polyamory?

[Ben Borg Again]

thanks seeking,
I think you may be right. My wife does lack a self identity & independance ( no matter how hard I try other wise) and maybe she isnt mature enough to handle the complexities of poly-ism. After reading everyones advice, I think it has too great a chance of getting screwed up. Thanks for the advice. I suppose i can channel my frustration in other ways, like marathon running LOL I should have been a priest.

 

[BarbB]

yea I suppose different topic. I forgot where I found the information I have run across many times. But many people have done studies on children of gay parents and while the data is full of details, I cannot rememeber most of it except that children of gay parents are no more likely to be gay, although it is fact that the children tend to be liberal and non conservative.
There are lots of academic books on the subject with lots of case studies and information.

Ben, it wasn't the gayness of one of the parents, but the idea of a threesome which is so much more out there than 2 same sexed parents. Know what I mean?

 

[BarbB]

tell you what Zaac, lets make a deal,
you marry a gay woman for 10 years that looks like Angelios Julies twin sister, who is even approached by the public for autographs..... who at best tolerates infrequent hetro-sex for the sake of marital duty, who really finds the male anatomy gross, who has always been attracted to woman since puberty. While at the same time, in every other area of your relationship, you are the best of friends with your wife, who loves to spend time with you in a positive commited way....

..........and we will pick up this conversation where we left off, and we will see if you still have the same dualistic world view on the topic of Adultury...... DO we have a deal?

This post kind of makes me sad, because the way I see it you can still be best friends and have a hot sex life! Have you considered that maybe you've just married the wrong woman?