing to respect that the most likely case is that being gay is not kosher. So instead of forcing everyone to change what scripture says about it, they either need to rethink whether or not they're taking Christianity as seriously as they should be, or at the least make their own denomination.
That's... difficult.
For the most part, people just care about the religions influence on secular society. It is, again for most people and in most situations, not what the churches do within their ranks, but how they influence all of us. Those who are part of their church or not, those of us who are Christians or not.

One way to express this "care" is by changing the attitude within the churches. And that hasn't to result in "making their own denominations"... change can and does happen.

I mean really, we have different denominations for reasons just like this. You don't see Baptists trying to invade the Lutheran's space and make it more 'baptist', or the Catholics moving in on the Anglicans to make it more 'Catholics'.
You may consider taking a closer look at the history of inter-denominational / creed hostility. That we have come, at least in the "Christian" world, to a point of mutual non-aggression is mostly a result of secular societies, not religious tolerance.

And anyways, the other stuff--namely the 'left handed being wrong'--thing is not relevant here. Being homosexual means going against the principle of marriage, one of the most invaluable core concepts of Christianity, and outright teachings against it. People certainly do make a fuss over nothing(I should know, being a science-believing Christian who enjoys fantasy and dnd)but homosexuality is not a 'nothing'.
And here I'd say you are completely wrong. "Marriage" may be seen a "invaluable core concept of Christianity"... but that already is a change in religion. There will be no marriage in heaven, remember? Marriage is only a solution if you cannot keep it in your pants, remember?
Christians have made homosexuality into such a huge topic, but it need not be. It could very well be just an "alternative lifestyle"... just like celibate monastary societies are.
Or do you think this also goes against "the most invaluable core concept of Christianity"?

Although, I will say I think a lot of Christians are overstepping boundaries harassing nonbelievers. If God gave them the choice to obey or live out their lives as they wish, so should we. I think a separation of church and state is needed, tbh.
Again, this "seperation of church and state" is the result of secularism. To the benefit of various Christian denomination as well as non-Christians.
Christians have a long history of (cough) "harassing" (cough) nonbelievers. They also have a long history of harassing other Christians.

Bottom line tho; Christianity is not a pin you wear to show off beliefs. You either put your all into it and be willing to give things up that you don't want to, or you don't involve yourself at all. We believe the Bible is truth, after all...and if someone has a problem with it, we don't just change what it says to accommodate them. (as has happened in the past)
Christianity is what you make of it. Every denomination say they believe "the Bible is truth"... and still they mean different things by that. The interpretation of "the Divine Truth" seems to be rather difficult and rather open.
You have to at least admit the possibility that "their" interpretation is just as good as yours.
 
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Don't think people are going to debate the color of a pen, because that's basic scientific fact of light frequency vibration and the spectrum. I think we'd both agree the idea of astrology being unfounded, but the thing is where you find Xianity compelling in the supernatural claims it makes, but not astrology or thousands of other similarly superstitious ideas

My "interpretation" isn't based on affirming tradition and antiquated notions of sexual morality as right because of seeming fear of the imagined consequences that are, arguably, more firmly in the straight camp than anything LGBTQ related can be blamed for. And I don't affirm it in the sense of having faith, I can present argumentation for my position rooted in reasonable observations and facts from various sources that aren't reliant on special revelation

Dude, from what you've shown me, your interpretation is based on presuppositions about the past and straight(more than likely religious people), feelings, and morality that can't be traced back to anything.

I tried giving you biblical evidence, you rejected it. I tried giving you evidence that was based on science and evolution(which, by the way, I never said I myself personally believed in that brand of how morality formed--just how it was taught to me)--and you also rejected that.

In fact, I never even said being homosexual was universally bad. I just said that, biblically, it is a sin. I also even said I don't support Christians who bash nonbelievers for their decisions as someone outside of the Faith.

No 'special revelation' needed. ;)
 
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That's... difficult.
For the most part, people just care about the religions influence on secular society. It is, again for most people and in most situations, not what the churches do within their ranks, but how they influence all of us. Those who are part of their church or not, those of us who are Christians or not.

One way to express this "care" is by changing the attitude within the churches. And that hasn't to result in "making their own denominations"... change can and does happen.

