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Repost of Prayer request for difficult relationship

Philip22

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I am someone who values every single person and appreciates the uniqueness of each individual and try to show Christ like love to everyone. Yet recently I have not always been executing behavior in Christ-like fashion. Admittedly I am a Moron when it come to people. I think I show kindness and respect to everyone but in my desperate attempt to be likable I miss things. Being very reserved does not help and I think people misinterpret a lot of what I do.

I ask for prayer for improved relationships with people at work. my goal is to be on good terms with everyone..to have respect. But recently I misread the situation and now people are upset with me. Pray for this...

I had the opportunity to text an apology to one young man, Daniel. It is irrelevant unless he reads it so Pray that GOD will open is heart/mind to be receptive of of the apology. To open the text and read it ....I have my suspension that he could be ignoring the text , Pray that GOD will supernaturally persuade him to read the text and give me more of an opportunity to any wrong , any sin or offensive that i have committed against him right.


Thank you.


P.S Obviously this is important to me, that is why I re-posted it. I only ask there is a appreciation for my desire to have true, meaningful relationships with people, As we live in world that is so fake, fake pleasantries have become the norm, unfortunately. Daniel has changed me for the better and I feel in-debt to him.., so any offense, as unintentional as it may be , I feel awful about.
 

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I wonder if you were having some problems with social skills development. If so, there’s a lot of information on the net that might possibly be helpful. There is a channel called Bright Side It has a lot of information on interpersonal skills.

I pray you will be given wisdom and insight and help.
 
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May God bless your workplace and relationships so that there may be peace and mutual respect among all. May He as well give you the opportunity and means to make things right and give you better skills to to handle situations in the future accordingly.

Ephesians 4:1-3 (NKJV)
4 I, therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you to walk worthy of the calling with which you were called, 2 with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love, 3 endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
 
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Admittedly I am a Moron when it come to people

Unless you have a confirmed diagnosis of a condition that makes it difficult for you to relate to other people's emotions.
Please do not label yourself as a ' moron ' or use any other insulting label.

You have attempted to apologise for an offence. You cannot force someone to accept it.
If the bad feelings are affecting your work relationship, that is, he wil not co operate with you or help you etc
Then you can approach your manager/supervisor to ask for their help.
If it isn't affect how the pair of you work, just carry on as you would normally, it is up to him to respond.
 
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I pray for you to draw close to the Lord. The most wonderful Saviour and Lord.
God bless you as you seek more of him in your life and his peace.
Then your relationship with others will gradually improve.
 
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