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Saying things that make you feel dumb

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Ever seen those Southwest Airline commercials where someone does someting stupid and the narrator of the commercial says "Wanna get away?" Well that's how I am feeling right now. I have been interested in this particular girl for a long time now. Well....for about two months. And have actually got some chances to talk with her, hang out etc...

When I found out she was a good musician I decided to create a Myspace and add her to my profile. When I added her I left her comment. And it's a comment that I really regret leaving. Cause now I feel like an idiot. I feel like an idiot cause I think it's too early to leave such a comment, but what's done is done. The comment was really meant to be in a joking manner as well as a compliment to her music skills. Anyways, the comment says "You inspire because you make me realize that good musicians can in fact, exist in the middle of nowhere. The middle of nowhere part is a reference to where we live, which is a small town in the middle of nowhere really. And I am poking fun at it. In the beginning part of the comment, I really regret using the word "inspire" because it sounds too deep and perhaps a bit mushy. Ugh....is it possible that I may have just completely turned this girl off of me because of one comment? Now she may think I am being clingy or desperate or something. Ugh....this "game" is hard to play. Now I am really feeling anxious and it's stuck in my mind. I don't even feel like going to work today. And I can't seem to pray or anything. Cause I just feel like an idiot. I want to lie in bed all day. So what do you guys think?
 

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I dont think its too mushy. I dont see why you would have to wait to say that, a person inspires you. Its a compliment. :)

Dont worry too much about it;)

Now if you wanna hear some things being said dumb I can give you a pretty big list on my behalf ;)
 
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My thought is that she will think it is the most original comment that she has ever heard.
Don't be concerned if she does not comment back. I have lots of comments that I don't reply to unless they are asking a question. (on myspace)
Also try no to think about pink elephants (LOL)
I know it's really hard not to worry but going to work will probably help you take your mind off of it.
They used to have a thing at the bottom that said Add Comment , View Comments
That's were you could view or delete your own comment that you left on someone else's page. I don't think you can do that any more though I am looking....
I couldn't find it but you could look at her page and see if you can delete it that way.
Otherwise it's already done. It will be okay. My 11 year old son came home last night and told me "I finally manned up" :confused: :confused: and told Lexi I like her...
Lexi is a girl he has liked for two years and has never gotten up the nerve to tell her so.
So apparently no matter what age you are you will still have embarrassing moments..
Even if they are not really embarrassing to the other person.
Hope this helps ~Brandi
 
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Also try no to think about pink elephants (LOL)

Whats wrong with pink elephants??? :confused::confused:

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LOL! Pink elephants are fine! It's green monkeys you can't think about! Green monkeys!:D;)

"I heard that Kay!"
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:o:o:o-Now you upset the green monkeys!! ^_^^_^


(on a side note I think Im way overdo for bed :p)
 
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