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Polite atheism. Is it possible?

drich0150

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Of course it's possible to be a polite atheist. I do it every day. I respect others although I don't agree with them.

And to clear up a misconception from earlier in the thread, atheism is simply the lack of belief in any god or gods. It's not a specific belief itself. Bald isn't a hair color in the same way atheism isn't a religion or belief system.

If you were talking about positive or strong atheism, that would be someone who actively denies there is a god, and that qualifies as a belief system. But not all atheists are strong atheists.

Actually your describing existential atheism, not all "atheism" is the same. The origins of existential atheism can be traced back to Niche. The fact that there are variations to atheism suggests that there are indeed different systems of belief. This fact places atheism firmly in the realm of a religion.. albeit a godless religion, but a religion just the same.

In other words, Bald maynot be a hair color but it is still describes the hair (or lack of) on one's head.
 
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Again, atheism is a description, not a belief. Bald describes the lack of hair on one's head, just as you say. And atheism describes one's lack of any belief in god or gods. You can get further descriptions of belief by adding 'strong atheist' or 'antitheist' or 'agnostic atheist' etc. But the word atheist itself implies only the lack of belief in god, not any specific other belief.

Atheism isn't a belief and certainly isn't a religion. For more reading you can wikipedia 'atheism', where they have a lot of good information.
 
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drich0150

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Again you are simply describing an existential view to atheism, not all views of atheism fall under this category. subsequently some views do indeed have rules members and meetings just like any other religious belief system. granted the existentialist atheistic view is currently the most popular, but it is not the only one, even if it is the only one your aware of. so one more time, because yours is simply one system of belief (or lack of) in lue of others it can technically be called a religion. Primarily because atheists are a body of people adhering to a particular set of beliefs and practices..

If you don't think they are then:

Can an atheist believe in God?

Can an atheist participate in christian right and ritual and mean it?

Can a Christian who loves the lord be an atheist?

I'd say you do indeed have a particular set of beliefs one must adhere to in order to become or remain an atheist...


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–noun 1.a set of beliefs concerning the cause, nature, and purpose of the universe, esp. when considered as the creation of a superhuman agency or agencies, usually involving devotional and ritual observances, and often containing a moral code governing the conduct of human affairs.

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We'll simply have to agree to disagree. You seem to insist that atheists have a particular set of beliefs, which is not true. Atheists have only one thing universally in common, and that is the absence of a belief. An absence of belief is not the same thing as a belief.

From wikipedia

"Atheism can be either the rejection of theism, or the position that deities do not exist. In he broadest sense, it is the absence of a belief in the existence of deities"

The second sentence is the ONLY thing that atheists have in common. There is no atheist creed or set of beliefs. I suspect that different atheists would provide Some simply say they don't know. Some follow the school of humanistic thought, and some follow other schools or no schools of thought at all. Some are simply nontheist and some are active antitheists, while some are apatheist. The only thing in common is a lack of belief.

It's a much repeated misunderstanding that atheism is a religion or that atheists have a uniform set of beliefs. Other than the lack of belief in god (which is not a belief in and of itself), atheists agree on exactly nothing. It is not something you adhere to, you practice, you follow, or you are devoted to. There is no particular set of beliefs and practices.

Neither you, nor I, nor anyone on this board (i hope not?) believes that invisible pink unicorns live on the moon. But that doesn't classify us together as being of a common belief system, because the absence of belief in something is not a belief.

I hope that helps. If not, we'll have to agree to disagree.

Danny
 
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Only an Atheist would assert there is a difference between the absence of a belief in the existence of God, with the belief that God does not exist. But such is the sum and substance of many comments offered by Atheists. But if you flip open a dictionary, you find "one who denies the existence of God." Hence a belief system. If God did not create everything, then something else did. Even without identifying what that might be, it is yet another in the chain of beliefs held by Atheists. The Bible tells us about folks who like to argue over the meaning of words. Atheists are committed to the belief that they define words and whatever others offer, they are wrong. At least a dozen Atheists have all made the same argument. :)
 
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I wonder, what would you call a hypothetical person who had absolutely no beliefs whatsoever? I reckon one of the names would be atheist (as well as a-lots-of-other-things), and he wouldn't be considered religious.