I agree, but also disagree. I agree that people do care a lot about our influence on secular society, but I disagree that it should be the norm and that it's beneficial. I mean, the bible does state pretty clearly that you should not 'add' to anything, and that 'all scripture is beneficial for teaching'. Furthermore, we're also told not to be 'like the world' and that the world will hate us, because of our Faith, essentially.

So to an extent, biblical accuracy is needed. Otherwise, the bible could be deluded into quite literally nothing.

You may consider taking a closer look at the history of inter-denominational / creed hostility. That we have come, at least in the "Christian" world, to a point of mutual non-aggression is mostly a result of secular societies, not religious tolerance.

Touche, but to be fair, I also think that denominations are best kept to themselves since at this point, it seems unrealistic to expect us all to 'converge' into one large church again anytime soon. it'd be nice, but that sadly doesn't seem to be how people work...especially with so many differing doctrine.

And here I'd say you are completely wrong. "Marriage" may be seen a "invaluable core concept of Christianity"... but that already is a change in religion. There will be no marriage in heaven, remember? Marriage is only a solution if you cannot keep it in your pants, remember?
Christians have made homosexuality into such a huge topic, but it need not be. It could very well be just an "alternative lifestyle"... just like celibate monastary societies are.
Or do you think this also goes against "the most invaluable core concept of Christianity"?

For one, marriage was pre-fall. Meaning that, actually, God's plan from the beginning was for man and woman to 'come together' in marriage. I'm pretty sure Jesus said there wouldn't be marriage in heaven, because at that point the biblical concept of marriage was already, even back then, starting to crumble when Moses started making exceptions for divorce. You're also missing out on a crap-ton of imagery involving the sacredness of marriage all throughout the bible; I think most prominant being the comparison of Jesus being the groom, and the church being His 'bride'. Strange that if it didn't hold much weight, that would be such a reoccurring theme. Furthermore, it was Paul who brought up the whole 'marriage just to keep it in your pants'--but that isn't the only thing he had to say about marriage, as it was also direction at a specific group of people in a certain time and place.

And as I said, homosexuality still can't be an 'alternative lifestyle' because unless sex is in a union between man and woman, it would be considered sexually immoral. The difference, too; celibacy and homosexuality both existed back then. Only one was encouraged.

Also strange that Titus 1: 5-9 and 1 Timothy 3:1-7 should also mention the qualifications of elders as having 'one wife', or if homosexuality was really 'OK' in the Christian lens, it should be 'one partner'...?


Again, this "seperation of church and state" is the result of secularism. To the benefit of various Christian denomination as well as non-Christians.
Christians have a long history of (cough) "harassing" (cough) nonbelievers. They also have a long history of harassing other Christians.


Christianity is what you make of it. Every denomination say they believe "the Bible is truth"... and still they mean different things by that. The interpretation of "the Divine Truth" seems to be rather difficult and rather open.
You have to at least admit the possibility that "their" interpretation is just as good as yours.

I disagree with both points as well, to an extent. One of the main reasons I, and other Christians, actually want a separation of Church and state, is not because of secularism--at least not how you'd imply. It's for the preservation of the Church, seeing as the Church being involved in secular governments seems to have only led to corruption in the past.

Second, while some things are certainly open to interpretation, I'm not going to pretend Christianity is just 'do whatever you believe'. There's too much Scripture that disproves that notion, not to mention I doubt we'd be having the same conversation if a Christian was arguing that, based on their 'interpretation', worshipping idols or sacrificing people wasn't absolutely wrong.

I understand that I could be wrong, but I'm also fairly certain that I'm not. We're called to accommodate God, not the secular audience...and part of this does mean preserving scripture and it's meaning to the best of our ability.
 
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Dude, from what you've shown me, your interpretation is based on presuppositions about the past and straight(more than likely religious people), feelings, and morality that can't be traced back to anything.

I tried giving you biblical evidence, you rejected it. I tried giving you evidence that was based on science and evolution(which, by the way, I never said I myself personally believed in that brand of how morality formed--just how it was taught to me)--and you also rejected that.

