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"On White Privilege"

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You're still missing the point. Blackface isn't the point, white performers appropriating something black performers originated is. That's a tradition that stretches back a long time, and a reboot of the Cosby Show with white actors would be part of that tradition. It would also be part of another long-standing tradition, TV shows about affluent white families.

There is no double standard here. I'm simply saying that your idea of casting a white Cosby Show is not groundbreaking in any way, and it doesn't defy tradition at all.

-- A2SG, then again, not every successful TV show defies tradition......

Ever heard of a punk group called Bad Brains??

One of the originators of the "hard core" punk rock genre...they faced between little and no backlash from whites. Especially, an almost exclusively white heterosexual male testosterone fueled audience. Instead, today even...they're revered as leaders in the genre...even though they took what was an almost exclusively white genre and put their own twist on it. They're beloved today for their contributions in the genre...seriously, I couldn't tell you how many bands I've heard acknowledge Bad Brains and their work as influential.

Yet Led Zep takes some blues songs, turns them into rock songs and it's "the white man's stealin our music!"

Does this perverse distortion of reality do something for you? Does it ease your white guilt? Make you feel like you're a better person?
 
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It's more funny than odd. It's as if the researchers never realized that perhaps the public simply doesn't jump to the conclusions that they do.

It's still jumping to conclusions, though; a higher rate of incarceration does not prove that blacks are more prone to criminal behavior, especially if there are many different reasons behind why that is.

Which is why getting caught up in finding causes, and assigning blame, is counterproductive, as I've been saying.

Trends in reactions to a rather narrow selection of names.

Sure, that. And the trend doesn't suggest a pattern to you?

Well to me at least, telling people to avoid what's familiar is like telling them to avoid sex, sugary foods, or whatever else evolution has spent tens of thousands of years imprinting into our DNA. It can be done consciously for awhile, but we'll always go back to DNA.

When did I ever say "avoid what's familiar"? I only suggested we make a concerted effort not to assume that familiar equals better every time. That'd be like assuming vanilla is the best ice cream flavor simply because it's the most familiar....you might like pistachio better if you tried it, who knows? Not trying only guarantees you'll never know.

But you do realize that as long as there are far more Johns than Maliks, that familiarity will always be present...don't you?

Yup, but that shouldn't lead to the assumption that John is always a better accountant (or what have you) than Malik, because that's fallacious.

Discussing solutions and some vision of what "should be" aren't remotely the same.

One's a way to get to the other, or at least to move toward it.

I don't doubt it...but face it, you can never speak to enough black people to have a statistical significance in the whole of 19 million. You would have to spend the rest of your life asking black people about their experiences to even generate an opinion as significant as that study of Oakland I linked to you.

True....but black people are trying to speak up all over the place. Black Lives Matter, and such. This is why I respect Bernie Sanders so much....when black activists say they don't have a voice in politics, he gives them the mic. Trump shouts them down.

I'm saying that when an employer is seeking to hire someone, they look at more than the person's name, because that's never enough information all by itself.
Ok...and?

And....what? Isn't that a good thing all by itself?

No...but we can chalk them both up to public perception. Right or wrong, it exists...and as a business owner, I need to account for it. Heck...it's practically the entire business of advertising.

True, but there's still a difference. The same difference, basically, as naming your new beverage Lalalala or Vomit. Or naming your jelly Smuckers as opposed to Mangled Baby Ducks.

Unfamiliar is different than familiar and negative.

Here's a study of police cams in California...

http://www.theguardian.com/world/20...-body-cameras-cuts-violence-complaints-rialto

Try not to focus too much on the decrease in police violence, because they just came out with a study showing cams may make assaults on police more common. Instead, pay attention to the number of complaints that were dropped entirely once they showed the complainant the camera footage. 88%!!!

Let that sink in a minute...

What's happening there? Do you think the 88% of people probably included lots of cries of racism and improper conduct? Do you think the likely hundreds and hundreds of those complaints were just out and out lying?

