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They will get better. And I don't mean to sound trite, and I'm sure you are feeling a loss of support in getting "dumped" (so sorry, dear one) - but gently I want to say that it sounds like you need to focus on YOU right now. Anyone who won't stand by you when you need them is not someone who deserves to have you anyway.

It will get better. You remain in my prayers. HUGS!!!
 
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I'm awake I actually slept quite well last night still feeling blah. I just don't know how to move forward. This med change over was supposed to be a good thing and I feel like my world has fallen apart in the last few days
 
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One day at a time, one hour at a time, one minute at a time. It can take a while for meds to kick in, they often require a build-up. Good sleep is a victory! Sleep is a huge part of our mental health.

Moving forward might be just taking a shower. It might be getting out of bed. Every day is different.
 
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Joseph Hazen said:
One day at a time, one hour at a time, one minute at a time. It can take a while for meds to kick in, they often require a build-up. Good sleep is a victory! Sleep is a huge part of our mental health. Moving forward might be just taking a shower. It might be getting out of bed. Every day is different.
I don't have the leisure of staying in bed even tho that's all I want to do I'm to busy working to pay my bills
 
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I don't have the leisure of staying in bed even tho that's all I want to do I'm to busy working to pay my bills

Very often I have found that getting out of bed and having things to DO does more to make you feel better than staying in bed. Especially day after day.

I hope you find some enjoyment in your job and that it gets you around people - at least that's what I enjoy about work.

And these days sometimes just having a job is a blessing. It's better than having bills to pay and no job ...

Still praying for you. :)
 
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Thanks yea I have people that care around me so it's not horrible but I'm just shattered atm

If there were meds to cure a broken heart - that would be a best seller... i assure you.

:thumbsup:

However; the meds will will help in the long run. You have to separate this recent situation from the meds working.
Anyone going thru a break up has a little to work out aside from how the medications work - cos its an emotional problem ATM - but a temporary one - that will dissipate with time. Time heals.

Meantime - it could be what you needed to focus on healing... and look forward to a new tomorrow with new possibilities. Not trying to sound trite - or suggesting its a small thing - but time does heal.
 
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ArmyMatt - him speak truth :)

Think I said something along the lines of you will be able to look back and see the interval between the bad patches lengthening and also the time a bad patch lasts getting shorter .

Hang in - things ARE getting better
 
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Anhelyna said:
ArmyMatt - him speak truth :) Think I said something along the lines of you will be able to look back and see the interval between the bad patches lengthening and also the time a bad patch lasts getting shorter . Hang in - things ARE getting better
I don't care anymore
 
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