Please Help Me

[Misty Minister]

Ah but DID GOD join them together or was it her new dress?

 

[Misty Minister]

Sex, boyfriend/girlfriend things usually lead to sex. Sex can lead to children. It is best to date people with similar faiths. Friends, well friends of any faith seem to be ok.

 

[Nymphalidae]

In your disobedience to God, you attempt to deny others their rights. Please explain yourself.

When have I attempted to deny anybody their rights? Please be specific and site sources.

 

[Jetgirl]

I do not understand your post. People need to know they are loved. It is a wonderful thing to love people. What is the context of your post?

I believe the post was addressing people who use the "I really love you, but I'm not supposed to be unequally yoked, and you don't live up to my religion's whatever, so see ya..." type of argument.

 

[Nymphalidae]

Relationships centered around God tend to do better than others if the partners make a habit of taking problems, plans, and goals to God in joint prayer. The power of thoes married couples is awsome. The happiness they manifest if wonderful to be around. The children of such couples tend to be happy and well adjusted, Thoes are my obeservations.

My husband and I are both atheists. We're also pretty happy. But it might just be that because Satan's firey claw is so far up both our puppetholes we don't know that we're actually miserable.

 

[Misty Minister]

From my experience they WILL hinder your spiritual development.

 

[Misty Minister]

everytime me and my girlfriend do something, i do it wholeheartedly and not just because my hormones are driving me insane. I treat her with the most care i can and make sure that shes comfortable with whatever we're doing....honestly i know that you're supposed to be married whenever you have sex, but today's times are so messed up that people are getting "married" just to have sex. i believe as long as your relationship is strong and caring then sex is fine, just as long as its something thats not premiscuous and caught up in temptation.......

Legitimizing sex by marriage is not a new phenomonon. If you do sex you had better use at least one form of birth control. Foam and propholactics are a good idea in unison. Outercourse if better. Abstinece is better yet.

 

[Nymphalidae]

Legitimizing sex by marriage is not a new phenomonon. If you do sex you had better use at least one form of birth control. Foam and propholactics are a good idea in unison. Outercourse if better. Abstinece is better yet.

And oral sex is the best yet!

What is outercourse?

 

[Jetgirl]

And oral sex is the best yet!

What is outercourse?

I believe it's a socially polite term for Ye Olde Dry Hump.

 

[invisible trousers]

I believe it's a socially polite term for Ye Olde Dry Hump.

how...chafing...

 

[Jetgirl]

how...chafing...

Yeah, no kidding.

 

[Misty Minister]

And oral sex is the best yet!

What is outercourse?

Outercourse as in no penetration.

 

[Lillithspeak]

Be sure and warn her that you are now her superior and she must defer to your decisions and learn to be obedient. I'm sure that she'll be happy to hear that.

 

[Emmy]

Dear Kinda confused,you has some good replies,I can only repeat their advice.God tells us in the bible,for our own good,to marry a partner of the same belief,I know a few and they are all well-matched and happy.If we believe that we would be strong and patient enough to bring our partner to believe as we do,I am sure that God will know and help too.(If we keep asking the Lord`s help in prayer)but if we blindly rush into marriage with an unbeliever,we are asking for trouble,unless one partner is completely willing to accept all difference of opinion and follow the partner in everything.Somehow I cannot believe in such harmony,and my advice to you Kinda confused is,you will only be able to lead a contented life,if you have God on your side.I say this lovingly and humbly.Sincere greetings from Emmy,a sister in Christ.

 

[Misty Minister]

Be sure and warn her that you are now her superior and she must defer to your decisions and learn to be obedient. I'm sure that she'll be happy to hear that.

Oh! I forgot about that! Ha Ha Ha. At least she will let him think so for awhile. Ha Ha Ha.

 

[NothingButTheBlood]

Obviously, common ground is important. Clearly you can have common ground without both being of the same religion. Unless, perhaps, one of you is a fundie. But my mother and father have been happily married for almost 30 years and my father is a devout Christian while my mother is not. Since my father does not view himself as my mother's lord and master but rather his partner and friend, he has never forced his beliefs on her or forced her to attend church. As children, we were given the option of attending church. I'm sure that makes my entire family a huge failure.

I realize you have serious issues with Christian's so I'll not bother responding here. I didn't feel my post was negative or insulting but, whatever.