I'll go ahead and say I personally believe there is no god (as well as don't believe in any), so I have to concede that I have a belief. I don't think that atheism is a belief system though, nor that it matters what people think about it, or that it affects any arguments for either side, but this is my two cents.
 
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Of course its possible.

Although on here you might find it a bit difficult because you are surrounded by people who are quite sensitive about their beliefs who may take what you say out of context.

The religious views of my friends and the people I talk to aren't important, nor are they an issue. The key is to be respectful and accepting of the beliefs of others, and have friends that will do you the same service.
 
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I wonder, what would you call a hypothetical person who had absolutely no beliefs whatsoever?

Nothing because He would not be for or against anything.. Atheist are collectively against the Idea of a God.

That is my point.

If atheist believed absolutely nothing, then anyone could be an atheist at any point.

Because even if you believed in something, a true belief in nothing would allow for your belief in whatever you wanted or the lack of it.

On the other hand, Atheist are firmly planted in the realm of an anti God existence. Now because there are rules and limitations to that way of thinking, (not everyone can be an atheist) it makes it a system of belief. Now because there are more than one of you who believe this way, according to dictionary.com you are now (and always were) a religion! Congratulations!!

to further the point, the one thing that proves Atheism is a religion above all else is the way the members of Atheism (who have responded here) refuse to recognize, look or even consider any evidence, fact or proof, that challenges any deeply held religious beliefs!! On top of which this could be considered hypocrisy.. so two "religious" birds with one stone, How very religiously "christian" of you!!

It looks like we have way more in common that you think :)
 
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I would like to contribute to this discussion briefly because I understand what Danny is trying to argue. I'm going to attempt being polite in this post (while being an atheist, even though I may not have updated my icons) because I feel diplomacy is absolutely important.

I can agree that atheists are mainly the only people who are saying that they simply "lack the belief in any god or gods." Many theists do not define atheists as this. The dictionary entry that was posted on here is an excellent example. Though I haven't researched this personally, it has been suggested to me that the word "atheism" has undergone a change in meaning within recent history to the point where it is becoming more and more common for it to be defined as simply a "lack of belief". (Just for the record, this is the position I hold as well.) If anyone has heard of the "New Atheists," they might notice that sometimes they are accused of changing the old definition. So to get down to it, here's what each party will usually say when defining atheism (this is generalizing, obviously):

Theist would say: the belief that there is no god or gods
Atheist would say: the lack of belief in any god or gods

What is most important is that we agree that there is a difference between the two definitions. It may be subtle but it is so critical to theists and atheists communicating effectively with each other. If we cannot agree that there is a difference between the two then there's no point holding a discussion (that comment is meant without hostility, it's simply suggesting how crucial it is).

I would propose that almost every atheist who has come to their views using their own thought processes (meaning NOT simply being raised that way) subscribes (at least nowadays) to the latter definition. Therefore, if someone calls him or herself an atheist, I would recommend assuming they mean the second definition unless they specify otherwise. If we do this then we'll have a much smaller chance of misinterpreting someone.

Now...

It was mentioned earlier in this thread, but I want to touch on it anyway. Yes, there exist different "degrees" of atheism, namely two -- weak atheism and strong atheism. I would like to make the next statement in bold not because I wish to appear as if I'm yelling but merely to draw attention to the statement.

Most atheists are "weak" atheists.

This means all they have is a "lack of belief". This is the absolutely only thing that such atheists have in common.

Few atheists are "strong" atheists.

This means that few atheists actually claim with perfect confidence that there is no god.

This statement was made earlier:

Atheist are collectively against the Idea of a God.

