Well, men
would like to have, "regular, satisfying sexual intercourse". If you consider it a need, try fasting. Then you'll know what "need" is, when you start feeling those hunger pangs. =) Just a side note anyway.
Jesus didn't have sex and he wasn't frustrated. =) but yes, anyway. sometimes we need to satisfy that frustration with something higher than sex, like, say, worshipping the Father? for those of you frustrated about sex, how much time do you spend a day or even a week worshipping? an hour? more? less? i'd say i spend less, and i feel bad about that. but i've been doing more recently. its satisfying on a level sex can't reach.
in fact, worship is one of the most satisfying experiences a man can engage in. its humbling, grateful, and glorious. anyone can do it, just get on your knees! we always seem to expect our women on their knees
, but men should get on their knees too... =)
i'm just saying its niiiiiiice =) and if once is good, twice is better. eh?
was that a real sentence? never mind. i dont want to even think about soldiers masturbating. darn it. sigh
if we worshipped more, we'd wack it less. its like our very own asherah pole. but really, isnt it silly?
if youve ever watched yourself in the mirror while wacking it, you know you look ridiculously silly. i know i do!
so i stopped. i figure, between God watching me, and the multitude of angels watching me, and there are even demons watching, though they are all invisible, they are still watching. i'd rather spend my time praising Christ than wacking it. but sex was ordained by God as something good for a husband and wife, and it should be engaged in as frequently as possible. the very opportunity to do that act is a gift, and its a gift that should be given often. sex is fun. masturbation is something to do to pass the time. worship is best of all though. next time you're about to wack it, stop, and go worship instead. God'll appreciate it, what do you think?
deadly sperm buildup? i've heard that theory too. heh, i dont buy it, but ive heard of it. its been a while since i've had sex, and i feel fine. maybe some males are gifted with a release valve. yknow sperm gets absorbed back into the body if it doesnt get used right?
i'm enjoying this thread =) its helping me to think through some of these issues. back in august i got dumped from a 6y relationship. so thats all a little fresh in my mind. it was like i was married, so thats why i feel ok posting here even tho im currently single.
what would you say if you did?
yes, just like they're real people with real feelings that can get hurt. so please, if you wouldn't want someone saying _____ to you, don't say _____ to them. love one another as Christ has loved you. the truth is gentle, not brutal.
forgive my bluntness and hypocrisy. its late, 150am, and im tired. tomorrow will be better... this is a very interesting topic tho and i hope everyone sticks around til we come to some reasonable conclusion
guys? learn? hehe. only if we can keep our hands off ourselves for a few minutes.
with that, i'd have to agree. when yer gettin laid on a regular basis, thats one less thing you have to worry about and other things do seem easier. you feel like you can conquer the rest of your life if you can feel like a conquerer in the bedroom. i only use that expression loosely. oh i also think that if yer married, you shouldnt be wackin it. it just aint fair to her, especially if she's beggin you for sex.
would you really be? sorry, never mind. its late, i should stop writing now before i say anything else stupid =) gnite all, love in Christ.
