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MehGuy

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Wonder what's going to happen to a lot of these millennial female SJWs as they get older? When they are in their 20s many men will cut them some slack because they're still cute and attractive looking.. can't imagine how they'd be treated when they are in their 40s and above if they continue preaching their hypocritical SJW views.
 
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Remember watching a few videos of SJW women being filmed on the street.. these women were around their 40s and they were more vile to stomach than the ones I see who are younger. Not that their ideas were worse.. but there is nothing cute about them to numb the mind to the shallowness they're spreading.
 
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I really hate it when other people feel they have a certain problem but before taking care of it have to project it onto someone else just so they feel better about themselves.

And then continue to pry and/or preach after I keep saying the word "No". As if the word is completely foreign to them.


I think you need to do x and y.
No.
Well why not? (always have to give an explanation else we just can't let it go, for some reason)
Did that once before; it only harmed me than help me. And I am not interested in trying it again. Not my thing.
Well, I think you need to -
No.
Fine, I'm going to try x and y, though.
Okay, that's fine. I'm not stopping you.
*obviously patronizing sigh* Well, you might regret this if you -
No. Now please let it be. *gets up to leave the room*
Why won't you just do this?!
NO.
 
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People who think they can make a big deal about a guy's height but I can't make a big deal about a woman's youthfulness..

Taller men look more masculine to you, and women in their early 20s look more feminine to me.

The evolutionary psychology is the same, two sides of the same coin. Thankfully for me I'm in a BDSM scene where plenty of women are attracted to older men. Heck, men in their early 20s often get mocked in the BDSM scene and called gross because they don't look manly enough. Lol.

Just been angry lately over a tweet I read mocking short men that has now close to 60k likes.. and sadly the morons trying to mock her don't even know how to body shame women right.
 
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Yes, perhaps that is best, Wayholk.

I hope you are feeling better today, though. :)

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My mother just came home and told me about this crazy dude who came to her workplace and cussed out everyone there in a violent rage. Apparently it was actually bad enough to this time finally warrant calling the cops on a minority. She said the dude was even calling her other black co-workers racial slurs.

So I guess my rant for this post is: why do all the horrible human beings in Houston seem to congregate to the Harris County hazardous waste drop-off site?
 
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Also the women who make fun of short men.. women get more masculine looking as they get older.. especially if you're short yourself you'll come to resemble more and more the appearance of manlet yourself.

Seriously the term "female manlet" needs to be a thing.
 
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So all these hot mom lovers are just into masculine women?

Psychologically and perhaps physically most likely.

Why the need to use the term "hot mom".. lol..

The cougar phenomenon is overrated. Most older women will never qualify as a cougar, and for most younger men it's just a change of pace and they most certainly probably don't want a long lasting relationship with them.
 
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Psychologically and perhaps physically most likely.

Why the need to use the term "hot mom".. lol..

The cougar phenomenon is overrated. Most older women will never qualify as a cougar, and for most younger men it's just a change of pace and they most certainly probably don't want a long lasting relationship with them.

I don't mind some older ladies. I never thought about the fact that they look more masculine though.:scratch:
 
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I don't mind some older ladies. I never thought about the fact that they look more masculine though.:scratch:

Really? Rougher skin doesn't look more masculine? The psychology of them being older doesn't have a more masculine tone to it?
 
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If you want to talk about role reversals, I know women who like shorter and more feminine looking men.

At the end of the day when you take decades into consideration I think men and women are rejected and ignored quite evenly.
 
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Really? Rougher skin doesn't look more masculine? The psychology of them being older doesn't have a more masculine tone to it?

When I see a beautiful older woman, I'm not exactly thinking about her increase in masculinity compared to her 20s. Didn't even realize that was going on.
 
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When I see a beautiful older woman, I'm not exactly thinking about her increase in masculinity compared to her 20s. Didn't even realize that was going on.

I did not realize this until fairly recently as well. Not to say that some women don't still have a feminine spark during their 40s or even 50s. Gwen Stefani still looks good for pushing 50, but let's be honest here she is a rare occurrence.

The thing that opened my eyes was when I was reading a news article about Nancy Kerrigan and Tonya Harding which featured current photos of them. Scrolling down the comment section my eye caught one comment "wow.. why women look more like men as they get older"? Some fellow commenters were like "that's not nice" but others were like "I never looked at it that way before, guess that's part of my unattraction towards older women".

As for why I started bringing up the fact myself has to do with the arguments I would get with women on this website who were shaming short men. My response was "women look worse as they age". They then usually respond with "so do men!". Then I thought "hmm.. not that older men who are balding and have beer bellies are not gross.. but why do men make a bigger deal about age than women?" Then it hit me, that people in general look more masculine as they get older. Due to issues like less youthful hair and more rugged skin. A man who works out and has a decent build like Joe Rogan only looks more manly as they get older, even a woman who's thin and takes care of herself still suffers from this universal increasing appearance of masculinity.
 
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@MehGuy So you think younger men who are into older women like more masculine women?

Yeah. Again why use terms like "hot mom". If you want to compare the differences between masculinity and femininity.. it's closer to a parent and child relationship.

Think about it, most women want a man who's taller than them (like a parent) who can provide for them (like a parent). As for why some men have this psychology it's probably because men were also children once and probably retain semi-hardwiring needs as women. Although for the most part, I think most men feel fulfilled when they are the traditionally masculine one in the relationship.

Does seem like masculinity has to be encouraged more, and it's something one has to work for. Most men who retain more child-like psychology will have a tough time attracting women.
 
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