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Thank You, Henry.

I think this can still be a productive conversation though. I mean, we ARE generating alot of reports. So, if we can figure out how to stop doing that, it would not be a bad thing, true?

Lisa
frick claims that it's mostly all INNER CC members doing this reporting tho...
what do you do w/ that?
 
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:amen:

Oh, and while I do hope CC is not at an end, if it is (and even if it isn't!), the fundies here (regardless of your politics or what kind of church you attend) are more than welcome to join us in the Fundamentalist forum any time.
:idea: :thumbsup:
 
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frick claims that it's mostly all INNER CC members doing this reporting tho...
what do you do w/ that?
I would love to see the percentage stat of reports involving members of frick's forum
 
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frick claims that it's mostly all INNER CC members doing this reporting tho...
what do you do w/ that?
I don't do anything with that. He shouldn't be divulging that sort of info anyways IMO. He's not even an ET moderator. Ignore it.

In the meantime, I say WE stop reporting and then we can see who's really causing all the trouble. If you see something that's a violation, I say we PM the ET Admins and ask their opinion. ;)
 
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You guys are probably going to kick me out of the forum but the majority of the reports being generated could have been prevented. There are many ways to express our views and defend our positions that do not involve addressing the poster. Frankly, I find it that, when a defense of a belief degenerates into a personal emotional attack, the defense has already been lost. There is no need to flame or call people by name or call groups by name. We can defend and win simply by addressing the issue and not the poster.
 
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frick claims that it's mostly all INNER CC members doing this reporting tho...
what do you do w/ that?
Well he's probably right about that, but that's because there are obviously people who have joined the membership for the purpose of causing trouble, not because they support conservative theology.
 
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I perused the Ecumenical reports too........

IMO, close off CCC to members only for a 2 week cooling off period. Spite reports and posters should be banned. Non-CC mods need to butt out.
*I say gether a team of conservative Mods and Admins who have a conservative track record and call a council:preach: to come in here and talk to us, let us be heard without interferance from non-cc members to work this out.
 
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You guys are probably going to kick me out of the forum but the majority of the reports being generated could have been prevented. There are many ways to express our views and defend our positions that do not involve addressing the poster. Frankly, I find it that, when a defense of a belief degenerates into a personal emotional attack, the defense has already been lost. There is no need to flame or call people by name or call groups by name. We can defend and win simply by addressing the issue and not the poster.
Hen, you've earned alot of my respect the past week, I wouldn't want you kicked anywhere! lol

And by the way, you're right. (but not all those were RV's as I recall) - alot of it was spite & they weren't violations. (& 2 shouldn't of been:p :mad: )

You make a good point and I agree. It still leaves us with member issues tho. (I think):scratch:
 
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I perused the Ecumenical reports too........

IMO, close off CCC to members only for a 2 week cooling off period. Spite reports and posters should be banned. Non-CC mods need to butt out.
*I say gether a team of conservative Mods and Admins who have a conservative track record and call a council:preach: to come in here and talk to us, let us be heard without interferance from non-cc members to work this out.
:bow: :bow: :bow:

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Fantastic ideas.
 
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You guys are probably going to kick me out of the forum but the majority of the reports being generated could have been prevented. There are many ways to express our views and defend our positions that do not involve addressing the poster. Frankly, I find it that, when a defense of a belief degenerates into a personal emotional attack, the defense has already been lost. There is no need to flame or call people by name or call groups by name. We can defend and win simply by addressing the issue and not the poster.
Henry brother, with all due respect look at this

Nadiine said:
I draw a dividing line with liberals into 2 camps. The unsaved and those who claim to be Christian.

I don't divide from the lost - I'm not called to "not sit with sinners". I keep my liberal friends and feel no guilt and I know there's nothing wrong with that. I love them dearly.

Those claiming Christianity yet preaching another gospel than that which I'm taught?
I divide it there. Biblically, God tells us to for a reason.

How does it look to the weak Christian when we sit & chat with them as "buddies" yet warn them, "don't learn from them"???
If we make them our friends, then we also teach that they aren't any danger either.

How does it look to new Christians, the weak? I think it sets a contradictory message.




I only ask brother HOW is this a violation? Stating a conservative opinion, that liberal doctrine should be divided from, this post was found in violaiton. How is it we are supposed to feel like we can speak brother?