I must say that this is incorrect, and this is what Danny has been saying for a while now. Atheists are not collectively against the idea of a god. In fact, a person who doesn't give the smallest care in the world about religion can be an atheist . . . because they lack any belief in a god or gods. A newborn baby is an atheist because it lacks the belief in any god or gods. A mentally retarded person can be an atheist because he or she lacks the belief in any god or gods. It is not that they claim a god does not exist, it is that they just don't have a belief in one. If someone makes the claim without absolute certainty that a god does not exist then yes, they have a belief . . . but they would still be an atheist because they would lack the belief in any god or gods. This type of atheist (strong atheist, as stated above) is not common at all, however.

It was suggested that if the term is really as vague and meaningless as that (which it would seem to be), it shouldn't even exist. For example, we don't have a-fairyists, a-unicornists, a-reincarnationists . . . Why do we have "a-theists"? The term only exists because religious beliefs have come to be known as representing the majority of the world. Having a term such as atheist makes it easy to talk about people who aren't religious. Claiming that atheism (remember that most are weak atheists) is a belief is like claiming silence is a sound. We still have a name for it -- silence -- but it definitely is not a sound. It is merely the absence of sound.

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Boy that was long. I apologize, I get long-winded on forums. I realize that debating in this forum is not encouraged so I will post an actual response to the OP's post a little later. I'm only trying to raise awareness in this post, not start conflict or hostility. I also apologize if I came across as impolite at any time. The bold is only to highlight points.
 
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And I agree with that statement perfectly. You couldn't communicate my stance better than that.

As for polite atheism, I'd say it's happening right here (at least I hope). Of course, we're not talking to people in person on the street or whatever but I think this format of simply maintaining a level of respect for the other party is all that's really needed. You could disagree with absolutely everything the other person says but as long as you don't attack them personally -- just keeping a filter on your words and your emotions in check -- everything should be great. If you've done all you can to show the other person respect and they still take offense then it's a no-win situation. Just cut your losses and decline further discussion. And needless to say such goes for either side.

Now if only it were that easy in person *sad face*.
 
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Hi Nicknack28, so there is a difference between a lack of belief in the existence of God and the belief that God does not exist? Atheist means against theist, or against belief in God. It opposes the belief in God. Therefore this word means to deny that God exists. Pretty simple really. Please use dictionary definitions in discussions. Now an agnostic lacks a belief in God, God may exist or not according to their view. I submit you are redefining the meaning of atheist to mean agnostic. A lack of belief in God says nothing about the possibility that God exists, only that the person rejects whatever evidence for the possibility of God that may exist. This view does not deny the existence of God, so God may have created everything, the idea being that the person does not believe there is sufficient evidence to support that conclusion. Agnostics then accept the logical consequences of their beliefs, whereas Atheists do not. Instead they quibble over the meaning of words and how many angels can dance on the head of a pin.
 
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Hi Nicknack28, so there is a difference between a lack of belief in the existence of God and the belief that God does not exist? Atheist means against theist, or against belief in God. It opposes the belief in God. Therefore this word means to deny that God exists. Pretty simple really. Please use dictionary definitions in discussions. Now an agnostic lacks a belief in God, God may exist or not according to their view. I submit you are redefining the meaning of atheist to mean agnostic. A lack of belief in God says nothing about the possibility that God exists, only that the person rejects whatever evidence for the possibility of God that may exist. This view does not deny the existence of God, so God may have created everything, the idea being that the person does not believe there is sufficient evidence to support that conclusion. Agnostics then accept the logical consequences of their beliefs, whereas Atheists do not. Instead they quibble over the meaning of words and how many angels can dance on the head of a pin.

I'm not an atheist but I don't think atheist means against theists. That's anti-theism. I don't think atheism is against a belief in god. Atheists just don't have a belief in god. I would say some atheists are anti-theists.

