I go to sleep hoping I wont wake up in the morning some nights. My wife and I have been having problems with sex, she had a historectimy but is taking hormones we started arguing over frequency of sex most notably oral sex, she says I dont love on her enough but I make every effort to do so, we talk about divorce because we are slowly drifting apart sexually im 26 and she is 40. I dont really know what to do so I thought I would throw a line out. She also says that most other women wont want to engage in sex every day or oral sex every day and that some is better than being single and having nothing.