I know of girls that had an unthinkable amount of different guys in high school and they were able to feel pure again. Most likely less pure than had they waited but its still redeemable isnt it?
We are living in a world that is disordered and has been since a long time ,so we are put in situations
where we almost have no choice .There is huge hypocrisy around 'sexuality ' ,as often those who push it in private ,act the perfect marries people in public .
In many ways it comes from why we have marriage in the first place ,and need to have laws at all in religion .
When God made Creation and humanity we were naturally tuned to God and His Creation .That is we loved and honoured Him as our Creator and Father ,and we would be given a compatible Partner ,a family and community .It was natural for us to Honour God ,hounour our parents or elders ,not steal from or be jealous from our community ,not kill or damage each other ,not be envous or desirous of what we were not given ,but when Satan through the couple called Adam and Eve allowed themselves to be tempted by Evil' ,they broke the natural and good 'unseen' laws which people who are in tune with the Holy Spirit of God act out naturally ,without even thinking about it .h nthis happened and creation was broken
all those with evil hearts ,many of them 'very religious ' were able to prey on the more innocent and by changing the societies in which we live to conform to their desires put temptation , and pressure ,in the paths of the those who want something better(often young ) ,but cannot find it because goodness is very rare ,and always has been .This is not new ,but hiding it is more difficult now and hypocrisy is more difficult to enforce .
While a marriage with someone compatible is the best thing possible ,it is often the softer kinder girls who give in ,not the good ones who are more self contained and self considering ,so of course one can be healed from this as often they are victims (not always of course ).It is no coincidence that Jesus was so'soft' on the prostitute and condemning of the religious hypocrites who 'created' them in most cases .
Whatever you have been doing can be healed totally ,in part by trying to make friends and care for others and be cared for by others ,making friends with the wounded ,wounded by false religious 'laws ' which are more to do with standing in SOCIETY than to do with the love of a God who loves to help the wounded and hates the false pretence . We are to go forward when we become concious of ourselves in our relationship with our Creator ,and not look back going one step each day .
"One day at a time sweet Jesus that's all I 'm asking of you "....a lovely song to by yourself .
