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AndrewD88 said:Right, ok, I found what you asked. About the rules...
Well, let me explain something. The school that I go to is public, and there are so many un-Godly things that happen in High School, I am sure that many here can account for that. It's something that I really dislike and I am looking for a very LARGE change...
More-so, I want to challenge myself in Christ, to endure some of the things that temptation makes us long for the most. Like wearing jeans, I LOVE jeans, they are SO comfortable. It's kind of like fasting, you do it to make yourself more or less reliant on something. So in other words, the rules are a sort of soul / self challenge for me to become closer in Christ, to focus less on the less important things and more on the ONE important thing, Christ our saviour.
Now I know that believing that the rules at PCC hold to the key to this might be extreme, but it really depends on how far you are willing to go to love God. I know some may say they are perfectly content loving God from their homes, or in a public College environment, but what I am saying is that I am not content with that. I want to be challenged by the Lord, to endure things that most others would not seek to endure.
I am well aware that if I go to attend PCC, there will be things I dislike. I know that for a fact, that's a give-in. I have, since posting this thread, done my fair share of research on the college, and in fact, have not changed my mind on the status of my attendance there. I know that, when and if I go there, there will be things I hate, or have trouble following. But I also know that if I want to be pure to Jesus, then I will follow these ideals that are upheld by the college. The college wants to challenge Christian youth.
I am purely aware of all of these things that you have brought up, that is why I am so in need of "rules". It's not exactly that I need the rules, it's that I want to challenge myself with them. I hope that clears up any confusion or thought that you had. Thanks!
jtbdad how old are your children?I do not allow my Children to go out on "dates" where they would be alone with a person of the opposite sex.
Inperfected said:Again, i'm just curious...
jtbdad how old are your children?
Humbledmac said:So you want to be pure to Jesus. Well how is following a bunch of legalistic rules going to help you do that? i know this might sound harsh, but PCC rules remind me of the Pharisees in the Bible. they had hundreds of rules to help them stay close to God, but more than half of them didn't make since! one was a person could not walk further than a certain distance (think it was something like 500 yards). PCC may have some good rules, but most of them are extreme. and you don't need those rules to keep you on the straight and narrow. God's word, Church, prayer and the Holy Spirit do that.
another thing you mentioned was that you went to a public school, and saw ungodly things. Well that's life. Every day you walk out your door there will be ungodly things (women dressed wrong, men calling females B's and harlots). Are you going there escape that stuff? What happens when you get out? how are you going to live?
Oh and a side note, i attend a Christian college. Not everybody is saved there, but the Godly image is still strong.
AndrewD88 said:It would be quite right to say that I am looking out for myself. I mean, even though this isn't fully the issue, I know Satans trap. I know that he is out to tempt me, and I know that temptation leads to self indulgence, impurity, and lack of care for my own needs.
I see alot of students my age be brought down by temptation (drugs, alcohol, sex, crime), and I want to be different than them. And I don't just want to be normal, standing on the edge of different and alike. I want to stand in the place that God wants everyone to be, at peace with life, and living a life of purity. I don't suppose that is a bad things, is it, Paladin?
Anyway, to jtbdad, thanks for the good pointers, and you have explained some things to them that I couldn't put into words. I really do hope that God has big plans for me, actually, I know he does, and this is probably a huge step towards that...
ABOOT03 said:What college kid in there right mind would want to go to prison voluntarily??? Prison is what Pensicola is! You wonder why so many college age kids commit suicide!
ABOOT03 said:What college kid in there right mind would want to go to prison voluntarily??? Prison is what Pensicola is! You wonder why so many college age kids commit suicide!