You are saying that God is basically big.
He's a whole lot more than that! "Big" doesn't really even begin to cover the nature of God.
Now it does not seem good to hate people disobeying you.
God's perfect holiness, justice, love and wisdom are reflected in His commands. When we disobey His commands we reject the wisdom, love, holiness and rightness that those commands embody. We also suffer the destructive consequences of disobeying, which always follow such disobedience. God would protect us from such consequences if we would only obey Him. The matter isn't just one of doing what God wants, but of living in the best possible way, the way God
made us to live. When we sin, we adopt a course that is not ordered by God's excellent nature. When we sin, we suffer the destruction that not following God's best way causes. When we sin, we fail to live in the way our Maker created us to live. For these reasons alone God has good cause to hate our sin.
God may have attributes 1 - 4 but how are people to know that God is all-wise? Especially if he does not give reasons for his commands?
How do we know God is all-wise? Well, as far as our limited faculties allow, we can see in the experience of others and in our own experience the truth of God's wisdom given to us in His Word, the Bible. As well, when we investigate what God has made, we can catch a glimpse of His awesome wisdom there, too.
Shouldn't people use reason to work out what is wrong or right, not just do whatever some being who says he is all-wise commands?
Are you playing Devil's Advocate, now? Or are you playing at something else?
If God is as the Bible reveals Him to be, it seems to me a no-brainer that one would allow His perfect wisdom to inform one's own finite, flawed understanding.
If God makes a trivial command such as wear white socks why would it be so dreadful to disobey him that it warrants eternal torture?
For starters, because God does not issue trivial commands. And also because of who He is, and because of the things I noted at the start of this post.
If God tells you not to commit genocide then I can understand disobeying such a command would be wrong. But then it would be still wrong even if Aunt Sally commanded it. Genocide would be wrong not because God has forbidden it but because it is genocide.
And how do you conclude that anything is right or wrong? How is it obvious to you that a command of God about wearing white socks would be trivial while a command forbidding genocide is not?
Thus if God tells me to wear white socks and I disobey then I dont see how having so much power and being the Creator implies that disobeying him is such a terribly evil act. It just does not follow.
On
your line of thinking it doesn't follow.
Yet what is wrong or right depends on the situation not on irrelevant characteristics that you may happen to possess. If torture is wrong when humans do it, it should be wrong when an all-powerful Creator does it. And if an all-powerful Creator does do torture then he is not all-good.
And what in a situation determines whether or not a thing is right or wrong?
I dont see that hell demonstrates any kind of justice at all.
I can see that. And given your line of reasoning and perspective on God it is not unexpected.
Peace.