In fact, I never even said being homosexual was universally bad. I just said that, biblically, it is a sin. I also even said I don't support Christians who bash nonbelievers for their decisions as someone outside of the Faith.

No 'special revelation' needed. ;)

Morality doesn't need to be traced to a tradition, it needs principles we can deduce without appealing to authority to make us obey. By all means demonstrate your otherwise unfounded claims about how you believe ancient Jews and Christians believed based purely on referencing religious texts and not historical texts

You were taught poorly and mistakenly by people who either didn't care about the truth of evolutionary claims, but just wanted to smear it, or genuinely thought they were in the right, but weren't

I don't think I accused you of saying it was universally bad, but your perspective leaves no room for compromise because you're convinced we have to obey your god's commands even if they don't make sense, a classic defense based on little more than faith and sentiment. And your "biblical" claim is still subjective, not something one can demonstrate consistently apart from vague consensus among a fragmented faith system

You can be nice, but still have a sense of contempt in that you don't even want to engage with the consideration you might be wrong, but find ANY way to deflect and make it about someone else attacking you rather than you being intellectually dishonest
 
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I don't think I can do much more explaining here. You say I don't know how evolution works, but I'm simply describing the bare-basics of what I learned about it from those who know about it extensively. If that's not how or why morals evolved, I'd like another explanation. The only other one I could think of would be due to religion, but then the question is why we as a species would need such a thing in order to thrive?





You're putting the cart before the horse here. Where do virtues come from, if not religion or for some sort of survival instinct? What is their place in nature, and why do we have it? You assert that morality is descriptive and not prescriptive, but that would imply that morality already existed. If not from God or evolution, then where from? You can't evaluate the morality of a situation when you can't even pinpoint what said morality stems from.

I also quite literally said I don't think every couple needs to have kids, but that the concept was still, nevertheless, a big deal and something to consider at least.

That last remark on muslims was not meant to be taken seriously, either. I just put it out there to prove a point that in Christian debates, people often cite the old practices of the OT as a fair comparison to current Christian conduct(as if they're responsible for it), but when it comes to Muslims and other religions, it's written off as 'a thing of the past that is not supported'. Perhaps I wasn't making my sarcasm obvious, so my bad.


At any rate, I think I'll segway out of this argument. I don't think we're going to get anywhere, as the 'goalpost' as you put it, keeps getting moved every response.

We've long since outgrown religion, people cling to it because they're afraid of breaking tradition and not conforming to social expectations, part of the reason religion thrived so easily

Morality didn't evolve, it grew, we always had it, we just didn't mature it enough

Virtues are principles that are beneficial, it doesn't have to be survival instinct and it doesn't have to exist in nature. It also doesn't have to exist in itself, it's descriptive models we use to gauge the effects of our actions, it's a human construct,

Something to consider is merely that you think it's the majority, but that's not indicative of truth or even value to something, it's conformity

If people can't own up to the frailty and abhorrent things in their religious texts, they're being intellectually dishonest. Not all Muslims can admit that and not all Christians can, but suggesting that it's just a matter of opinion in terms of that is disingenuous
 
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I agree, but also disagree. I agree that people do care a lot about our influence on secular society, but I disagree that it should be the norm and that it's beneficial. I mean, the bible does state pretty clearly that you should not 'add' to anything, and that 'all scripture is beneficial for teaching'. Furthermore, we're also told not to be 'like the world' and that the world will hate us, because of our Faith, essentially.

So to an extent, biblical accuracy is needed. Otherwise, the bible could be deluded into quite literally nothing.



Touche, but to be fair, I also think that denominations are best kept to themselves since at this point, it seems unrealistic to expect us all to 'converge' into one large church again anytime soon. it'd be nice, but that sadly doesn't seem to be how people work...especially with so many differing doctrine.
So... all of these denominations with their differing doctrine all have to strive for "biblical accuracy"... yet they all have thse "differing doctrines"?

For one, marriage was pre-fall. Meaning that, actually, God's plan from the beginning was for man and woman to 'come together' in marriage. I'm pretty sure Jesus said there wouldn't be marriage in heaven, because at that point the biblical concept of marriage was already, even back then, starting to crumble when Moses started making exceptions for divorce.
See... you get get a lot of different interpretations from such a simple text. That's the problem: we are faced with very specific questions, but can only derive very general answers from the "holy texts".

