Well, God works in mysterious ways. And maybe not exactly how you think He should. It's God who got me where I'm at. And it will be God who moves me along. That's just how it works for me. If you think I live in a delusion, that's your judgment. But I have to disagree with you because I know what I have in God. And when I see God so very alive and vibrant in others of other spiritual traditions it strikes home pretty clearly that God is simply to big to fit into any single religion.
It is all about love (the spirit, that is).. that produces grace, and we recognise that God is love IN us! .. so what does religion have to do with it, if love and God are found regardless of religion (eg: John 10:16)?
.. I think it is about judgement, as you said. Whenever our judgement is wrong, condemnable, we have put beliefs over truth and grace suffers .. to some degree, the spirit is seen in a deathly state, longing for the breath of life .. the kiss of true love!
They are an imprisoned soul, being taken captive in their hardness of heart until they may receive release: acceptance or enlightenment.
True Christian religion (ie as Jesus embodies, and saints achieve greatly), is to exercise right judgement so love is always present .. but also within context of an established body of knowledge.
However, those of the sleeping soul whose belief has blinded their discernment so don't do the truth, they might still speak words based upon the same body of knowledge, but without the breath of life.
They are those whose words do harm, seeking to quench the spirit by warring against love.
I only would like to see you speaking as a Christian so your words may not be inferior when addressing a Christian.