Atheists might say they don't believe in god but it is a possibility. That's not an agnostic. An agnostic is a person who claims that they cannot know for certain the existence of God. So theists and atheists can be agnostic too since it isn't about whether they have a belief in god but about whether they feel god can be proven.

Aren't we all quibbling over the meaning of words?
 
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I'm not an atheist but I don't think atheist means against theists. That's anti-theism. I don't think atheism is against a belief in god. Atheists just don't have a belief in god. I would say some atheists are anti-theists.

Atheists might say they don't believe in god but it is a possibility. That's not an agnostic. An agnostic is a person who claims that they cannot know for certain the existence of God. So theists and atheists can be agnostic too since it isn't about whether they have a belief in god but about whether they feel god can be proven.

Aren't we all quibbling over the meaning of words?

I can agree perfectly with Optimistic's assessment. What you stated, Van, whether it is the "true" definition of atheism or not, is what most atheists (at least those who have consciously come to their position) seem to believe. Whether it is hijacking the agnostic position or not (a debate in itself), I honestly don't have much interest in debating terms' technicalities or origins. What is most useful is looking what the people using the term actually think. It is exactly as you said:

A lack of belief in God says nothing about the possibility that God exists, only that the person rejects whatever evidence for the possibility of God that may exist. This view does not deny the existence of God, so God may have created everything, the idea being that the person does not believe there is sufficient evidence to support that conclusion.
I chose earlier to not put in dictionary definitions because precisely my main point is that people don't agree on the meaning. You can find a dictionary that represents your view and then turn right around and find a dictionary that represents my view. The same goes for agnosticism. Thousands upon thousands of people describe agnosticism just as you have, but then thousands upon thousands of people also describe agnosticism just as Optimistic has (and I do).

The bottom line of this whole thing is the following: neither side can agree on what atheism is or means (even if looking at dictionary definitions). Again, the same thing goes for agnosticism. What really matters is that we understand each others' standpoints, not each others' labels. If I know someone else's opinion on something then I have absolutely no need for their label.

So all in all I guess I'd like primarily like to urge everyone (including myself), like Optimistic basically suggests, to not worry about the words we're using or what label is being used where. Instead, make sure that when you're having a conversation with someone you really know what they believe (or don't believe)... not just what you might gather from extremely interpretable words or definitions. If you don't know or aren't sure it takes only a few words to find out. Just ask them. :thumbsup:

And that smiley isn't meant to be sarcastic, just friendly.
 
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Hi Nicknack28, so there is a difference between a lack of belief in the existence of God and the belief that God does not exist? Atheist means against theist, or against belief in God. It opposes the belief in God. Therefore this word means to deny that God exists.

I wanted to highlight the bolded section, because it isn't quite true. the prefix a- does not mean 'against' in this scenario. It simply means 'not'. You seem to equate atheism with antitheism, when in reality it is closer to the word nontheism. I am a good example. I don't believe in a god, but I also fully admit that a god is possible. This makes me an agnostic atheist. The word agnostic means that I am not 100% sure about the existence of a god, and the word atheist means that I do not believe in any god. Agnostic by itself is simply an adjective meaning unsure, and one can be either a theist or an atheist.

To break down the four categories

Belief in god 100% certain - gnostic theist
Belief in god, but not certain - agnostic theist
No belief in god, 100% certain - gnostic atheist (also called a strong atheist)
No belief in god, not certain - agnostic atheist

That's a good post above, nick.
 
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Christopher Hitchens goes after Mother Teresa, talking some smack about one of our most beloved saints in that smear-job book he wrote. I don't like that. :mad:

FYI the name Christopher means "Christ-Bearer." He should change his name.
 
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Christopher Hitchens goes after Mother Teresa, talking some smack about one of our most beloved saints in that smear-job book he wrote. I don't like that. :mad:

FYI the name Christopher means "Christ-Bearer." He should change his name.

I don't think it's fair to use a single atheist to answer the question "Is it possible to be a polite atheist?", which is a little bit of an absurd question itself.
 
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