Or do you think that assumptions about the police played into it?

A-He pulled me over for driving while black!
B-Sir, you were 5 miles over the limit...it's on video.
A-That's not that fast.
B-It's still breaking the law.
A-He didn't pull over anyone else, why did he pull over a black man...he's racist!
B-He can only pull over one car at a time sir...

I've never been pulled over for going 5 miles over the limit. Ever.

What does this prove? About the same as any single event can.

I'll fully grant you, a large part of the problem cops have toward the black community is that there is a perception of racism, often inadvertent even if occasionally (hopefully rarely) overt. What can be done about that? The cops need to be more transparent, and take responsibility for those times when cops are being blatantly, overtly racist. This seems to happen far less frequently than warranted, and that perception needs to change.

I'd also say that the black community needs to be better about viewing police in a negative light all the time...but if the cops aren't willing to make an effort, it's understandable that the black community would be similarly unwilling.

It needs to be a two-way street.

I disagree. Boaty isn't just unusual...it's silly.

So's Candy Kane, but she's been the top salesperson in her department many times.

Point being, unusual doesn't mean bad, and neither does silly.

I've already answered this...you can review the answer I gave if you like.

If your answer doesn't change, then my response to it won't either. It still seems as though you value a person's name more than you do their qualifications for the job at hand, and that's a mistake.

Picking more common names.

Ah. I don't recall shooting that idea down so much as disagreeing with it, for the reasons given. It remains an option, of course, for those who choose to go that route, even if it perpetuates white privilege.

Until you have a business where appearances matter. Suppose you own a restaurant...and you're hiring waiting staff. You've got two applicants, equal in every way except for one...appearance. One appears to be well dressed, professional, clean cut....the other is covered in gang tattoos, piercings, dressed in sweat pants and a t-shirt, and smells unshowered.

Who do you pick?

I guess that depends on the restaurant. An upscale fancy restaurant may prefer the former, but a greasy spoon next door to a punk rock club that stays open late may go a different way.

But, either way, now you're looking at job qualifications beyond the name! That's progress!

-- A2SG, appearance at least goes beyond just a name.....
 
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Whoa...wouldn't blacks getting film acting jobs be the same as them appropriating what whites originated then? Weren't whites first on film?

Sure, but the tradition goes back further than film, as my example of minstrel shows demonstrates.

If you're going to hand all of jazz/blues to blacks and claim whites are appropriating it....then blacks have been appropriating white culture for almost as long.

Give me an example of black actors appropriating traditionally white roles, let's see how far back that tradition goes.

Just off the top of my head, I can go back as far as Elizabethan England to find a well-known example of white performers playing black characters, and I've no doubt if we went further back, there could very well be black characters in ancient Greek plays that were played by white actors.

How far back can you go to find black actors playing white characters?

Elba as Bond wouldn't be breaking any ground there.

I disagree, of course. I can't think of any black actors who've played the lead role of an iconic film franchise like Bond before, so he'd be the first.

-- A2SG, if you can find any equivalent tradition, I'd be curious to see it.....
 
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You started the thought, I'll wait for you to finish it.

-- A2SG, got nothin' but time....

Zippo...zilch...nada...nothing.

As you saw perfectly yourself...I give an example of black racism and it's on me to correct the problem.

Imagine your response if I suggested the same. A black man is subjected to racism by a white cop...what should he do? Calmly go explain to the cop why he shouldn't be racist.

It's slowly becoming our language. Just today (not just today...but as recently) I saw a black female commentator refer to an adult white man and two adult white women as "white boy" and "those two little white girls"...not kids, or teens, but people in their late twenties.

Imagine the reverse...

A white female commentator refers to black men and women as "black boy" and "little black girls".

There would be outrage...we'd have them fired.
 
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You suppose wrong.

You can't possibly defend his broad brushing of all whites and decry the same treatment from police.

