Actually, we've been moving to native and drought resistant plants instead of lawn, which a number of people in our neighborhood are doing. About half of the front yard is planted with iris, turk's cap, daylilies, autum joy sedum, Texas purple sage, almond bush and some others. And we've let about half a dozen different types of fir/pine trees grow that just popped up naturally. It's all still somewhat sparse, but I work on it every spring and fall, and on nice summer mornings, which we do have. A couple more years and it'll be looking presentable. In the back I have some raised beds for vegetable growing, so that takes up a lot of space, it's not a large back yard. The grass grows there when it can.
One just has to adapt.