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Ok. Thank you.Look to Christ, trust him to change you by the power of the holy Spirit. The more you do this, realising you are helpless to change yourself, the more the fruits of the Spirit will grow in your life( gal5:22) The fruits of the Spirit are the embodiment of how God wants you to live.
Then you will have followed the right path
To live truly for the Lord you must realize that we ALL fall. No matter who you are, whether or not you are a very mature Christian or a baby Christian, we all fall. Out of all the things, do not feel guilt about your past because that is a sin also. God doesn't hate you for sins you have committed, He hates sin itself. Meaning He condemns sin but doesn't condemn you.I know I'm not righteous. But the problem is I don't think I ever will be. I Iived/live a terrible sinful life. Looking back on all my sins I feel disgusted with myself. I feel like I could have done better. I'm so confused with being on the right path. I think it's too late for me. I think I'm going to hell . There's no justification. (Wisdom is justified by her deeds) I want to be a true Christian. Nah I just want to be real.. i don't want to be a hypocrite....the fire is there. I know I love the Lord. I just don't know who I am anymore.. or how to be righteous...and live for the Lord...i have the fire in me though...the passion to live for the Lord is there..i read my bible sometimes though some of the stuff in there is too much for me to comprehend. And I forget a lot. I don't pray much. I never really lived that Christian lifestyle. You know. But I always claimed that I love God. Though my actions never really showed it....and I guess I'm starting to wake up and see that I'm not living right. I guess my question is how does one become righteous or live truly for the Lord?
Aww thanks...your post is very comforting. It makes me feel better.To live truly for the Lord you must realize that we ALL fall. No matter who you are, whether or not you are a very mature Christian or a baby Christian, we all fall. Out of all the things, do not feel guilt about your past because that is a sin also. God doesn't hate you for sins you have committed, He hates sin itself. Meaning He condemns sin but doesn't condemn you.
If you truly believe Jesus Christ died for your sins, and you clearly realize you are a sinner because of this post, and have asked Him to forgive your sins, then you are a Christian and there is nothing to worry about. I believe anyway (can't say for others on this forum) that you cannot lose your salvation once you gain it at any point in your life. I think it's important to realize that you are definitely not going to Hell, I am fully confident.
The only "Christian lifestyle" you live is when you become a Christian. I believe you don't have to do anything afterwards in order to go to Heaven, however, that doesn't mean to live the life you want. This just means that there is a gift that God has given you, and you have to decide how close you want to be among His family. You clearly feel shame for yourself because of the way you live, but I am here to tell you that God doesn't want you to. God wants you to not feel any guilt and it doesn't matter if you come to Him completely clean in prayer, or completely sinful because God blocks it all out anyway.
When you pray, just pray the way you feel you need to pray, and God will work through you. I have said this on a couple of other threads but my pastor once told me that if you have a certain sin you commit, then let that be the sin that makes you submit to God. Realize you can't stop it by yourself, and to let God take over.
It doesn't have to be dramatic like Christian movies where you have a total breakdown and cry and fall apart in front of God, but that needs to be your spirit. Really focus on God and gradually He will push all of it away and make you whole.
Hope this helps and I will definitely pray for you.
Thanks...Hi Jenniferdiana, I have some very good news for you, the Lord loves you in spite of your sins/ sinfulness. In fact, God is in the business of saving the ungodly, IOW people just like you and me, who simply believe/trust Him to do so ... in spite of our sins
Romans 4
5 To the one who does not work, but believes in Him who justifies the wicked, his faith is credited as righteousness.
He loves us so much that He sent His one and only Son here to do for us what we could not do for ourselves, IOW 1. Be Innocent 2. Be Righteous 3. Die to atone for the sins we've committed because we are neither 1 nor 2.
So just "look to Jesus", believing in Him (& in the works He's done on your behalf). Ask Him to be your Savior & the Lord of your life (knowing that He always knows what's best for you, far better than you ever could yourself), and fully trust that God will indeed choose to save you graciously (on the basis of His Son's works, His life, His death on the Cross, and His Resurrection), just like He promised us He would
Again, nothing "we" do can save us, rather, our salvation is based totally upon what the Lord Jesus did for us when He came here to 1. live among us and 2. die in our places on the Cross to atone for our sins.
The Bible teaches us that we are "saved by grace" (UN-merited favor), which means in a nutshell that we get what we don't deserve in this case
So confess your sins to Him (all that you can remember) and ask Him to forgive you of them .. Romans 10:9-10; 1 John 1:9. Then ask Him to be your Savior and Lord, and trust (with all of your heart) that He will (because He promised us He would!). And ask to be filled with the Holy Spirit.
His salvation is specifically from sin, and from our sinful selves, and that in the "here and now" (and from His wrath at the Judgment, of course .. Romans 5:8-9). Our salvation from Hell in the age to come is a byproduct of being saved from our sinful selves right now). This seems perfect for you, since it is your sins and sinful self that you want to be saved from, yes!
In Christ,
David
p.s. - to act like a Christian, you have to become a Christian first, and that's something that only God can do .. e.g. Ezekiel 36:26; John 3:3; 2 Corinthians 5:17, 21.
John 5
24 Truly, truly, I say to you, he who hears My word, and believes Him who sent Me, has eternal life, and does not come into judgment, but has passed out of death into life.
So are you guys saying I just have to believe and have faith in God?
Ok.Exactly Jenniferdiana, this is the Pure Gospel that Paul preached. Here is another Gospel passage.
