If a choice is predestined and cannot deviate, there no free will. Saying otherwise requires shutting down the mind.
Everything that happens in the history of creation happens exactly as God always knew it would happen if and when He acted in certain ways. He acted and continues to act in certain ways and not act in other ways according to His own choices. By the actions of God and by the things He "allows" to take place instead of other things - God has predestined all that takes place.
All geological matters make no choices ever whatsoever. If you think our choices are like rocks, then you have embraced the idea that we have no free will. Rocks have no free will
How silly.
Just want to point you that your Calvinism says God predestined to live like that. That is evil. Predestining that makes the one who does that evil.
No - God is not evil.
God has decreed that things in history fall out according to secondary causes. Those secondary causes (the choices made by men in this case) will be righteously judged by God in time. That is basic Bible truth and has nothing to do with Calvinism per se. All Bible believers know these things to be true.
If you believe God to be evil for so decreeing how things will be in His creation - you must deal with that yourself between God and you.
I, for one, believe God is still righteous in His methods because He tells me so. This - in spite of appearances.
All Calvinists attribute evil to God every time they say God predestined some for hell with no hope.
God knew from the foundation of the world exactly who would Go to Hell because of their choices and who would go to Heaven because of their choices. He has "forced" no one to make those choices.
The predestination of all things which take place in God's creation in no ways negates the free will of men.
Neither I nor so called Calvinists wrote the scriptures on which we base our beliefs.
You and I both live and move and have your being in God and are not, ourselves, God. Learn to live with that fact.
This is intellectual suicide. You say God predestined the drug addict to live 30 years like that and then say it’s because of the mans choices.
No - it is the opposite of intellectual suicide. It is well reasoned and it is according to the teaching of the Holy Spirit Who has been given to believers. It is not only inescapable logic given the nature of God and the nature of man as those natures have been explained to us - it is exactly as God has told us it is.
Which is true for the calvinist because rationally you cannot have God fix a man’s choices without possible deviation and the man also be able to make free choices.
God says it's possible and I believe Him.
We are only "free" in the sense He has decreed us to be free.
Again - He's God and we are not. Learn to live with it.
Your problem seems to be with God and not with Calvinists.
It seems to me that the issues you cite are true for all Bible believers. You can only palm them off as Calvinist issues if you refuse to face them yourself by ignoring the nature of things as God has told us they are.
I have to shut down my computer now and move.
I must say though, in closing, that it seems to me that those who try to refute many of these basic tenets of the Reformed faith must almost have to be worshiping a different God than the one revealed to us in the scriptures.
Good luck in your quest to make God over into something more understandable to you. You have a lot of company in that quest and I'll leave you all to it.