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Not really. Your use of the word “often” is problematic.
I’ve encountered enough tramatized teenage girls whose behaviors were consistent with what they said and decision making, whereas Ms. Ford’s aren’t.
From the many girls and victims I’ve worked with, or the countless investigative affidavits by detectives that I’ve read, to the victim advocates I’ve worked with, these teenage girls had one common thought, get away from the person trying to physically hurt me when I can, and survive. From that, many of the victims wanted to get out of the house, car, hotel room, etcetera, away from the assailant, and to a phone, to people or a person who could help. When they couldn’t, they had a plausible, believable, explanation, or the explanation had some modicum of making sense. This isn’t, at this moment, true of Ms. Ford’s account.
Does this mean Ms. Ford is lying? Not necessarily, but it can create doubt, and justifiably so.
In addition, there’s the paradox of hearing the boys laugh but the music in the room is loud to drown out her screams.
There’s also the unresolved issues surrounding her account of how she got home.
Admittedly "often" is a subjective word. Perhaps I might have used "a number of?"Not really. Your use of the word “often” is problematic.
You and I clearly have different points of view. You deal and have dealt with young women strong enough to think relatively clearly and although frightened involve law enforcement. My experience has been mostly with young women that did not have that strength or those decision making skills. And I dare say I have probably (based upon your stated 13 years) dealt with at least as many of these victims and probably more.I’ve encountered enough tramatized teenage girls whose behaviors were consistent with what they said and decision making, whereas Ms. Ford’s aren’t.
Indeed "get away" but for young women who are not clear headed running to the bathroom is getting away, at least temporarily.From the many girls and victims I’ve worked with, or the countless investigative affidavits by detectives that I’ve read, to the victim advocates I’ve worked with, these teenage girls had one common thought, get away from the person trying to physically hurt me when I can, and survive.
I'm sure this is true, considering that you qualified your statement with the word "many."From that, many of the victims wanted to get out of the house, car, hotel room, etcetera, away from the assailant, and to a phone, to people or a person who could help.
Why not? If her statement is true then she effectively separated herself from her assailant.When they couldn’t, they had a plausible, believable, explanation, or the explanation had some modicum of making sense. This isn’t, at this moment, true of Ms. Ford’s account.
I've know too many young women who have done a similar thing to think it should create doubt.Does this mean Ms. Ford is lying? Not necessarily, but it can create doubt, and justifiably so.
Considering that the boys allegedly were in the same room as her and that they, again allegedly, were trying to keep her screams from being heard by people outside the room it is entirely possible she could hear them laughing.In addition, there’s the paradox of hearing the boys laugh but the music in the room is loud to drown out her screams.
Traumatized victims often forget some matters of fact. Do you claim that is not true?There’s also the unresolved issues surrounding her account of how she got home.
I, having watched their testimonies am in the odd position that I believe that they both believe they are telling the truth. I'm not sure there is a liar here as much as there is a memory issue involved. If she is a traumatized victim memory issues are possible, the same can be said of an 18 year old who drank heavily.
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