Not speaking as an alarmist, but as one who knows that if we look at the real problems we can solve them
 
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Hen, you've earned alot of my respect the past week, I wouldn't want you kicked anywhere! lol

And by the way, you're right. (but not all those were RV's as I recall) - alot of it was spite & they weren't violations. (& 2 shouldn't of been:p :mad: )

You make a good point and I agree. It still leaves us with member issues tho. (I think):scratch:

Thanks Nadiine. I love you too.:hug::hug::hug::hug:

The member issues we can work on together. Most of us here know each other rather well and I would hope that we would listen and take correction from each other.
 
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Henry brother, with all due respect look at this

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I only ask brother HOW is this a violation? Stating a conservative opinion, that liberal doctrine should be divided from, this post was found in violaiton. How is it we are supposed to feel like we can speak brother?


Not speaking as an alarmist, but as one who knows that if we look at the real problems we can solve them
*edit* OH DUH.. my mistake. I forgot my own post LOL
*croak*

I think with Lee's new rules we might not be able to discuss this in a post like this -
should probly not do this here... or it mite derail lisa's thread too.
 
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It was changed by staff tho - it originally read liberal, not Christian.
(I was also suposed to be able to edit it)

I think with Lee's new rules we might not be able to discuss this in a post like this -
should probly not do this here... or it mite derail lisa's thread too.

No, this conversation is open. Err...open to members. Discuss away!

Lisa
 
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No, this conversation is open. Err...open to members. Discuss away!

Lisa
Thanks Lisa

My only point is that we cant just say there is no problem when we cant state a conservative opinion based on a conservative rendering of scripture.

I dont mean this to down anyone, but if we dont see the problems fo rwhat they are they can never be fixed.

We can all be a part of the solution, working together to protect CC and its members, and we should act now imho.

I'm willing to help any way i can
 
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Thanks Lisa

My only point is that we cant just say there is no problem when we cant state a conservative opinion based on a conservative rendering of scripture.

I dont mean this to down anyone, but if we dont see the problems fo rwhat they are they can never be fixed.

We can all be a part of the solution, working together to protect CC and its members, and we should act now imho.

I'm willing to help any way i can
K, one of our dear members today posted that she's afraid to post her conservative views here... how do we run a conservative forum this way?? (I think Time read that one too?)
 
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Henry brother, with all due respect look at this

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I only ask brother HOW is this a violation? Stating a conservative opinion, that liberal doctrine should be divided from, this post was found in violaiton. How is it we are supposed to feel like we can speak brother?


Not speaking as an alarmist, but as one who knows that if we look at the real problems we can solve them

Eric,

Nadiines post was found a violation because of the following line.

I draw a dividing line with liberals into 2 camps. The unsaved and those who claim to be Christian.

This sentence as written is a flame because it divides liberals into ONLY 2 camps. The unsaved and those who claim to be Christians. The problem is not what Nadiine said is how she said it. The rules of this website are specific to the extend that you cannot call someone unchristian if they claim to be a Christian. This is not an attack on Nadiine but it is a violation based on the site rules. We as mods have to rule reports ONLY from the standpoint of the rules otherwise it would not be unbiased.
 
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K, one of our dear members today posted that she's afraid to post her conservative views here... how do we run a conservative forum this way?? (I think Time read that one too?)
Yes i did, and shes a great lil poster too, its sad. We cant let it be this way, we are just wrong for allowing it imo
 
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Eric,

Nadiines post was found a violation because of the following line.



This sentence as written is a flame because it divides liberals into ONLY 2 camps. The unsaved and those who claim to be Christians. The problem is not what Nadiine said is how she said it. The rules of this website are specific to the extend that you cannot call someone unchristian if they claim to be a Christian. This is not an attack on Nadiine but it is a violation based on the site rules. We as mods have to rule reports ONLY from the standpoint of the rules otherwise it would not be unbiased.

Those are Erwin's 7-7-07 rules. I didn't think they still applied.

Lisa
 
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No, this conversation is open. Err...open to members. Discuss away!

Lisa
K. But my statement made was in context to say I draw a dividing line between 2 camps
the lost & those who CLAIM Christianity.

That was a conservative statement -- even Simon Templar noted on the report that was correct in language.
If we cannot speak in conservative "lingo"... why are we here?
I'd then use what Latreia says, "back to the catacombs".
 
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