Texas Lynn
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Texas Lynn, if I have offended you I apologise.
That's very nice.
But I must admit to wondering how? We have no history, you do not know me. Why the apparent hostility? I understand that being a professing Christian advocating for a homosexual agenda must put you in the line of fire a lot. But certainly not from me.
You seem quite willing to state sterotypes, engage in slurs ("homosexual agenda" for example), and poised with a smug certainty and better-than-you demeanor. If that is not what you wish to be expressing i would urge you to consider what you are saying. Your faction has continually and in an UnChristian manner demonized LGBTs and repeated heterosexist slurs. If you do not wish to express same, don't.
Your replies to me are rife with apparently deliberate misunderstanding of my comments. I think it is obvious to anyone what my meaning was. You make some accusations and insinuations as to my thoughts, motives and feelings. You take issue with my use of reasonable, neutral language, trying to make it into anti-homosexual slurs.
Not at all; liberal slinging of terms like "homosexual agenda" and "gay lifestyle" are unequivocally "antihomosexual slurs" on all occasions.
In particular you claim the the term practicing homosexual is offensive. I ask why? Are the terms practicing attorney, practicing physician, practicing Christian, practising Muslim offensive? I am a practicing Christian. I am also a practicing heterosexual. How is the term offensive? It simply denotes a person is homosexual and not celibate. I would suggest that if that term offends you, when it is identical in usage to many other completely inoffensive terms, then it's you consicence talking to you. If you believe homosexuality to be good, then you cannot reasonably take issue with the term practicing homosexual unless you take offence to the term practicing in relation to anything.
It is statements like this which makes your "apology" equivocal. One does not frequently hear "practicing heterosexual" yet "practicing homosexual" is generally used as a sneer. You can parse it however you want but it's still an offensive term and that has nothing to do with any supposed "guilt" of the hearer. Calling an "African-American" a "Buck" can be parsed into a paean to his sexual prowess, but everyone knows also it is used to claim the person is animalistic compared to civilized whites. So it is with antigay slurs the Religious Right constantly slings.
Your defense here amounts simply to a denial of another's views. Conservatives have an attitude of denial toward oppression and a denial that their conservatism perpetuates it.
Eldridge Cleaver wrote "What appears irrational in the viewpoint of the mother country may appear rational in the viewpoint of the colony". He used the metaphor of European imperialism here to comment on communications issues between African-Americans and white America, but it is also applicable to all instances of oppression such as the British and the Indians and conservative Christians and LGBTs.
Then there is the term homosexual lifestyle. What is wrong with that? I live a heterosexual lifestyle. Big deal. Let's face the facts. In our culture sex is a major part of our lifestyle. Far too much revolves around it. Therefore making a distinction between homosexual nad heterosexual lifestyle is not denigrating but rather reality.
More of the same.
Of course, you signature reveals the true reason for your hostility. The comment that there is no such thing as a compassionate conservative. Well, I am conservative, so I cannot be compassionate. Well, I must ask you how that is at all a Christian attitude?
Bishop May's comment merely means the two are opposing factors. Of course a conservative can be compassionate, but, when they are, they cease acting as a conservative, and that's all there is to that.
For the record,
I am not a homophobe
I do not hate homosexual people
I do not see homosexual acts as any more sinful than what I have done myself
I have no desire to be condescending or denigrating nor was I
I care about people - I would even venture to say I try to act out of love and compassion
Given all that I am a hardcore conservative
I must ask that you not group all conservatives together because some, or many, of the most vocal and visible ones act a certian way. Really, how is that in any way different than what you fight against when it is done to homsexuals?
For one thing, conservatives are not an oppressed group...
All I ask is that you not hate me because I am conservative. After all, are we not of one Father? Are we not part of the same body?
No problem there. I've never thought conservatives are not brothers and sisters. Look around you, you will not see liberal Christians and LGBT Christians claiming conservatives do not go to hebbin. On the other hand...
As Edwin Arlington Robinson wrote
He drew a circle which shut me out
Heretic, rebel, a thing to flout
But love had I and will to win
I drew a circle that took him in.
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