rusmeister
A Russified American Orthodox Chestertonian
- Dec 9, 2005
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All of that Catholic stuff, as well as the assumptions that divorce (between two practicing Orthodox Christians who both express intent to repent, forgive everyone, and follow Christ) is something that can actually be done leaving both members in good standing (not legally, but in truth), is nuts. It doesn’t understand the concept of marriage at all as a type of Christ and His Church. Catholic annulment was produced in their legalism and bad theology, and it’s generally, “not our monkeys, not our circus”. Of we DID understand the Orthodox concept, we would see how horrible things like adultery and divorce are, and how they defy and nullify that conception (as does Catholic annulment in fact, if not in their theory).
I don’t see an Orthodox bishop allowing that a marriage has ended in that case of two penitent Orthodox Christians to be legitimate at all. Sure, if one has left and rejected the Church, deliberately fornicates, etc., leaving the other as a victim. But that’s given, and I don’t think anyone argues about that among us. The one issue is the now-constant efforts to justify divorce between spouses who both stay in the Church (one likely moving to another parish), considering themselves to have nothing to repent of in choosing to do that, instead of determining to love the spouse they find so difficult.
A chief problem is that, with the mind of the world infiltrating the mind of the Church, people now see marriage and divorce as purely private affairs between the couple alone, and barely see, or refuse to see what a devastating blow it is to their children, and lie to themselves about that, and do not at all see that it also affects their in-laws, their own extended family’s relations with the spouse and in-laws, friends, neighbors, fellow parishioners, and even acquaintances; in short, they do not see that both marriage and divorce are thoroughly public affairs, and not merely their private business, something Christians of the past, not dominated by the paradigm of individualism, generally understood.
I don’t see an Orthodox bishop allowing that a marriage has ended in that case of two penitent Orthodox Christians to be legitimate at all. Sure, if one has left and rejected the Church, deliberately fornicates, etc., leaving the other as a victim. But that’s given, and I don’t think anyone argues about that among us. The one issue is the now-constant efforts to justify divorce between spouses who both stay in the Church (one likely moving to another parish), considering themselves to have nothing to repent of in choosing to do that, instead of determining to love the spouse they find so difficult.
A chief problem is that, with the mind of the world infiltrating the mind of the Church, people now see marriage and divorce as purely private affairs between the couple alone, and barely see, or refuse to see what a devastating blow it is to their children, and lie to themselves about that, and do not at all see that it also affects their in-laws, their own extended family’s relations with the spouse and in-laws, friends, neighbors, fellow parishioners, and even acquaintances; in short, they do not see that both marriage and divorce are thoroughly public affairs, and not merely their private business, something Christians of the past, not dominated by the paradigm of individualism, generally understood.
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