"BTW: ... "defeating" sin... or overcoming it... that's not Your work... that's the work of the Holy Spirit that dwells within you. The war is not a physical one, but a spiritual one fought by the Holy Spirit who sanctifies you over time".
No greater words could be said, to a friend by a friend ! You and I joke around S,S . With all jokes aside this struggle is in your mind . Your mind is the play ground for negativity or positivity . The following is in "for me" format that leaves the door open for a seed to be planted or rejected.
For me, as one left the church (Physical) to delve in the word with God some fundamental truths manifested. People are trained (ME Too ! ) to locate sin. Weather this be in self or another. Locating sin takes conscious effort of the mind to identify, label and apply. This is a mind of judgment and there is no joy in a mind like that. As one sees in the OP. It is a mind stuck in labor. As mine was for decades. We being trained by people do as people do. This also is wrong order of first love that people equate more weight than God. Don't get this bent please, one loves people but not firstly. If a preacher teaches locate sin this preacher teaches negativity in subtlety. He may be unaware he does such a thing. This equates too "Who showed you, you are naked" In Gen.
Our nakedness IS, and not to be dwelled on as people tend not to preach in bringing it up in a sermon (sly is the serpent. It can use sincere ignorance of a preacher to instill judgment of the mind). I talk of the mind S,S and our duality. If negativity is what one seeks there is plenty of it to apply to ourselves and even point at another and say they sin. This gives false hope one is better than another as one takes attention from self in the act of pointing at another.
Too much subtlety in things like... Mankind thinks it is righteous in itself so lets teach judgment. I would like to concentrate on Gen:1:4. Notice: No judgment on the darkness. Hook Matt:18:22 to Gen 1:4, now include us in our duality that #1. We are limited (This takes a moving over in pride) of knowledge obtained of what "we" thought and listen to God to mold the thought inside. In this mode of thinking some sins we keep on doing but as we live life and read the word and fall in love with ___________ put your descriptor there. God goes by whatever you and Light need to bridge the gap of understanding in a descriptor. A "want" arises to give up a sin. If the want is not present then keep your joy for it just takes some time for God to show you something in an experience like but not limited too... We turn older and them tig ole bitties don't effect us the same as they used too as we contemplate getting Viagra

. There are but two choices , positivity or negativity for the mind to operate under. These come from source code of Light or Darkness Gen:1:4 . Again, add us/humanity and choice where choice is our duality/humanity/us/self. For me, it took time to learn this under Gods tutelage to understand seeking sin is negative/darkness. Who showed me I am/will be naked Gen:3:11 ? Why, "me" of course for I listen to people Gen:3:12 (this is concept applied to us all that we listen to people firstly and eat of the tree and or disobey verse 11 last part) and I have found truth to it

. For it takes darkness to show darkness for darkness judges itself in what we allow into our minds. Once again notice no judgment of darkness by the light but a separation in Gen:1:4.
Whew, with all that said one approaches the Word in a build up of self or a tear down of self and usually tear down was taught by a person Gen:3:12. Gender does not matter in Spirit teach for it has none and only God can teach Spirit to the soul and mind. Thus it looks like... Trippy mannn

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