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That's a black swan fallacy, to say nothing of shifting the goalposts, because I never said the Bible was positive on homosexuality and thus asking me to find examples of same sex couplings is silly (even if one can bring up David and Jonathan I believe), I'm saying they didn't have the concept that we'd call homosexuality anymore than they had a concept of sexual orientation, regarding the whole process as rooted in behavior, not the will
If you acknowledge reproduction is not required, there isn't anything stopping gay people from fulfilling marriage's more basic ideals of fidelity and family in general (bringing families together)
Marriage back then was horribly misogynist, women were basically just meant to continue the lineage, they were regarded so little, that the idea of marrying a widow was seen as being compassionate because they couldn't support themselves (I think Esther has a story in that vein, I read it in the manga adaptation where I'm still barely to David last I took time to read it).
No one's saying homosexuality is a norm or default, it's a normative variation in the same way that being bisexual or the like is still fitting into healthy human sexual behavior, it's not in the vein of anything damaging like rape or sexual molestation and such, which doesn't respect human autonomy
Actually, I'm pretty sure the evidence is against you on the idea of us being hard wired to be heterosexual, it's just the more common variation, which is like saying we're hard wired to be right handed and those left handed people are choosing to use their left hand
Not sure you can claim with authority anymore than me that homosexuality wasn't common in some respect back then, they just didn't call it that. Again, sex was regarded based on behavior, not on will
As if Christianity's position on homosexuality is nearly so uniform and monolithic, it's not like you or any Christian gets to tell someone dogmatically how they must behave as a Christian unless you can actually back it up. And then you just get into a tennis match of interpretation bouncing, it gets nowhere
Attractions are not lifestyles, or you might as well call an enjoyment of music a lifestyle. The word is not reductive to single traits, it's something that permeates various aspects of one's life and being gay or straight or otherwise is only affecting particular areas notably
To be polite but frank, I think your description of me committing a 'black swan fallacy' and moving goalposts is actually exactly what you're doing right now.
I also never claimed that you were definitively portrayed bible on being positive on homosexuality. I simply detected an insinuation and decided to prod at it a bit with a half-hearted question. I say half-hearted because I already know the answer to my question anyways lol.
Why don't we just de-complicate the whole thing, shall we? Homosexuality is not a normative variation. In fact, we can't even prove it's genetic. At best, it is an adopted behavior-based probably more on psychology than anything else, maybe coupled with hormones and brain patterns. But that's as far as it goes. In any case, your point on 'it's not as damaging as rape or sexual molestation' is hard to hold up as well, from a 'natural' or evolutionary standpoint. If you think about it, considering how many people use the animal kingdom(saying homosexuality in animals is common, so therefore it's OK for us)as an example to call it 'harmless'(which, I don't see how it's exactly harmless naturally speaking since it would prevent procreation and passing on your genetics...which is kind of the whole point of living, from a purely scientific standpoint)think about this; sexual molestation and rape is actually very common in the animal kingdom. Have you ever seen an otter raping a baby seal before killing it? It's not pretty. Or perhaps a lion murdering a cub that came from a rival?
I'm obviously not trying to place homosexuals on the same level as murderers and rapists, but I'm making the point that your view on the matter is based on morals; and unless you get your word from God, there is no universal standard of morals. We would've only developed morals as a species in order to become more social and boost our chances of surviving in numbers; just another tactic used by nature. With that being said, one could also argue that ANY means of ensuring survival and the best genes passed on would be, by nature's standards, the best choice.
Also, homosexuality has likely been around since humans have been. Just because it wasn't called the same thing, doesn't mean it was different back then. Homosexuality, is wanting to have sex with the same gender. That's literally it.
There are times when being dogmatic is appropriate. Being homosexual is not spiritually beneficial for a Christian, as it goes against the basic principles of marriage. I also did not say procreation was ABSOLUTELY necessary, but it is a very important factor in marriage as a whole.
I'm also not really going to address the whole 'misogynist' view of marriage back then since that'd turn into a whole other historical debate and honestly morality has nothing to do with it. After all--if we'd done it God's way from the get-go, women wouldn't have been treated that way to begin with. That there is man's error.
At least the bible doesn't permit a man to beat his wife with a stick if she refuses to obey like in the Quran :1
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