You're also missing out on a crap-ton of imagery involving the sacredness of marriage all throughout the bible; I think most prominant being the comparison of Jesus being the groom, and the church being His 'bride'. Strange that if it didn't hold much weight, that would be such a reoccurring theme.
I don't think there's a lot of sex involved in the marriage between Jesus and his bride. And would that make "the church" a woman? Would that make all the men in the church women? Isn't that... well... homosexuality? ;)

Furthermore, it was Paul who brought up the whole 'marriage just to keep it in your pants'--but that isn't the only thing he had to say about marriage, as it was also direction at a specific group of people in a certain time and place.
I'd agree.
And just in the same way, a direction at a spefic group of people in a certain time and place could be: if you want to be in a homosexual relationship, fine. Just love each other.

And as I said, homosexuality still can't be an 'alternative lifestyle' because unless sex is
in a union between man and woman, it would be considered sexually immoral. The difference, too; celibacy and homosexuality both existed back then. Only one was encouraged.
But it need not be, from a religious point of view. "God's plan" and all that. Monks and nuns do not quite fit into "God's plan" as well... they don't "come together". But they are accepted.
And, yes, this is "considered" ok, and homosexuality "immoral". But there is no need for that. This is just "humans considering".

Also strange that Titus 1: 5-9 and 1 Timothy 3:1-7 should also mention the qualifications of elders as having 'one wife', or if homosexuality was really 'OK' in the Christian lens, it should be 'one partner'...?
No one ever accused religion of being consistent.
Excuse me when I - necessarily - have to view that from a perspective of an outsider. It is one of the main reasons why I am an outsider, a non-christian, an atheist.

Everything, really absolutely everything a religion states appears to be very much human beings trying to find answers for their questions... and then attributing divine authority to their answers. Even if these answers are vague. Even if these answers contradict each other.


I disagree with both points as well, to an extent. One of the main reasons I, and other Christians, actually want a separation of Church and state, is not because of secularism--at least not how you'd imply. It's for the preservation of the Church, seeing as the Church being involved in secular governments seems to have only led to corruption in the past.
I have the vague feeling that you misunderstand the concept of "secularism". It doesn't mean "atheism" or "being anti-religion". It is basically the biblical idea of "giving to Caesar" and "giving to God". The realization that there is - must be - a sphere where religion is - must be! - irrelevant.

Even Christians are still humans, and as much as they want to seperate themselves from "the world"... they ARE (part of) the world.

Second, while some things are certainly open to interpretation, I'm not going to pretend Christianity is just 'do whatever you believe'. There's too much Scripture that disproves that notion, not to mention I doubt we'd be having the same conversation if a Christian was arguing that, based on their 'interpretation', worshipping idols or sacrificing people wasn't absolutely wrong.
Sacrificing people has mostly fallen out of favor by now... but you may want to consider researching "iconoclasm" for the question of "worshipping idols". Or some, erm, "debates" between catholics and protestants.

I understand that I could be wrong, but I'm also fairly certain that I'm not. We're called to accommodate God, not the secular audience...and part of this does mean preserving scripture and it's meaning to the best of our ability.
If that's what you want... fine. But you have to be aware that those who forbid woman pastors or allow gay pastors are claiming just the same: being certain that they are not wrong and trying to preserve scripture.

I hope you can understand why this seems to be a very pointless endeavour from the view of a non-christian.
 
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I've learned whenever the stronghold of homosexuality is called a "sin", it brings a lot of discomfort to both the ecumenical Christian and the Atheist.
I take no issue with homosexuality being called a sin , the biblical condemnation is clear, I just don't find that important.
 
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My worry isn't about non-Christians posting, but about prospective Christians reading.
Because how dare they differ from your orthodoxy!
I apologize for the ambiguity. My concern isn't about the atheist postings, but the Christian ones. They are truly not representative of Christians, not even conservative ones. But I really worry that people who don't understand Christianity will read threads like this and think that they represent what Christians are like. Unfortunately there's no real way to respond, because anything you say just drags you into the mud, too.
 
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