Find me a marriage in the bible where two men or women married each other?
Also, disregarding the most-quoted '6 verses condemning homosexuality' (which, by the way, I have studied numerous times and agree that it is indeed not in favor of homosexuality given the time, place and language)my point was about marriage. There are tons of verses in the bible describing marriage. That, and while I personally don't believe a couple has to pro-create per se, it'd be foolish to ignore the fact that reproduction is also a large component of marriage, biblically speaking; two people of the same sex cannot procreate.
Being a concubine or secondary wife at the time meant being a woman that was there to cater to the man's sexual needs and to provide his offspring should his first wife not be able to. To be honest, I'm not even sure they interacted much with the other 'wives'. And as I said--God didn't even look favorably on polygamy, either. Just like he didn't look favorably on divorce. He only 'allowed' it for a time, and for a purpose...probably because the majority of polygamy-involved figures at that time only suffered because of it (King David, King Solomon, etc). It is also very silly to think of homosexuality as anywhere near a 'norm' or default. There have been VERY scarce times in history where it was ever considered 'normal'...not to mention we're naturally hard-wired to be attracted to the opposite sex for the purpose of pro-creation and survival as a species. So forgive me for assuming that someone, in a time where homosexuality was not widely practiced or approved of, would be straight rather than the opposite.
Like I said, I'm not down to rag on homosexuals. Yeah, they deserve human rights and kindness--but if they aren't ready to sacrifice that part of themselves for their Faith(regardless of any opinions on the topic), Christianity is not for them.
SIDE NOTE: I call it a 'lifestyle' because while the attraction may be there, you do not have to act on it. Celibacy can be considered a lifestyle as well.
That's a black swan fallacy, to say nothing of shifting the goalposts, because I never said the Bible was positive on homosexuality and thus asking me to find examples of same sex couplings is silly (even if one can bring up David and Jonathan I believe), I'm saying they didn't have the concept that we'd call homosexuality anymore than they had a concept of sexual orientation, regarding the whole process as rooted in behavior, not the will
If you acknowledge reproduction is not required, there isn't anything stopping gay people from fulfilling marriage's more basic ideals of fidelity and family in general (bringing families together)
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Marriage back then was horribly misogynist, women were basically just meant to continue the lineage, they were regarded so little, that the idea of marrying a widow was seen as being compassionate because they couldn't support themselves (I think Esther has a story in that vein, I read it in the manga adaptation where I'm still barely to David last I took time to read it).
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No one's saying homosexuality is a norm or default, it's a normative variation in the same way that being bisexual or the like is still fitting into healthy human sexual behavior, it's not in the vein of anything damaging like rape or sexual molestation and such, which doesn't respect human autonomy
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Actually, I'm pretty sure the evidence is against you on the idea of us being hard wired to be heterosexual, it's just the more common variation, which is like saying we're hard wired to be right handed and those left handed people are choosing to use their left hand
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Not sure you can claim with authority anymore than me that homosexuality wasn't common in some respect back then, they just didn't call it that. Again, sex was regarded based on behavior, not on will
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As if Christianity's position on homosexuality is nearly so uniform and monolithic, it's not like you or any Christian gets to tell someone dogmatically how they must behave as a Christian unless you can actually back it up. And then you just get into a tennis match of interpretation bouncing, it gets nowhere
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Attractions are not lifestyles, or you might as well call an enjoyment of music a lifestyle. The word is not reductive to single traits, it's something that permeates various aspects of one's life and being gay or straight or otherwise is only affecting particular areas notably