You can't possibly defend his racism towards me as in some way being my fault without perpetrating a massive hypocrisy.

Good thing I didn't do those things then, huh?

-- A2SG, look to the sig line to see the point I was going for....
 
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Sure, but the tradition goes back further than film, as my example of minstrel shows demonstrates.



Give me an example of black actors appropriating traditionally white roles, let's see how far back that tradition goes.

Just off the top of my head, I can go back as far as Elizabethan England to find a well-known example of white performers playing black characters, and I've no doubt if we went further back, there could very well be black characters in ancient Greek plays that were played by white actors.

How far back can you go to find black actors playing white characters?



I disagree, of course. I can't think of any black actors who've played the lead role of an iconic film franchise like Bond before, so he'd be the first.

-- A2SG, if you can find any equivalent tradition, I'd be curious to see it.....

Not even remotely the same...theatre acting in front of a live audience is a completely different animal than film. You can find actor after actor who's done both explain all the differences...it's huge.

I think you've made your point though, it's good when blacks appropriate white culture because it "breaks tradition" but it's bad when whites appropriate black culture...it's worth comparing to a minstrel show!

One day maybe you'll understand you can either have equality or put everything in a historical context...but you can't do both.
 
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Good thing I didn't do those things then, huh?

-- A2SG, look to the sig line to see the point I was going for....


Do you believe that there's systemic racial bias amongst the 500k police against blacks?
 
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Ever heard of a punk group called Bad Brains??

One of the originators of the "hard core" punk rock genre...they faced between little and no backlash from whites. Especially, an almost exclusively white heterosexual male testosterone fueled audience. Instead, today even...they're revered as leaders in the genre...even though they took what was an almost exclusively white genre and put their own twist on it. They're beloved today for their contributions in the genre...seriously, I couldn't tell you how many bands I've heard acknowledge Bad Brains and their work as influential.

Yet Led Zep takes some blues songs, turns them into rock songs and it's "the white man's stealin our music!"

Does this perverse distortion of reality do something for you? Does it ease your white guilt? Make you feel like you're a better person?

Whoa, dude. You're starting to sound hostile here, and we've been getting along so well up to now!

The point, let's not forget, was defying tradition. White artists have been appropriating black music for a long time, going back to at least the 19th century. I'm not defending that practice, nor condemning it...simply acknowledging it's existence as a tradition.

You cite an example of a black band appropriating white music, aka punk. Fine. I'm sure they're a talented band, and they're defying tradition in the punk world. I'm cool with that.

My point, and my only point for this little tangent, is that to create a tv show about an affluent white family isn't defying tradition. To base that show on a show originated by black performers isn't defying tradition either.

On the other hand, to have a black man as the star of an iconic, long-standing film franchise that has never had a black actor in that role, that would be defying tradition.

That's all I'm saying. No more, no less.

-- A2SG, keep in mind, I like Led Zeppelin.....
 
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Whoa, dude. You're starting to sound hostile here, and we've been getting along so well up to now!

The point, let's not forget, was defying tradition. White artists have been appropriating black music for a long time, going back to at least the 19th century. I'm not defending that practice, nor condemning it...simply acknowledging it's existence as a tradition.

You cite an example of a black band appropriating white music, aka punk. Fine. I'm sure they're a talented band, and they're defying tradition in the punk world. I'm cool with that.

My point, and my only point for this little tangent, is that to create a tv show about an affluent white family isn't defying tradition. To base that show on a show originated by black performers isn't defying tradition either.

On the other hand, to have a black man as the star of an iconic, long-standing film franchise that has never had a black actor in that role, that would be defying tradition.

That's all I'm saying. No more, no less.

-- A2SG, keep in mind, I like Led Zeppelin.....

Nothing hostile about it...it just sounds like self righteous hypocrisy. Would you rather I keep that to myself?

There's equality....and then there's a historical perspective/context.

For example...

I think that for the most part, the best actors won Oscars last Oscars....that's equality. If it's a white actor, it's a white actor.

