Forgive me in advance for being long-winded. It is my nature.

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I would suggest reading some of CS Lewis. I think that he does a fine job of explaining the faith and in writing fantasies that help one understand. He has written a couple about heaven and hell: "The Screwtape Letters" and the "Great Divorce".
As Russeau said. "God created man is his image, and man being a gentleman returned the favor". Many people's and many culture's view of God is a projection and a caricature. In the West, so many want to have God as judge, giver of laws, and the giver of reqards and punishment. That legalistic view is curiously part of the worldview of both Catholics and Protestants. Sin isn't bad because God hates sin; it is bad because it harms us. God is Love and Peace, beyond all human understanding.
God is so, so beyond our understanding. It is enough to turn away from your past life (repent), accept the reality of the incarantion and the resurrection, and follow Jesus. Yes, that does mean being baptized and being part of a community of believes.
You seem to have chosen the Orthodox Church. It is not my choice. However, it is a fine choice. There is an understanding in the Eastern Church that few others seem to come close to. For the EO, we are constantly becoming more and more in union with God (theosis).
If you wish to consider the really good news. It is that you can choose to turn away from your sin nature and start to become more and more in union with God.
In an early post, you intellectualized the choice: to choose to believe and follow or not. It is an old paradigm. Consider it as a game. Consider the payoff matrix. If you believe and are wrong, what have you lost? If you choose not to believe and are wrong, you have lost much indeed. In my last church, we had a hymn: "Taste and See The Goodness of the Lord"
In the end, Jesus invites us to follow him. He gave us two commands and ask us to tell others the good news of his victory over death. If you must worry about judgement (being a Westerner), then consider what Jesus will judge.
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Matthew 25
The Sheep and the Goats
31-33"When he finally arrives, blazing in beauty and all his angels with him, the Son of Man will take his place on his glorious throne. Then all the nations will be arranged before him and he will sort the people out, much as a shepherd sorts out sheep and goats, putting sheep to his right and goats to his left.
34-36"Then the King will say to those on his right,
'Enter, you who are blessed by my Father! Take what's coming to you in this kingdom. It's been ready for you since the world's foundation. And here's why:
I was hungry and you fed me,
I was thirsty and you gave me a drink,
I was homeless and you gave me a room,
I was shivering and you gave me clothes,
I was sick and you stopped to visit,
I was in prison and you came to me.'
37-40"Then those 'sheep' are going to say, 'Master, what are you talking about? When did we ever see you hungry and feed you, thirsty and give you a drink? And when did we ever see you sick or in prison and come to you?' Then the King will say, 'I'm telling the solemn truth: Whenever you did one of these things to someone overlooked or ignored, that was meyou did it to me.'
41-43"Then he will turn to the 'goats,' the ones on his left, and say
, 'Get out, worthless goats! You're good for nothing but the fires of hell. And why? Because
I was hungry and you gave me no meal,
I was thirsty and you gave me no drink,
I was homeless and you gave me no bed,
I was shivering and you gave me no clothes,
Sick and in prison, and you never visited.'
44"Then those 'goats' are going to say, 'Master, what are you talking about? When did we ever see you hungry or thirsty or homeless or shivering or sick or in prison and didn't help?'
45"He will answer them,
'I'm telling the solemn truth: Whenever you failed to do one of these things to someone who was being overlooked or ignored, that was meyou failed to do it to me.' 46"Then those 'goats' will be herded to their eternal doom, but the 'sheep' to their eternal reward."
[FONT="]I will try and explain what I believe more clearly. [/FONT]
[FONT="]Instead of the word 'person' I will use the phrase 'moral agent'. [/FONT]
[FONT="]By a moral agent I mean a being with responsibility for their actions. [/FONT]
[FONT="]Thus most humans are moral agents. A robot with an artificial intelligence may be a moral agent. An alien may be a moral agent. A spirit may be a moral agent. A god might be defined as a moral agent amongst other things. [/FONT]
[FONT="]I believe in the following moral principle:[/FONT]
[FONT="]No-one shall be subjected to torture or to cruel, inhuman, degrading treatment or punishment. [/FONT]
[FONT="]I dont believe that a being exists who must sometimes break this principle for whatever reason. [/FONT]
[FONT="]Hence I dont believe that there exists a Lord God Almighty, Maker of Heaven and Earth; One "in whom there is no darkness at all", who hates sin with a perfect hatred , whose power and wisdom beggars our own, and whose holy presence drops men to their knees in stunned awe and fearful shame (to use your words) who also punishes people with hell. [/FONT]
[FONT="]In addition I dont think the existence of hell would be good news since it implies that at least two billion people are going to suffer cruel punishment forever, which I would have thought would fill any kind person with horror. [/FONT]