Not good enough for a social life

[Far Side Of the Moon]

I think the most freeing thing for me was to accept that I was introverted, socially awkward, etc. Because if we don't accept that part of ourselves, we often tend to shame ourselves or beat ourselves down over it and how we wish we were different. Don't get me wrong though, God can most definitely help us grow in those areas and help us become more social. But I think acceptance helps a lot and allows us to live a bit more freely without self-judgement. I also live with my mom and I think, as Tolworth John mentioned, many people still live with their parents. I help out with bills, gas, cooking, cleaning so I see nothing wrong with it. I still very much want my own place and am working to live on my own but for now, during the waiting process/season, I am content. God can help with the socially awkward part. I remember him putting me in social situations, which of course was super uncomfortable for me at the time, and it was Him answering my prayers to be more social/comfortable in social settings. So yeah, it definitely takes a lot of practice, time, patience, and exposure to social events/group setting. Your work is a great way to start interacting more. Skype is another great way to interact with people-preferably Christian brethren- who can help you practice become comfortable socialising and growing in fellowship with Christ.

Agreed, I always hated how awkward I was but now I don't really think about it too much.