Gay sex is an exercise in sado-masochism. In my own fantasies, the things I imagine are ways of conquering other men, of humiliating them, to bring them down to size, so that they are broken, docile and no longer a threat to me, so I don't feel intimidated by them any
more. This is sadistic and Not born of love for the other man. Conversely, on the personal side, my involvement is for my own personal humiliation and punishment for not measuring up to "man" status, whatever that is. This is masochism.
Now, here's the twist. When Jesus said to love our neighbors as ourselves, He was assumingthat we actually do love ourselves. To do unto to others the carnal things we desire to be done to ourselves is Not what He intended, because that does not start from love or show love. So, evidently, if I engage in such behavior, I am not loving myself at all. So how could I be loving my neighbor? I'm not. Each of us is busy destroying (Satanic) the masculine psyche of both himself and the other. Satan came to kill, steal, and destroy.