I've brought this up several times before, including here on CF, and it's rare for me to get a solid response either way.
So, here it goes.
The incident in question happened about 10 years ago.
A used to be a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, what most people know as the "Mormons". I was one of several people conversing with her on an online forum dedicated to discussing religion.
During the conversation, she name-dropped the author whose works brought her out of the church. This caused a number of people - myself included - to be rather alarmed. The author in question is known by both Mormon and non-Mormon alike to be so agenda-driven that he's more than willing to lie if it achieves his ends. That's right: the author proclaims himself a "Good Christian", yet it takes minimal effort to find outright lies in his works. Basically, he's willing to use the Devil's tactics in God's name.
When we explained this to her, she was alarmed and said that she would take things under consideration.
A week later, she came back. She had investigated the author and his works from both sides, and found that his material was indeed wanting. Based on this, she was going to investigate the LDS faith a second time over.
In response to this, Minister P - yes, he had "Minister" in his user title and had been claiming to be the minister of a Baptist congregation - fired off a scathing open letter to B, A's husband. In the letter, Minister P literally declared that if B did't use "any means necessary" (direct quote) to prevent A from re-joining the LDS faith, then he would be a failure as both a husband and a Christian.
A made one final response a day or two after the letter was posted. As she explained, B was just as furious about the letter as A was. Neither person wanted to be a member of any church that would have Minister P as a minister, and so this incident made their minds up: A and B were, indeed, going to become Mormon.
I've brought this up in an effort to explain how overly-aggressive and overly-hostile ministers can do more harm than good, yet if I'm not being ignored I'm having people try to explain how in their eyes Minister P didn't do anything wrong.
Are Minister P's actions in keeping with what is acceptable in mainline Christianity?
Yes or no?