dallasapple
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I guess if I had the ability to do it over again (to go back in time, I mean)......I would ask the question, "Why do you want to get married? Specifically to me?" That seems to cut right to intentions, as much as possible. Answers like, "Because....I LOVE you." Wouldn't be enough....I would want something more...descriptive (knowing what I now know).
ME TOO!!!! Because during our marraige I struggled with that question..not why did you "want to get married" period..but what about ME do you love?????There has to be something besides blind love with ZERO attachment to anything about the person in particular..and not even "love' but LIKE...what do you LIKE a LOT about me that you would choose to spend the rest of your life with me..
I "love you " and I think you are "hot" isnt a good reason..Not for 60 years..
Especially when it seems what you DONT like about a person seems to be a talent of some to flow off the tonge like a river...
If you cant write a song about what you dont like about someone your going to marry?You better be able to create a symphony of what you DO like..
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