your (sic) missing the point , unless and until God renews us in Spirit (regeneration = new birth) we are all "dead in trespasses and sins " , dead to God , His loved and His light . dead men don't choose!
as it is written , " I was found by those who didn't seek me " .
who found God ? answer from scripture ; those who did NOT seek Him!
Yes, I understand that Jesus came to heal the sick, and they may not have been looking for God.
However, God offered himself to us - his love, we still need to choose that love freely.
Nothing in what you said shows that he compelled people to choose him.
God is good, but apparently he randomly picks whomever for no reason other than his own arbitrary reasons - much like al-Lah in Islam.
In Islam they believe that God acts according to his own will, and no matter what he does, it's 'good'.
In Christianity (except some versions like your own) God is good and he shows us his will of what is good and he doesn't change what is good - it is a guide for us, by Jesus' own witness here on earth.
Your version would be that Jesus walked along and for no particular reason at all, save his own arbitrary reasons randomly picked some people to save, yet commanding us to love everyone. He would be a hypocrite.
Why does the Bible call us to turn to God, if some are already elected for salvation?
The exhortations to turn to God (Prov 1:23; Isa 31:6; Ezek 14:6; Matt 18:13; Acts 3:19).
The exhortations to repent (I Kings 8:47; Matt 2:3; Mark 1:15; Luke 13:3,5; Acts 2:38).
The exhortations to believe (II Chr 20:20; Isa 43:10; John 6:29; 14:1; Acts 16:31).
The exhortations to obey (Acts 5:32; II Thess 1:8; Heb 5:9).
(list taken from
http://www.christiananswers.net/q-acb/acb-t008.html)