If we're more concerned about a historical context...then yes, it's outrageous that no blacks were nominated.

We can't be pushing for both though. It's either equality or not...

Think of the double standards that the black community holds for a second...

"Make sure you don't consider race when hiring!"

"How dare you not consider race when nominating actors? How insensitive!"
 
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Zippo...zilch...nada...nothing.

As you saw perfectly yourself...I give an example of black racism and it's on me to correct the problem.

Imagine your response if I suggested the same. A black man is subjected to racism by a white cop...what should he do? Calmly go explain to the cop why he shouldn't be racist.

It's slowly becoming our language. Just today (not just today...but as recently) I saw a black female commentator refer to an adult white man and two adult white women as "white boy" and "those two little white girls"...not kids, or teens, but people in their late twenties.

Imagine the reverse...

A white female commentator refers to black men and women as "black boy" and "little black girls".

There would be outrage...we'd have them fired.

It's a pendulum shift. At one time, blacks were forced -- at times literally -- to be respectful to whites, even when the white person didn't deserve it. With that no longer a legal, or physical requirement, the pendulum of respect can often be seen to go back the other way.

This isn't to say such things are justified, only that they often happen. Is it a double standard?

Yup.

-- A2SG, sometimes, white privilege carries a bit of noblesse oblige.....
 
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Not even remotely the same...theatre acting in front of a live audience is a completely different animal than film. You can find actor after actor who's done both explain all the differences...it's huge.

Sure, but it's all performance. The medium may change, but that's all.

I think you've made your point though, it's good when blacks appropriate white culture because it "breaks tradition" but it's bad when whites appropriate black culture...it's worth comparing to a minstrel show!

See, here's where you've missed the point entirely. I'd even say you've gone out of your way to miss it. Allow me to demonstrate:

Show me where I've said it's "good."

One day maybe you'll understand you can either have equality or put everything in a historical context...but you can't do both.

Sure you can. In fact, you need both. You can't see how far you've come if you don't look back and see where you were.

-- A2SG, and that requires an honest look back, not a white-washed one....
 
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Do you believe that there's systemic racial bias amongst the 500k police against blacks?

I do believe there's a systemic racial bias in policework, as there is in much of our society; however, that said, I don't believe any more than a very small minority of cops are actually, overtly racist.

-- A2SG, another reason I don't believe in assigning blame.....most of us aren't to blame.....
 
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It's a pendulum shift. At one time, blacks were forced -- at times literally -- to be respectful to whites, even when the white person didn't deserve it. With that no longer a legal, or physical requirement, the pendulum of respect can often be seen to go back the other way.

This isn't to say such things are justified, only that they often happen. Is it a double standard?

Yup.

-- A2SG, sometimes, white privilege carries a bit of noblesse oblige.....

Well...that's refreshing!

At least you can admit that it's a double standard.

Do you understand that by definition...that's not equality?
 
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Sure, but it's all performance. The medium may change, but that's all.



See, here's where you've missed the point entirely. I'd even say you've gone out of your way to miss it. Allow me to demonstrate:

Show me where I've said it's "good."



Sure you can. In fact, you need both. You can't see how far you've come if you don't look back and see where you were.

-- A2SG, and that requires an honest look back, not a white-washed one....

Ever read 1984? You don't have to....There's a concept in it that's utterly ridiculous, and honestly, I never thought I'd see it in my time.

It's called doublespeak.

It's the idea that the populace can hold two completely contradictory statements in their minds at the same time...believing whatever the circumstances dictate.

For example...

We lower the bar for blacks and latinos to get into the Ivy League. Stanford has admitted as much. If the standards are even for everyone...25% less blacks would get admitted and almost 50% less latinos.

Yet, for any employer, they're supposed to hold the idea that the degree from Stanford means as much when a black man has it as does a white...even though they know it doesn't.

It's really no different than doublespeak.

"Don't consider race when hiring! Equal chances for blacks and whites!"