Abraham Justified by Faith
1What then shall we say was gained by Abraham, our forefather according to the flesh? 2For if Abraham was justified by works, he has something to boast about, but not before God. 3For what does the Scripture say? “Abraham believed God, and it was counted to him as righteousness.” 4Now to the one who works, his wages are not counted as a gift but as his due. 5And to the one who does not work but believes in him who justifies the ungodly, his faith is counted as righteousness, 6just as David also speaks of the blessing of the one to whom God counts righteousness apart from works:
7“Blessed are those whose lawless deeds are forgiven,
and whose sins are covered;
8blessed is the man against whom the Lord will not count his sin.”
See Jennifer, we are the ungodly, because all have sinned. There is absolutely nothing we contribute to our Salvation but sin and resistance. The good news of the Gospel is the announcement of who Christ is and what he has done for us! Notice verse 4 where Paul says, "but believes in Him (God) who justified the ungodly." Not the righteous, godly people, because there are none. We all are ungodly before. But if you believe in Christ who came to live and die for you, the ungodly! You will be saved, now! Right now! Believe that!!!!
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I'm not confused..lol what you posted makes perfect sense .....thanksI do not want to confuse you. Just remember one thing. How is a sinner justified before a Holy God? I gave you the Heidelberg Catechism answer. Remember once you are justified or declared Perfectly righteous before God in Christ through Faith apart from works. You can stand firm and bold before God. Because Christ the Son of God, whom God promised He will sand to save you, will fulfill His promise.
Now that you are righteous in Christ, stand firm. You will fall into sin, you will fail, but never forget who saved you! Get up and continue to walk in the Faith in Christ, always trusting God who justifies the ungodly! Now that you have a solid foundation in Christ, you can live to God. Follow and obey the 10 commandments by Loving God with all your heart, and Loving your neighbor as yourself. But know that this doing is not what saves you. You do these things because you are already saved in Christ, right NOW! So live to God, Jennifer, and when Satan starts to accuse you of sin; which he will. Repeat what Luther told him. Yes, I am a sinner, and Christ came and saved me, a SINNER!
It is true that our own righteousness is not enough to make us acceptable to God and no effort will ever do it as long as we live. God knew this and this is why Jesus died on the cross for us. He took our sinfulness and exchanged it with His righteousness. God see us through the righteousness of Christ. Therefore you can say you are righteousness but not with your own righteousness but the righteousness of Christ that was given to you as the gift of God.So are you guys saying I just have to believe and have faith in God?
Some have turned toward Christ who are older than you. Jesus taught a parable about day laborers being hired to work harvesting grapes in a vineyard. Some were hired towards the end of the day; these also reaped a full day's pay for their diligence. If you repent, you may be of greater use to others. Reject vice. Learn what a healthy lifestyle is. Be eager to learn knowledge in an effort to attain wisdom. Honesty and awareness should replace ignorance and delusion. Pray to God for ways to help others.I know I'm not righteous. But the problem is I don't think I ever will be. I Iived/live a terrible sinful life. Looking back on all my sins I feel disgusted with myself. I feel like I could have done better. I'm so confused with being on the right path. I think it's too late for me. I think I'm going to hell . There's no justification. (Wisdom is justified by her deeds) I want to be a true Christian. Nah I just want to be real.. i don't want to be a hypocrite....the fire is there. I know I love the Lord. I just don't know who I am anymore.. or how to be righteous...and live for the Lord...i have the fire in me though...the passion to live for the Lord is there..i read my bible sometimes though some of the stuff in there is too much for me to comprehend. And I forget a lot. I don't pray much. I never really lived that Christian lifestyle. You know. But I always claimed that I love God. Though my actions never really showed it....and I guess I'm starting to wake up and see that I'm not living right. I guess my question is how does one become righteous or live truly for the Lord?
I know I'm not righteous. But the problem is I don't think I ever will be. I Iived/live a terrible sinful life. Looking back on all my sins I feel disgusted with myself. I feel like I could have done better. I'm so confused with being on the right path. I think it's too late for me. I think I'm going to hell . There's no justification. (Wisdom is justified by her deeds) I want to be a true Christian. Nah I just want to be real.. i don't want to be a hypocrite....the fire is there. I know I love the Lord. I just don't know who I am anymore.. or how to be righteous...and live for the Lord...i have the fire in me though...the passion to live for the Lord is there..i read my bible sometimes though some of the stuff in there is too much for me to comprehend. And I forget a lot. I don't pray much. I never really lived that Christian lifestyle. You know. But I always claimed that I love God. Though my actions never really showed it....and I guess I'm starting to wake up and see that I'm not living right. I guess my question is how does one become righteous or live truly for the Lord?
I guess my question is how does one become righteous or live truly for the Lord?
I know I'm not righteous. But the problem is I don't think I ever will be. I Iived/live a terrible sinful life. Looking back on all my sins I feel disgusted with myself. I feel like I could have done better. I'm so confused with being on the right path. I think it's too late for me. I think I'm going to hell . There's no justification. (Wisdom is justified by her deeds) I want to be a true Christian. Nah I just want to be real.. i don't want to be a hypocrite....the fire is there. I know I love the Lord. I just don't know who I am anymore.. or how to be righteous...and live for the Lord...i have the fire in me though...the passion to live for the Lord is there..i read my bible sometimes though some of the stuff in there is too much for me to comprehend. And I forget a lot. I don't pray much. I never really lived that Christian lifestyle. You know. But I always claimed that I love God. Though my actions never really showed it....and I guess I'm starting to wake up and see that I'm not living right. I guess my question is how does one become righteous or live truly for the Lord?
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