"What? You didn't consider race and the Oscars are all white?!? I'm protesting!"

It's almost shocking to hear you admit it...

"It's systemic racial bias when blacks tell me how the police treat them!"

"Just because a majority of police have been assaulted or shot by blacks doesn't justify some sort of broad brushing! Their personal experiences don't translate to all blacks!"
 
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Nothing hostile about it...it just sounds like self righteous hypocrisy. Would you rather I keep that to myself?

I'd rather you not assume hypocrisy where none exists.

There's equality....and then there's a historical perspective/context.

Yup. One can have one, or at least strive toward it, and still remember the other. In fact, I'd say it's necessary.

For example...

I think that for the most part, the best actors won Oscars last Oscars....that's equality. If it's a white actor, it's a white actor.

What about nominations? Is it your contention that not one single black actor gave a performance worthy of even being nominated at all?

If we're more concerned about a historical context...then yes, it's outrageous that no blacks were nominated.

We can't be pushing for both though. It's either equality or not...

Not sure how this is an either/or thing, exactly.

Think of the double standards that the black community holds for a second...

"Make sure you don't consider race when hiring!"

"How dare you not consider race when nominating actors? How insensitive!"

One, race shouldn't be considered when hiring generally...because skin color is rarely a relevant job requirement.

Two, there are times when it is. Actors are often hired based on appearance just as much as on acting ability, and that's an entirely relevant job requirement.

Granted, that isn't to say it always is. Some roles can just as easily be played by a white actor as by a black one. We should only make race a criteria when it needs to be one, and strive to ignore it when it isn't.

-- A2SG, the same goes for black actors, white actors, asian actors, hispanic actors, etc. across the board.....
 
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Well...that's refreshing!

At least you can admit that it's a double standard.

I've never said it wasn't.

Do you understand that by definition...that's not equality?

Yup.

I also never said it was.

-- A2SG, not sure what you think I'm saying now, or what you thought I was saying before....the two really haven't changed much....
 
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Ever read 1984? You don't have to....There's a concept in it that's utterly ridiculous, and honestly, I never thought I'd see it in my time.

It's called doublespeak.

It's the idea that the populace can hold two completely contradictory statements in their minds at the same time...believing whatever the circumstances dictate.

For example...

We lower the bar for blacks and latinos to get into the Ivy League. Stanford has admitted as much. If the standards are even for everyone...25% less blacks would get admitted and almost 50% less latinos.

Yet, for any employer, they're supposed to hold the idea that the degree from Stanford means as much when a black man has it as does a white...even though they know it doesn't.

It's really no different than doublespeak.

"Don't consider race when hiring! Equal chances for blacks and whites!"

"What? You didn't consider race and the Oscars are all white?!? I'm protesting!"

It's almost shocking to hear you admit it...

"It's systemic racial bias when blacks tell me how the police treat them!"

"Just because a majority of police have been assaulted or shot by blacks doesn't justify some sort of broad brushing! Their personal experiences don't translate to all blacks!"

See where trying to find a cause for all this leads us down the road to assigning blame? It's completely counterproductive.

Which is what I've been saying all along!

Fact is, the playing field is uneven.

How do we make it less uneven?

I've yet to hear any perfect solutions that have no downside to them at all, so all we're left with is imperfect ideas that work in some ways, but don't work in every way.

Until some better ideas come along, we have to go with what we got, and try our best.

-- A2SG, if you have any better ideas, especially ones with no downside at all, feel free to mention them.....
 
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I've never said it wasn't.



Yup.

I also never said it was.

-- A2SG, not sure what you think I'm saying now, or what you thought I was saying before....the two really haven't changed much....

Sorry...I thought all this time you were pushing for equality...not a double standard.
 
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Sorry...I thought all this time you were pushing for equality...not a double standard.

I strive for it, while acknowledging that we're not there yet.

-- A2SG, taking two steps forward and one step back is still progress...
 
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